In 2009, the film "Yuan Longping" starring Guo Jinglin was completed. At that time, he and his wife Tong Xin and agreed to attend the premiere of the movie together.
Because Tong Xin fell ill, she was diagnosed with breast cancer shortly after her pregnancy, and she had to give up the fetus in her belly in order to cure the disease.
However, Tong Xin still failed to fight cancer. She died of illness in less than 2 years. She failed to attend the premiere of "Yuan Longping".
Later, Guo Jinglin won the Huabiao Award for Best Actor for "Yuan Longping", and he burst into tears on the podium:
"I hope I can have a good dream tonight, I hope my wife far away in heaven , to be able to come and see me in my dreams, kiss me, hug me".
Now Tong Xin has passed away for 13 years, her husband Guo Jinglin has not recovered from the pain of losing his wife, and will miss her every year, and Guo Jinglin's choice is also tearful.
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In 1970, Guo Jinglin ( formerly known as Guo Jinglin ) was born in a hutong compound in Beijing. His parents were both workers, and his family of three lived on two wages and was quite prosperous.
Because he lives in the back door of Beijing Renyi dormitory, Guo Jinglin has longed for art since he was a child, and his parents also intend to train him to become an excellent actor.
However, with the birth of his younger sister, the life of a family of three changed dramatically.
Originally, the birth of her younger sister made the family immersed in joy, but her mother was the first to discover the unusualness of her younger sister. The little person not only had a dull expression, but also never spoke. The husband and wife
hurriedly took their little daughter to the hospital for a check-up, but they waited for a bolt from the blue - 's little daughter was born with a disability.
The husband and wife were not willing to give up. In order to treat their little daughter, they spent almost all the savings in the family, but in the end, there was no miracle.
The children of poor families are in charge early. Guo Jinglin watched his parents run around because of his sister's illness, so he began to learn to cook and clean up the housework. When his parents were away, he cared for his disabled sister alone. Although
are brothers and sisters, there are differences between men and women, and there are always inconvenient times. Fortunately, with the help of Tong Xin, who is a childhood sweetheart, Guo Jinglin will not be too embarrassed.
Guo Jinglin at that time didn't quite understand the meaning of "childhood", but he understood that Tong Xin was a kind girl, and at the same time he made a decision in his heart that "will protect this girl for the rest of his life" Kids ".
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Tong Xin is not only Guo Jinglin's childhood sweetheart, but also the guardian of his dreams.
In high school, Guo Jinglin proposed to his father the idea of becoming an actor, but was unexpectedly rejected by his father.
's father asked Guo Jinglin to find a stable job after graduation on the grounds of his sister's disability, so as to solve the family's financial burden, instead of being an illusory "actor dream".
However, the arrival of a movie invitation completely rewrote Guo Jinglin's fate and changed his father's attitude.
In 1989, 16-year-old Guo Jinglin was invited to star in his first film " Previtcher Company ". After the film was broadcast, Guo Jinglin became a man of the Hutong compound, and his father began to support his son. Learn to act. One year after
, Guo Jinglin was admitted to Shanghai Theater Academy as he wished, officially opening his "actor dream", at the same time, his love with Tong Xin also blossomed, one of them was in Shanghai, the other was in Shanghai. In Beijing, the life of a long-distance relationship began.
However, fate still played a big joke on Guo Jinglin.
In his junior year, Guo Jinglin received a call from his father: "Your mother is seriously ill, you hurry home, she wants to see you".
Guo Jinglin, who hung up the phone, only felt dark in front of his eyes: "My mother gave birth to me and raised me, I haven't had time to be filial to my mother, I have never earned a penny to honor my mother in my life.Mom".
He thought that his mother had been talking about buying a wool coat since he was young, but he had never been willing to buy a wool coat in order to support himself and his sister, so he went to the store near the college and wanted to buy one for his mother, and he could see the price He was dumbfounded.
A wool coat costs 500 yuan!
Guo Jinglin didn't want to make his mother sad, but there was nothing he could do, so he thought of "donating blood".
relying on the money of "donating blood", Guo Jinglin Lin bought the woolen coat, and that woolen coat has accompanied her mother to the end of her life.
After her mother passed away, the house became a mess. Guo Jinglin was really worried, so he proposed the idea of suspending school. After
's girlfriend Tong Xin found out, she immediately rushed to Guo Jinglin's house:
"You give up your dreams now, are you worthy of your mother?"
"There is one more You will graduate in 2019, you can go to school with confidence, leave your uncle and sister to me, and I will take care of them."
Guo Jinglin looked at his girlfriend with a firm face, he didn't say much, just wrote it down in his heart In a word: "must treat this woman well".
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After graduating from university, Guo Jinglin went through a long "dark period". He was not famous or had a date and could not even support himself, but Tong Xin always Accompanying him, and even subsidizing him with his own salary. It was not until 2000 that
started his acting career. , is a little famous in the circle. After
got the salary, Guo Jinglin proposed to his girlfriend Tong Xin for the first time, and the two got married in 2002.
However, the life after marriage was not as they imagined. Beautiful.
Guo Jinglin at that time was on the rise in his career. He was busy filming every day and spent very little time with his wife. The two often relied on the phone to tell the pain of lovesickness.
Until Tong Xin became pregnant in 2006, Guo Jinglin finally took some time to spend with his wife.
However, behind this surprise, there is a huge "sorrow".
Pregnant Tong Xin was diagnosed with breast cancer, and it was still in the advanced stage. The first step of treatment is to Give up the fetus in the womb.
Guo Jinglin couldn't bear to tell his wife the truth, he was worried that Tong Xin would give birth to their child at all costs, so he told a lie: z3 0z "The child's condition is not very good, the doctor suggested not to have him first, and there will be children in the future."
Tong Xin only thought that she was an "unhealthy child" in her stomach. Although she was sad, she reluctantly gave up.
However, the frequent visits to the hospital afterwards made Tong Xin suspicious. Guo Jinglin knew that he couldn't hide it, so he told his wife the truth and agreed to fight cancer with his wife.
During the critical period of fighting cancer, Guo Jinglin received the script of "Yuan Longping", which was an excellent opportunity for him.
Guo Jinglin was about to give up without even thinking about it, but Tong Xin persuaded him to take the role and agreed to join him in the premiere of the movie.
However, this time, Tong Xin broke her promise. In the first two months of the film's release, Tong Xin's condition deteriorated sharply and left for good in March 2009.
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Tong Xin's death has always been a thorn in Guo Jinglin's heart. For many years, he has always been single, holding on to their love alone.
He also supports Tong Xin's parents all the time, and sends living expenses on time every month.
And he also honored his wife in a different way.
In 2017, Guo Jinglin's " is born on a bright day " was put on the screen, and he played such a role in the play.
wifeXiaowei was diagnosed with breast cancer during pregnancy, but unlike Tong Xin in reality, her wife gave birth to their child smoothly.
gave up the child at the beginning, it was the common regret of Guo Jinglin and Tong Xin, and Guo Jinglin made up for this regret in a special way in the play.
Tong Xin is a childhood sweetheart, a benefactor, a lover, and a lifelong wife to Guo Jinglin.
Even if people are separated forever, in Guo Jinglin's heart, there is only Tong Xin as a wife.
That's all, Tong Xin didn't marry the wrong person.
