kept writing about work and life, the stories about family were hardly involved until the movie " Hidden into the Dust " was played, and the suffering of real life resonated with most people. , can't stop wanting to keep up with writing something.
Some people say that the movie is too hard to consume, some people say that it is not correct to show the least amount of that kind of hard life to foreign film critics to win awards, and some people say that after watching the film, there is no feeling at all, some people are too " Mother's Heart".
But I know, those days in the movies, some we lived through, some we saw, and some are even happening now. People are accustomed to yearning for good things and to being rich and stable, but the rapid prosperity and feasting of the metropolis are only a small part of life. We must know that the complete eradication of absolute poverty that our country has only completed in recent years is a long-term effort. A great achievement.
My family of origin is, undeniably, very happy. But my parents were also from rural areas, and at least I did a lot of manual farming work, such as harvesting wheat, raising fields, spraying medicine, and spreading chemical fertilizers. I can resonate with the movie on many things. The following words have not been approved by my parents, and of course they are not in the slightest to win the sympathy of others. It is to tell a true story for readers:
My father experienced one of the three major hardships in life.” "A teenager lost his father", I have never met my grandfather, I heard from my father that at that time, my grandmother brought my grandfather and the second uncle who had encephalitis sequelae, my underage father, and the younger fourth aunt's family were struggling. Life. In that era of extreme scarcity of materials, even a few inches of wall and a handful of firewood were always a must in the countryside. There was no pillar at home, and widows were very easy to be bullied.
The children of the poor have long been in charge of the family, and the shrewd and capable uncle who has a heavy responsibility on his shoulders has long gone out to find a livelihood and shoulder the responsibility of the family. However, when the uncle is not at home, no matter how strong my father is, he is only a half-old child, and his father still needs to eat during the natural disaster period, his body has already delayed his growth, and how can he beat the neighbors around him?” Father and Son Soldiers".
Until my uncle and eldest brother got married for the sake of the child and planned to "continue the family tree", my father was still brooding about the conflicts between the same clan when he was young, and he was friendly with the neighbors who helped our family when we were in difficulties, and brought our family with him. People must visit every year.
At that time, the only thing my dad could do was to study hard. I heard him boast when I was very young. During high school, I never fell short of the first place in the grade. Of course, I didn't have any research, so I don't need to go to the research. I am convinced that he is a "cultural youth", and You Youqi is also good at writing, but unfortunately there was no college entrance examination at that time.
Graduating from high school means going home to farm the land. The only thing that can change the fate is "joining the army". Of course, the political review of the "three generations of poor peasants" is not a problem, but with a weak body and a small height, I worry about it. The joy of " Enlistment Notice ". After joining the army, through the active struggle of my father, with the cultural ability of "one pen in the whole army" (of course, there is no way to verify it), I successfully achieved the promotion, and the road went straight forward. At that time, our family The future direction is likely to be "accompanying the army".
In the father's hometown, as the uncle who was a poor child early, he also became the leader of the team by virtue of his unremitting efforts and popular expectations. Although it was far from being rich in that era, the family's life was stable and stable.
"The hemp ropes are cut at the finer points, and the bad luck looks for the poor", the uncle who supported the big family the most, died of stomach cancer before I went to school, and passed away suddenly, the aunt and the sick second uncle, There are also four underage children entrusted by the uncle. The life trajectory of such a large family has completely changed, and grandma suddenly lost her mind. It was my dad, who carried the mountain-like pressure on his unhealthy shoulders, and resolutely chose to change careers.
later lived a hard life, whether it was my brother and sister looking for a job to get married, building a house in their hometown, splitting up a family, moving a grave... all of them were handled by my father alone. Also at a young age fewAlthough the mother who "would love" chooses to support silently, it is impossible not to complain in her heart, so there are some rumors in the village, but I know clearly that there is only one memory left of their "hometown" when they got married. Any ancestral property then belongs to them.
For at least ten years, our family has realized the common life of a big family with a small family of three people relying on the hands of our parents, and during this period, my mother has caught up with the wave of layoffs, and the unit room that was originally free living has also caught up. After the housing reform... Of course, the strong mother also chose to set up a stall with others or even temporarily work. I have been very economical since junior high school, and I clearly remember that there is no remaining money at home in the first year of college.
Until later, two uncles, brother and sister got married and started their own businesses, especially after I became an adult, now thinks back, it is the same as the national fortune, after the new century, the overall upward development trajectory completely overlapped, our good days gradually came.
Although the older brothers and sisters live in the countryside, they all rely on their own hard work and struggle to live a stable life, and they have all completed demolition and live in buildings and even villas after and . The children and nephews of my life have also started a family and established a business, which is very worry-free.
Of course, the family is related by flesh and blood. I remember that my father was seriously ill that year, and my elder brothers and sisters took care of them, so that I, the only child in the family, could rotate. And no matter the festival, the family just wants to be reunited.
In any difficult time, even if we have nothing, we just don't choose to give up. Although there are generations of hardships, the generation of Mom and Dad, with their own way and strength, finds the light, and gives I have an ordinary and bright future.
Whenever I think about these things, my heart is inevitably choked up. Life is really hard. At that time, there were ups and downs that could not be overcome, and there were unavoidable sufferings, but in the end, it will pass with your hard work and persistence. The difference is that I have always been honored because of such a family. Perhaps because of this, I can have a relatively complete personality. Although I am self-righteous, I am filled with indomitable positive energy.
As long as I go home, I have to have at least one meal with my parents, preferably a drink, not necessarily talk about anything, even just sit quietly and fix my imperfections.
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