Is Li Lianjie a soulful man or a man with a bad heart?
is a bad-hearted man?
For Lizhi , Jet Li has been with him for half his life and is really a "good husband".
But to another woman Huang Qiuyan , Jet Li was a "bad man" who betrayed her marriage during her pregnancy.
74-year-old Gong Xuehua mentioned in an interview that he once went to the United States to hold a concert when he was young and invited his friend Huang Qiuyan to watch it. However, Huang Qiuyan said that if she was working in a beauty salon, her money would be deducted if she could not ask for leave.
When Gong Xuehua went to look for Huang Qiuyan, she was wearing a very old overalls and was applying face for the client.
Gong Xuehua couldn't understand, she used to be a prosperous actress, and Jet Li left her all the money, how could she live so hard?
Huang Qiuyan is a good woman to Jet Li, she never disturbed his life.
But what everyone doesn't know is that Huang Qiuyan has gone through a long and painful experience from resentment to relief.
Divorced for 32 years, Huang Qiuyan can let go of the past, but she may not be able to forgive his betrayal.
01, childhood sweetheart marriage, envy others
In 1961, Huang Qiuyan was born, her father is a dancer, quite famous in the local area.
Ever since she was a child, Huang Qiuyan was doted on by her parents, and she had a carefree childhood.
Later, she entered the sports school. Here, she met Jet Li, who was 2 years younger than her.
Jet Li, compared to Huang Qiuyan, came from a very poor family. He never had enough food and clothing, and he was over 7 years old, and he had not yet worn a new dress. After
learned what happened to Jet Li, Huang Qiuyan felt sorry for him and couldn't help being nice to him. At the time of
, Huang Qiuyan had a very simple idea. Jet Li was his younger brother, so he had to be cared for.
"Come on, this is for you". Huang Qiuyan secretly handed him a lunch box and asked Jet Li to eat it quickly. Jet Li opened the lunch box and saw that it was full of meat.
"where did this come from, how did you leave such a meaty "? Meat was a rarity in those days, and many families could not even eat enough, let alone meat.
Huang Qiuyan stepped forward and covered Jet Li's mouth, and quickly dragged him to a secluded place. "I went to the kitchen to get it, you eat it quickly, it will be bad to be seen later."
Jet Li nodded and devoured it. He was very grateful to his sister for being kind to him. But he didn't know that this gratitude would not turn into love.
Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li spent the most difficult ten years in the sports school, which also made their relationship very close. Many boys around have confessed to Huang Qiuyan, but they are rejected every time.
Gradually, everyone knows that Huang Qiuyan already has a heart, and she only cares about Jet Li alone.
In Huang Qiuyan's view, Jet Li is a suitable candidate for marriage. He works hard and has dreams.
However, what surprised Huang Qiuyan was that the fate between her and Jet Li would be so short-lived. The love setting of
's sister and brother is just like the plot in a martial arts novel, but childhood sweethearts are not worth falling in love at first sight.
Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li met their parents in 1982. At that time, he had already become popular with " Shaolin Temple ". In fact, Jet Li at this time already understood the difference between love and gratitude, so he wanted Huang Qiuyan to break up.
did not expect that the two would have a deeper entanglement under the circumstances. When
was filming " Shaolin ", Jet Li was injured because of too much movement, and the most serious problem was the spine.
At that time, the doctor told him that if he didn't recuperate well, he would easily become disabled, and he would suffer from hemiplegia in the future. He lies in the hospital every day, no relatives come to visit him, only Huang Qiuyan brings him delicious food and scrubs him every day.
At this time, Jet Li's career has entered a low point, and few directors find him to film.
Huang Qiuyan one day,He casually mentioned: "We might as well get married, and I will film and support you in the future."
After hearing this, Jet Li had mixed feelings, and it seemed that there was no better way of life than marriage now. He agreed, not about love, and not too excited.
In 1987, Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan got married.
For Huang Qiuyan, what Jet Li does is right because he is the one she loves. But for Jet Li, Huang Qiuyan was like a burden, and he couldn't get rid of it if he wanted to.
02, Abandoned, living alone in the United States
In 1988, Huang Qiuyan received several phone calls in the United States, all of which asked her to film.
But as soon as Huang Qiuyan saw Jet Li and her daughter, she decisively refused.
She said that she has to take care of her family and cannot leave her daughter and husband behind just because she is thinking about her career. But it didn't take long for Jet Li to receive a call back to Hong Kong for filming, and he agreed without hesitation.
At this time, Huang Qiuyan was pregnant with her second child and had to take her eldest daughter. It was a very difficult time. If Jet Li was a responsible husband, he should not have left at this time.
can imagine, he does not have her in his heart, he only thinks about whether he can be prosperous, and never considers his wife's feelings.
Facing her husband's departure, Huang Qiuyan's thousands of thoughts could only be turned into one sentence: "Go, I will take care of myself and my children."
When Jet Li first arrived in Hong Kong, he would occasionally call home to ask about his daughter's situation and give them some living expenses. But gradually, Li Lianjie stopped making calls and did not send living expenses home.
Huang Qiuyan once called Jet Li and asked him if something happened to him? Li Lianjie said she was very annoying, and suddenly hung up the phone.
Later, when she called again, Li Lianjie only said: "I am very unhappy that you disturb me like this." Huang Qiuyan's heart suddenly became cold.
In the past year, Jet Li returned to the United States. Instead of visiting the children or taking care of Huang Qiuyan, he told her: "I'm in love with someone else, can we divorce?"
Huang Qiuyan looked at him aggrieved and nodded. In fact, Jet Li felt guilty at this time. If Huang Qiuyan did not agree, he would reconsider.
It's a pity that Huang Qiuyan was too arrogant and only made one request, asking Jet Li to give the child complete love.
From acquaintance to divorce, the two have spanned more than 20 years. Huang Qiuyan was inseparable in this relationship, but Jet Li left ruthlessly.
Huang Qiuyan lives alone in the United States with two daughters and lives very frugally.
Jet Li once said that when he divorced, he gave all his American property to his wife. But he didn't know that the house was bought with a loan, and the loan had to be repaid every month, and the money was only enough to live on for a few years.
Someone who once knew Huang Qiuyan saw her sitting on the side of the road with her two daughters.
"Qiuyan, what's wrong with you"? "We were kicked out". The little girl pointed to the distant home with tears on her face.
Huang Qiuyan was ruthlessly kicked out of her home because she couldn't repay her loan. Fortunately, a good person who once met took in the three of them, mother and daughter, to cheer them up again.
03, I don't want to remarry, but encounter a new relationship
Parents are very sad when they learn that Jet Li and Li Zhi are together.
They are worried that their daughter will not be able to go out and suffer for a lifetime.
The two old people went to the United States from China to find Huang Qiuyan, and introduced her to someone, trying to make her forget about Jet Li.
"Daughter, mom knows you still miss him, but you always have to look forward". The mother held a stack of photos in her hand and wanted her daughter to go on a blind date, but Huang Qiuyan rejected them all.
"Mom, I don't want to get married now, I will take them to live a good life together in the future." Huang Qiuyan didn't look at a single photo and was busy with the things in front of her.
After experiencing Jet Li's incident, she has lost confidence in the beauty of love and doesn't want to fall in love again. The arrival of her parents made Huang Qiuyan have a relaxed life for a while.
Every day she only needs to go to work in the store, someone at home will prepare meals and wait for her to come home, and her parents will also pick up her two daughters when it is time.
Through her own efforts, Huang Qiuyan finally saved some savings and opened a small storefront with her friends. At the same time, her new love arrives unexpectedly. After
Huang Qiuyan opened the store, it was too late to go home and cook because of the rush.
She often eats at a Chinese restaurant near the store, and slowly she gets to know the boss.
's boss, surnamed Wang, had a failed marriage. The two came and went for many years before getting married at the urging of their children. Huang Qiuyan and her husband open a small store together, and each runs a small business.
live a relatively frugal life, but they enjoy the ordinary warm life.
Once, Jet Li called Huang Qiuyan and invited her daughter to play in Hong Kong. Only then did Mr. Wang know that his wife was the ex-wife of star Jet Li.
Mr. Wang asked her that her ex-husband was so rich, why didn't she ask him for alimony to make her life more comfortable? Why is it necessary to stand alone in a small store and live a hard life with two daughters?
Huang Qiuyan thought about it and said, "I have no relationship with him for a long time, and I don't want to disturb his life."
The only time Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan were in the same frame after their divorce was at the 2015 " Shaolin Kid " actor reunion event.
She and Jet Li were far away, and he was no longer there in their eyes.
Perhaps, the past grievances have been relieved for her. However, she can avoid disturbing the other party, but she can't really forgive Jet Li for the hurt she caused to herself.
Conclusion:
Huang Qiuyan and her husband live an ordinary life, and the two daughters occasionally contact Jet Li.
Li Zhi also met Huang Qiuyan's daughter, and she was very kind to them. Surprisingly, Huang Qiuyan's daughter does not hate Lizhi, nor does she reject her two younger sisters.
61-year-old Huang Qiuyan has experienced emotional trauma and the most difficult single life.
Fortunately, she met a kind Mr. Wang who healed the pain of the past little by little.
Now, there is no relationship between her and Jet Li, and there is no resentment. She is more willing to cherish the people in front of her than to think about the past.
