We often say that the poor raise the son and the rich raise the daughter. The wealth here is not only material wealth, but also spiritual wealth. People are poor but their aspirations cannot be poor.
After reading the original work of "Golden Fen Family", I have a further understanding of "spiritual enrichment".
has low self-esteem and is sensitive
is lonely in autumn was born in a scholarly family, but she has become lonely in her generation. Since her father left, the life of an orphan and a widowed mother is even more stretched. But even so, she still has the opportunity to go to school and receive an education. The knowledge in
books can be learned in school, and the confidence and confidence that can be rooted in the heart comes from family education . Obviously, Mother Leng never gave her these things.
has a dignified appearance and strong self-esteem, and these are all manifestations of inferiority.
For example, when she attended a classmate's wedding, she wore a fake pearl necklace that did not match her family's income.
Because of her low self-esteem and sensitivity, she is unwilling to be compared by her classmates and looked down upon by others.
At the same time she is also an ordinary girl, she will envy when she sees other people wearing beautiful clothes. But the family's income determines that she is only envious.
's low self-esteem and growing materialistic desire make her desperate to change the status quo. Therefore, she knew that Jin Yanxi was an ignorant and ignorant dude, and she still wanted to marry into the Jin family at all costs.
As for Jin Yanxi, the playful habits go deep into the bone marrow. Women are just playthings to him, without exception.
thought that Jin Yanxi was very romantic when watching the drama version of "The Family of Gold Fans". At first he fell in love with Leng Qingqiu at first sight, and he searched a city to find the girl he liked.
In the original book, Jin Yanxi was shocked to see the deserted autumn when he was on an outing in Xishan, but he left it behind a few days after returning home, because there were so many things for him to play with.
As for him moving next door to the deserted autumn, buying all kinds of gifts is also his usual trick for girls. In the original work of
, Jin Yanxi has two actors, one is her elder sister Bai Lianhua and the other is her younger sister Bai Yuhua. This Bai Yuhua was only sixteen or seventeen years old, and her appearance was three points better than that of her elder sister. Jin Yanxi was shocked when she first saw her. This woman's skin,
, was as white as snow, and with this black robe lining her body, it became clear black and white. She has an oval face, with a natural reddish white color, without any grease, with her slightly curly black hair, and her eyes like black lacquer, it really shows her gorgeousness from what is never gorgeous. Unexpectedly, there is such a talent in the White Lotus family.
In order to win the favor of Erhua, Jin Yanxi made a lot of money, even more than in the cold autumn.
After Jin Quan's death, most of the cash that Jin Yanxi got when they split up was spent on the two sisters. In the end, he would grab the pearl pins that Mrs. Jin gave to Leng Qingqiu and give them to them.
For Jin Yanxi, the only difference in the cold autumn is that the family background is innocent, and the person is also well-behaved and clean, suitable for marrying home .
And Leng Qingqiu is more greedy than those actors and overestimates himself. Not only did she take all the things Jin Yanxi sent, but she also wanted to marry into the Jin family and change her life through marriage.
So she knew that Jin Yanxi was a playboy and still devoted herself to him. As everyone knows, innocence is her only bargaining chip. When she succumbed to material things and lost her innocence, she was no longer the goddess Jin Yanxi held in the clouds, just like those actors.
When she succumbed to material things, the end was already doomed.
Leng mother's inability to carry
as the saying goes: "The son is not the godfather's fault", Leng Qingqiu loves vanity and is tempted by material, half of it is because of the cold mother. She sticks to the small details, but she can't grasp the big things.
After Jin Yanxi moved next door to Leng Qingqiu, he sent a gift box to the Leng family in the name of housewarming, and then gave him a table to eat on the grounds of being a teacher.
Leng mother considers herself to be a person who understands etiquette and must pay attention to etiquette. So he gave Jin Yanxi a piece of square embroidery embroidered by Leng Qingqiu himself as a gift.
In ancient times, women gave men purses, and handkerchiefs had a lot of love. And mother Leng gave the embroidered handkerchief embroidered by her daughter to a male neighbor who had just moved in, so she was not afraid of being mistaken by others.meeting. Did you not think about this layer, or was it intentional?
After Jin Yanxi received Sifang Embroidery, he mistakenly thought that Leng Qingqiu had already known his intentions. In order to further develop, he went to the silk and satin village to buy a bunch of silk and satin and sent it to the Leng family.
Mother and daughter couldn't put it down when they saw the colorful silk and satin. Mother Leng touched a pink satin and said to Leng Qingqiu, "Didn't you like it when you saw someone else wearing a pink long gown a few days ago, so I'll keep the pink one and make a long gown for you."
Leng Qingqiu held the silk and satin on his chest for comparison: "My classmates get married next month, I will make this a piece of clothing to eat at Xixi Bar".
Leng Mu said: "Since it's a congratulatory wedding, the pink color is a bit more plain, so let's leave a light green one."
Leng Qingqiu thinks it is best to keep two, even if you accept two, it is not too much.
said coldly: "I want to keep one too? If you keep two, I won't be able to keep it."
Mother and daughter both liked each of them, and finally accepted them all.
is a neighbor who has just moved in, why did the mother and daughter accept such an expensive gift from others? Isn't this the style of baiting women? How can there be a bit of the integrity of a scholarly family.
After receiving the gift in the cold autumn, Jin Yanxi got a signal that he could launch the next round of offensive. So I collected 1,500 yuan and bought a string of pearl necklaces for Leng Qingqiu.
Leng Qingqiu looked at the bright and clean big pearls and couldn't put it down, so he accepted it after half push.
A piece of fabric for making clothes and a pair of embroidered shoes costing 6 yuan can make the Leng family worry. 1,500 yuan means their family's expenses for a few years.
Leng Qingqiu is young and not deep in the world, so it is inevitable that his eyes will be confused by material things. But Mother Leng has seen some people in the world after all, can't she see that Jin Yanxi is an unreliable playboy. Not only did she not reprimand her daughter, but she condoned her.
Since Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi got closer and closer, Mother Leng didn't care much about her, even if she came home late at night, she didn't care much. It was also Mother Leng's indulgence that gave Leng Qingqiu the courage to spend a spring night with Jinyan Xixi Mountain.
Pregnant before marriage and forced marriage
Before, I thought that the one-night spring night in Xishan was the routine of Jinyan Xi's playful children. Leng Qingqiu was fooled by him because of his simplicity. It was only later that I found out that Leng Qingqiu was just pushing the boat with the current.
First of all, she has received too many gifts from others, she always has to give something, she can't refuse nor dare to refuse. The most important thing about
is that she needs a reason for Jin Yanxi to announce their relationship. What
just didn't expect was that when she became pregnant later, Jin Yanxi was still evasive.
Leng Qingqiu knows Jin Yanxi well, this playboy is unreliable. He is only interested in himself for a while, and when there is no freshness, he will abandon it like a shoe. Marriage is her only guarantee, and children are her bargaining chips.
So when she saw Jin Yanxi's various excuses, she pressed step by step: "If you feel embarrassed, take me to the hospital to solve this matter."
The matter of human life is at stake, Jin Yanxi did not dare to be hasty, and promised to reply to her within three days. Although
Leng Qingqiu married into the Jin family, but she knew that Qi Da was not a mistress, and the inferiority complex in her bones could not be washed away. Her only strength comes from her talent.
So on the wedding night, in the name of Kao Jin Yanxi, she did a powerful thing and asked Jin Yanxi to write three poems.
Jin Yanxi had no choice but to read a few lines of poetry, but she got stuck when she read the third line.
Leng Qingqiu: "Come on, I asked you to do the Seven Laws, how do you make quatrains? You know, you expected me to test you, and I also expected you to prepare the belly draft early, I'm afraid you should find someone to cheat. This No, I want to limit the rhyme to the question."
Jin Yanxi: "I got it, I got it, that's enough, I have to limit the rhyme."
For two people with similar knowledge, this is the joy of the boudoir. For an ignorant scumbag like Jin Yanxi, this is a public slap in the face. Leng Qingqiu thought he was smart but self-defeating.
After the death of Jin Quan, Jin Yanxi's irresponsible side was exposed. In order to take advantage of the Bai family's power to make a comeback, he abandoned his wife and children to please Bai Xiuzhu in every possible way.
inBai Xiuzhu ate deflated there, and then came together with the female star Qiu Xizhen, in order to continue to live his flamboyant life.
does not leave a trace of dignity for the lonely autumn that he once loved. Becoming a movie star, he made movies to satirize the deserted autumn and greed for vanity without realizing his fault at all. After
left the Jin family, Leng Qingqiu took her children to sell characters on the street for a living. Although he lived a poor life, he lived on his own with dignity.
If life can start all over again, Leng Qingqiu will definitely choose a like-minded partner. Boil two cups of tea, sit under the lamp with Ruyi Langjun, talk about poetry and songs, and talk about the philosophy of life. It is a pity that there is no if in life, the only gain that the dream of wealth and honor brought her is growth.
