's "Talk Show Conference 5" survival competition, the unpopular Jiang Zihao and advanced with a high score of 182 votes. For a time, "ordinaryness is the norm" and "I am just jealous" has become a "golden sentence" for many people to self-explain.
Many people use "happiness" to describe Jiang Zihao's performance in these few minutes, but perhaps the most enjoyable is Jiang Zihao. Perhaps after 5 years of backlogged emotions were finally vented, he felt a little proud, but he didn't realize it. For him, this could be just the beginning or the end.
This is the sad part of Jiang Zihao's performance. This is not a talk show actor's five-year accumulation, but a desperate emotional explosion of a talk show actor who consciously "underappreciated his talents" and was angry with "Why is it not me who is popular".
In fact, Jiang Zihao should not be an exception, but not every Jiang Zihao can come to the stage of " talk show conference " and express his heart.
is like a "clown",
doesn't like Jiang Zihao's talk show, there are two reasons, one is the text and the other is the performance style.
Jiang Zihao's text mainly expresses his anger. The first "gun" of
was aimed at the laughing staff: "This show is really rubbish, they don't understand anything, just a few lights will deny our efforts for a year". This part of
believes that many viewers can empathize with . Indeed, this season's laugher is indeed what Jiang Zihao said, and he doesn't understand anything. But some people say it's ok, Jiang Zihao said it seems a little wrong, because he was eliminated in the breakout match, it's really not because the leader is not good, but his text and performance really didn't move people.
And for the remaining "bullets", Jiang Zihao shot almost all of his colleagues, or to be more precise, to those colleagues who were shorter than him but more famous than him. Here's what he said -
"I don't know when this show will start. Every year, there will be a few outstanding and successful newcomers who participate in the first time, and then in their 20s, they are young enough to make a lot of money, and their appearance makes a big difference. Now a lot of people think I'm a bad and a failure, but in fact I'm just ordinary.
Everyone should know that a young man in his 20s working hard in a foreign land, ordinary and ordinary are the norm, fame and riches are perverted, they all It's perverted, the problem is that they are okay?"
"There is another kind of person who is more fortunate, he doesn't need to tear it down to make up for it, because the four walls of his hometown's house have been demolished, and the house is going to collapse, just his kind of house. , do you know?"
If you are a little familiar with Xiaoguo Culture , you can almost sit down with the above words - Wang Mian , Xu Zhisheng, He Guangzhi, Xiaobei.
Jiang Zihao not only complained about these people being young and ambitious, but also complained about their way of life: "They rent a house, they have to rent a hotel-style apartment , and they also have 24-hour central air conditioning"; The plane also has to take first class, business class, and people in their 20s can’t take economy class.”
even expressed some "curses": "It's easy to get into big problems at a young age."
Although, he admits that he said these words because of jealousy, but jealousy makes people look disgusting. At this moment, he is like a fox who can't eat grapes, saying that the grapes are sour. Also like a circus clown, under the cover of hilarity, "cry when angry". At the opening of
's breakout match, in fact, Jiang Zihao told the truth: I don't know how to be funny in the past few years. So he was resurrected by Li Dan , with a bit of "unsuccess or benevolence" determination, on the stage of the survival game, he almost "crazy" performed a "collapse of giving up treatment", the specific performance is, for The man of teenage fame carried out an indiscriminate "attack".
This kind of desperate gamble was first seen in the breakout match. In that game, he used a prop beard, and this time, he took out disposable slippers twice, which made people suspect that he might be on stage in the next game. Show off a bottleBeer, or blow up a hot water bottle, if that gets him through.
Why is Jiang Zihao anxious?
As an old viewer of "Talk Show", if it wasn't for Li Dan's repeated mention, Sister Tao wouldn't remember that Jiang Zihao had participated in this show for several years in a row. Some viewers may have an impression of him, but I believe that some viewers, like me, have a weak impression of the actor who played in the first round.
archaeological findings, it turns out that Jiang Zihao and Pang Bo can be considered to be in the same period. It also accompanied "Talk Show Conference" for 5 seasons. Pang Bo won the king, and he has a good output every year. On the other hand, what about Jiang Zihao? Annual tour.
Actually, if the talk show industry has been tepid, maybe Jiang Zihao's mentality has not been so unbalanced, but the problem is that talk shows have gradually become popular in recent years, and many talk show actors have not only walked out of offline small theaters , into the public eye, and even into the entertainment industry.
This comparison is hard not to make people anxious, even jealous.
What kind of people are we generally jealous of? It must be someone who is in a similar situation to himself.
Simply put, we don't envy Buffett , Jobs , Macy , James . Because these people are geniuses, people who can't catch up even in a lifetime, we can only admire, appreciate, and even worship such people.
It's colleagues, classmates, and even friends that we would be jealous of. Because we will think that we are similar to the other party, or even better, but the other party has gained money, fame, and honor that we did not get.
Will Jiang Zihao be jealous of Li Dan? Won't. Because he knew the gap between himself and Li Dan.
Will Jiang Zihao be jealous of Li Xueqin , He Guangzhi, Xu Zhisheng, Hulan ? meeting. Because in his opinion, his qualifications are older and his ability is not bad, but when others came by air, they took away everything that might have belonged to him.
Li Xueqin, who has only been here for one season, has successfully entered the entertainment industry, recording variety shows, filming sitcoms, and making constant invitations; Yang Li, , He Guangzhi, and Xu Zhisheng all have experience in participating in variety shows, and Xu Zhisheng even served as a resident in several variety shows; Even Rock is on Lianzong; and Jiang Zihao? There is no role for him in the troupe. The recent new variety show "It's better to make a phone call" was recorded by Cheng Lu with a non-Xiaoguo employee Zhao Xiaohui .
Regardless of fame or fortune, these people have already left Jiang Zihao, who started earlier than them, far behind.
Jiang Zihao may have an illusion, without these people, these resources may be mine. Or I think I'm just a little bit unlucky, and if the audience likes me, I'll be very popular too.
But the truth is, even without these people, these resources don't belong to you.
Another truth is, some people think that you are similar to others, you may lose because you didn't play well, the order of performances was not good, the clothes were not worn correctly, and the beard was not firmly attached, but the truth is that others are harder than you. powerful. Perhaps because
can't accept such a gap, he has the self-comfort of "ordinaryness is normal, success is abnormal".
In addition, Jiang Zihao's anxiety may stem from the influence that online has on offline.
is like what he said on his talk show: There is only one online variety show a year, but a bad performance this time may leave a bad impression for a whole year. But then again, you have two options, one, don't participate in online shows, and two, perform better. Is
Jiang Zihao really ordinary?
Some people like Jiang Zihao's performance because they feel that he has spoken his heart: I am ordinary, this is the norm, and I am just jealous of those who are more successful than me.
But the question is, is Jiang Zihao really the ordinary and ordinary young man he calls him?
resonates with him. Young people who feel that he is endorsed by him, please ask yourself a question: You have the opportunity to be selected by the company to participate in the industry's top competitions for 5 consecutive years.It will even open the door. After you are eliminated, will it resurrect you and give you another chance?
Then ask yourself one more question: Does every employee at laugh at get the same opportunity? Are Xiaoguo employees who do not have the same opportunities as good as Jiang Zihao?
borrowed a phrase from Li Dan: What's wrong with becoming famous when you are young? Especially in the talk show industry, most people rely on their own abilities to become famous, but Jiang Zihao is the one who repeatedly gives opportunities and fails to catch them repeatedly.
again borrowed a sentence from Li Dan: young people, don't be jealous. To put it bluntly, even if you "attack" those who are better than you again, you feel as if you have a bad breath, but when you wake up, people who are successful are still successful, and you are still failing.
This will be a problem Jiang Zihao must face. In the next game, who is he going to be angry at, can the next anger still move people?
And for those young people who empathize, Sister Tao also wants to ask: Are you really jealous? In fact, I think most people envy and admire people who are better than themselves rather than jealous.
should know that behind envy is yearning, and behind envy is often hate. When we meet excellent people, we see good people and think together, and hope that we can be as good as each other, or surpass them.
If it is a person who can reach by stepping, we will try our best to meet it. If it is a person who can’t even jump up and down, we will look up to, envy, and accept our own ordinaryness.
instead of being jealous of them, complaining about their success, wanting to see them fail, falling from the clouds, and clapping their hands, no?
