text/Qing dance Feiyang
People with high empathy ability, watching Hunan TV's variety show, always have to prepare facial tissues, because you never know, when it is suddenly sensational, advanced and caught off guard, makes you The whole person is moved and broken!
is like this episode of the final season of "Muye Family": Joey Yung choked many times, and Wang Ziwen burst into tears: the sensation is even more heartbreaking!
The girl with wings, Joey Yung
The variety show "Muye Family" follows the principle of minimalism. The three groups of artists are most exposed to intelligent AI. They publish tasks, and then conduct data analysis, behavior analysis, and personality analysis. Analysis, and then interact with their respective guests.
From this, in the last episode of the show, Joey Yung's intelligent AI praised her fiercely. Those were objective and rigorous evaluations after big data analysis. It was such an evaluation that made Joey Yung cry and laugh, inexplicably moved.
Xiaofei, a smart AI, said to Joey Yung:
I think you are sick, you are sick with a princess, and there is a princess in your heart, so cute and full of vitality;
you are a very dedicated person;
you are energetic A very strong person is full of firepower on the stage;
you sing very well;
you are still a person who is very resistant to pressure, Xiaofei tried to find the extreme point that can make Joey Yung collapse, but it didn't work out;
you are still Casual person, because of her, the snow mountain hut is sunny every day, you are the sunshine outside, which can fill the whole hut!
Xiaofei's evaluation of Joey Yung was very high, which made Joey Yung very moved in an instant, and tears fell quietly. It is not easy for Joey Yung to do this during the show.
can see from her response: she is a person who knows how to be grateful and know how to cherish. Enjoying the moment, not letting others down, let alone herself, that's why she can make the whole house a sunny day every day.
is such a nice Joey Yung, but he has experienced criticism, denial, and hardships before he succeeded.
Joey Yung participated in the karaoke contest in 1995 and won the championship, and then signed a contract with a record company to enter the entertainment industry. Unexpectedly, she was terminated by the record company on the grounds that " is not beautiful ", and has since entered a low period. When
was the happiest in her life, what she received was not a compliment, but a denial, especially a serious denial that questioned her appearance, which was a heavy blow to a flower girl.
But Joey Yung has only been silent for 2 years. Not long after the record company he signed was acquired by Emperor Entertainment , Joey Yung, Ye Peiwen , He Jiali were called " Emperor's Three Little Flowers" by Emperor Entertainment and the media industry. ".
and then under the blessing of 's ace agent Huo Wenxi , Joey Yung's flower road became wider and wider and more magnanimous.
Joey Yung's tenacity is not only manifested in career, but also in intimate relationships.
95 was a brilliant year for Joey Yung, but it was also the darkest moment in her life. In that year, her parents divorced. As the eldest sister, she supported the whole family, especially in teaching her younger brother, she was very strict.
Looking back on her actions when she was young, Joey Yung felt very guilty. She felt that she was a little cruel to her brother. So, while the show was being recorded, she and her brother reconciled and in the video. In my heart, this family relationship that has been cultivated is mellow and touching through the loading of time.
the sameGrowing up in a divorced family, Joey Yung's affection was more on her mother and younger brother. In fact, the effect of this kind of empathy made the divorce much less traumatic to her.
and Wang Ziwen's parents divorced, which led to 's lack of emotion, and became a 'child' who was extremely lacking in love.
Wang Ziwen, who gave her a sense of security
Wang Ziwen gave the impression that it was the style of Sister Da Sa, but in fact, she was imprisoned in her heart by a little girl named ' Wang Xiaoxiao '.
Wang Ziwen said that after her parents divorced, at the age of 5, a girl named "Wang Xiaoxiao" stopped there and did not grow up. She was escaping from reality and grief.
At that time in her heart, she had always been in a state of lack of love. Even though Wang Ziwen had achieved good results when she grew up, she still had this flaw: she would always seek love from the people around her or her parents, This is very important to her.
This is the injury hole left by the original family in her growth trajectory, which is impressive but can be repaired:
Until she can give herself a sense of security and full love, and no longer greedily get it from others, this injury will also be It slowly calmed down.
This is the process of Wang Ziwen's growth and transformation, and it is also the process of her self-healing with the help of growth and time.
But even if he recovers, when he mentions it again, he will still cry bitterly. Such Wang Ziwen makes people feel distressed.
No one is perfect. Many viewers who have watched the show can see Wang Ziwen's twist and 'hypocrisy' in the show. Some people say that Wang Ziwen and Wu Yongen are not so sweet, and they feel that their emotions have faded.
But the truth may be quite the opposite. Observation programs like
can easily expose the flaws of artists, especially when they participate in the show with a lover. The small temperament between the two of them will be exposed if they are not careful. Wang Ziwen is so smart, how can she not know this truth?
The reason why she came to participate in the show, Wu Yongen may be her strongest backing.
Furthermore, two people together is a process of mutual influence and mutual healing. No matter how intense the fire of love, through the precipitation of time, it will become calm and daily.
What's more, under the camera, true love is restrained, love each other, and the true feelings can be revealed. There is no need to deliberately perform a show of you and me for the so-called love, which is superfluous.
and after watching Wang Ziwen crying and crying, Qingwu understands more about the dull interaction between Wang Ziwen and Wu Yongen in the show.
She was first a child who lacked love, and then she was a woman who could provide herself with security and love. This is the DNA that was engraved in her bones during her growth. Therefore, even if she and Wu Yongen were in love, she would still There will be a space for self-pity and self-love.
We have reason to believe: Wang Ziwen is a lifelong self-pleaser .
saw this clearly, and seemed to understand why so many people like Wang Ziwen.
is like the classic line in "Farewell My Concubine": people want to be themselves ! Isn't Wang Ziwen such a sensible person!
wrote at the end
In recent years, there have been more and more discussions about the family of origin, and many adults have blamed their own faults on the inability of the family of origin.
There is a saying, a happy childhood can heal a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood will heal with a lifetime. This is true, but the key to healing is still:Own!
The original family is an external cause after all, and it is the internal cause that plays a decisive role in a person. Too many misfortunes are attributed to the original family, and it is the weak that treats the symptoms but not the root cause.
Like Joey Yung and Wang Ziwen, even if the pear blossoms cry in front of the camera with rain and choked up, they can't hide their strong core.
Life is unsatisfactory, most of which is because he is not up to his expectations, and he will always be blamed on others. This truth is so heartbreaking!
