The 388th Bai Jie's Heart
If you want to understand "Bai Jie's heart", you have to mention Xiao Yaxuan , because this is Bai Jie's favorite actress, and she looks like her, so she is often called by her friends For "Bai Yaxuan".
Xiao Yaxuan is a famous Taiwanese pop singer born on August 24, 1979. When she was 41 years old, she broke up with her 17th boyfriend. In her "boyfriend series", they are basically handsome and chic little fresh meat. What Bai Jie admires most about Xiao Yaxuan is her classic lines: she never looks at men over 25 years old.
has entered a new era. The reason why most middle-aged women can't accept men who are older than them is that there are many theories, but in the final analysis, it can be summed up in one word: lack of vitality.
This is indeed the case. When men get older, they always like to be content with the status quo. This situation is the most typical of Japanese men. It is said that Japanese men have to prepare for death when they are over forty years old. And this blandness is like decadence, and what it brings to middle-aged women will be endless depression in future life.
As the saying goes: life is movement. Emotions are a part of life, and they also need "exercise", but many older men don't realize this, and they always summarize the emotional movement of people after middle age as: not serious.
On the contrary, although young men lack the accumulated capital, they have a drive, which is called vitality, and this vitality makes them exude vitality. When middle-aged women choose such a partner, under their influence, they will feel as if they are in spring and regain their confidence and courage to pursue happiness.
all say "men can't be without career, women can't be without love", but the "underlying meaning" of this sentence is "men lack love, women lack career." And career is the "patent" of young men, love is the middle The young woman's "excellent show", once the two are combined, they will complement each other and give gifts to each other. It is not easy to be sweet.
To prove this, the most convincing argument is nothing more than sex between men and women.
It is said that there is a study in the United States that the best age for men and women to have sex is generally 20 years old for men and 40 years old for women. Because 20-year-old men are infinitely focused on sex, and 40-year-old women are full of desire. This situation has been described by some people as: young men have sex and treat women as human beings; older women have sex and treat themselves as human beings. Therefore, once men and women of these two ages are combined, it can be said that they have a secret mind, a hit-and-run, a match made by fate, a match in love, and a perfect match.
Regarding this point, Bai Jie can be said to have a deep understanding, even unforgettable.
Five years ago, after Bai Jie's husband passed away, she has been guarding herself and never had contact with any man. Don't look at her admiring Xiao Yaxuan, that's just admiring her free and easy, but in reality, she is not ambiguous, it can be said that there is no scandalous affair. As a normal woman, it's not that she doesn't like men, it's just that there is no man who can make her move and get into her "eyes".
Once, a lot of people introduced her to someone, and she didn't miss meeting, but she failed after just one glance, so she got a nickname: "One Eyes Work", which is a Beijing dialect, which means to men. Just one look and it's over. Someone once asked her why she was dissatisfied with the man she met, and her answer was "the ass stinks." The man she said "smelly ass" did not refer to the excretion of anal excretion, but referred to the person she introduced to her. Most of them were "greasy men" who were older and potbellied, and looked disgusting like a big feces.
has been widowed for a long time, which made her lose interest in sex, and sometimes she felt that she would not have sex anymore, and suspected that she was "frigid". However, after meeting Sunja, she found out that she was wrong, because not only was she not cold, but she was even "sexy".
On the night she lived with Shunzi, she did not expect that Shunzi, who is usually docile and honest, turned out to be like a crazy beast, the kind that came out of the virgin forest.
On that day, he vented on her 11 times, from fighting at night to dawn, and he still didn't know what to do, asking to "start from scratch"...
The next day, she pulled her hips.
A few days later, she dragged her body that was about to fall apart, and went to the hospital alone to see the gynecology department.Just one step away. The female doctor said meaningfully: "You should pay attention to cleanliness in the future."
Her face was flushed with shame, and she could understand what the doctor meant. The cause of cervicitis is usually caused by not paying attention to cleanliness during sexual intercourse. .
She is a clean freak, and one of the reasons she accepts Shunja is because she also has a tendency to be clean. When two cleansers do that kind of thing, they must pay attention to cleanliness a hundredfold. She knew very well that her illness was by no means a "chemical reaction", but a "physical collision" from external forces. There is a sentence in the
novel "Long Dreams of Covered Bridge": He gave up photography after a few days, and she loves to give up farm life in addition to compressing to the minimum necessary labor. The two stayed together all the time, either chatting or making love...
In the past, when Bai Jie read this book, he didn't quite understand this sentence, thinking how could two people keep making love? But since accepting Shunja, she realized that there are such "monsters" in the world, and Shunja is one of them. With her, he wants it almost every day, even several times a day. Sometimes he clearly gave it to him at night, but when he woke up, he would have to do it again...
Bai Jie calculated that although she and Shunzi didn't live together for a long time, the "quantity" he wanted had already exceeded her ex-husband's more than ten dozen years ago. The sum of the years; as for the "quality" she gave him, her ex-husband simply couldn't match it, and there was no comparison with Sunja at all.
However, it was during this process that she discovered that she was by no means "frigid", but rather hot, hyper, not enough, and super strong. Because on the surface, it looks like he's trying to be stubborn, but in fact, it's her who wants to sing under him all the time...
Of course, the reason why she accepts Shunja is not only because Sex, the more important factor, is that she has fallen deeply in love with him.
Originally, Bai Jie was completely disappointed with the man because she had been deeply hurt.
His ex-husband was an intellectual who used to be an interpreter in the diplomatic corps. She has asserted many times that even if all men in the world cheat, he will not betray her.
However, it was such a sanctimonious "decent person" who came to her door after her death, saying that she was her man's lover for many years, and was condemned by her conscience.
Since then, Bai Jie has decided that all men in the world are the same, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality.
However, after meeting Shunja, her extreme concept began to change slowly. Because through many things, she felt that men are not without good people, and Sunja in front of her is a good person.
Over the past few days, Shunzi has been moved by many things, and there are two typical cases.
First, after the opening of the new hotel, Bai Jie wanted Shunzi to be the boss, and the license was changed to his name, but Shun's name was changed. Zi refuses to work, saying that he is the life of the work, so he can only work for her, and he can't be an official at all. He insists on being his own head chef, which makes Bai Jie feel that he has no ambition and does not want to calculate her property. Second, all the money earned by the hotel belongs to Bai Jie, who does not take a penny, not even a salary. She thinks that it is said that if a man has money, he will learn badly, but Sunja has never had a penny.
It is precisely because of this that Bai Jie has fallen in love with Shunzi deeply, and believes that he is the prince charming that he has been waiting for for five years. Hug each other and spend the rest of our lives together, just like the song "Knowing Lover" sings:
...
Whether it is now
or in the distant future
We will protect each other today's love
No matter if the wind and rain never come again
will never be affected again Hurt
My dream is not wandering
We both keep the love for each other
