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" King and Xiaowang ", which is an emotional program specially created by Hubei TV station . Xiao Wang is Wang Fang, and the king is naturally and Wang Weinian . In recent years, the king is very popular, and he often appears in the Douyin live broadcast room, but he can't stop his bleak single life.
We know that he once had a marriage with Henan Opera performing artist Xiaoxiangyu ! But it was not happy. It only lasted for four years, and then the two parted ways. However, Xiao Xiangyu, who has not made a public appearance in recent years, married and had children, and lived a happy family life.
divorced in 2004. It has been 18 years since the two of them were separated. Whenever they talk about this relationship, both of them feel very cherished. Once Xiao Xiangyu was interviewed by the "Luyu Interview" program group. In this interview, we have a basic understanding of the emotional exchanges between the two people.
According to Xiaoxiangyu, when he married Wang Weinian, he was sincerely moved by him. At that time, she was starting an art school. Wang Weinian ran for her and helped her a lot. He felt that he had a sense of dependence in life with this man. Later, because the two people had different personalities and quarreled every day, they had to choose to break up. After the divorce, they did not accuse each other, but cherished the days they had shared together in the past.
Xiaoxiangyu We all know that he is the granddaughter of the famous Henan opera artist Chang Xiangyu . Chang Xiangyu is not only a performer of Henan Opera, but also very patriotic. During the Anti-Japanese War, she personally donated a "Chang Xiangyu" fighter jet to the country. When she performed in Xi'an that year, she met her current husband, , Chen Xianzhang, . Before Chang Xiangyu, Chen Xianzhang had a wife and children, and Xiao Xiangyu was Chen Xianzhang's granddaughter. Although
is not her granddaughter, because Xiaoxiangyu has a high artistic talent since childhood, she has been placed high hopes by her grandmother since she was a child. In addition to practicing every day, she also has to memorize some Quyi jokes. Because of Xiaoxiangyu's talent and the guidance of famous teachers, she has progressed very fast, and she can perform on stage when she is eleven or twelve years old. Later, she was admitted to an art school, and her talents were further explored. Since then, she has become a hit, and the fire has spread all over the country.
When she was 22 years old, she became the head of the Henan Henan Opera Troupe. She not only has strong professional skills, but also has excellent leadership skills. This is really amazing. However, compared with Wang Weinian, Xiaoxiangyu's debut should be a little later.
Xiaoxiangyu also had a marriage experience before she met Wang Weinian. In the Henan Opera "Mandarin Ducks Playing in the Water", he and his male partner Wu Jumin developed feelings for being too involved in the play. Later, she was transferred to the head of the Henan Opera Troupe in Shanxi Province. Due to the needs of the show, she also transferred this partner, and her relationship became more and more warm. The last couple of mandarin ducks finally entered the marriage hall.
But dating and living are two different things. After marriage, the differences between the two people are completely exposed. Because Xiao Xiangyu's character is relatively strong, and Wu Juming belongs to the weaker party, so Wu Jumin feels very hurt, and finally the two have to choose divorce.
After Xiao Xiangyu got divorced, she put her main energy on running a school. In order to carry forward the prosperity of Henan Opera, he decided to set up a Henan Opera Hope Primary School in Shanxi. It was at this time that she met Wang Weinian and started a marriage between them.
In fact, Wang Weinian was also born into a literary and artistic family. His father was a famous painter and calligrapher, and his mother was the leader of the Painting and Calligraphy Academy. Wang Weinian has three sisters, and he likes art very much since he was a child. When he was just 14 years old, he was admitted to Shanxi Province Jin Opera Art School. After nine years of further studies, he laid a solid foundation. After graduation, I was assigned to Shanxi Jin Theater and became a Jin opera actor.
Wang Weinian was in his prime at that time, not only with strong business ability, but also handsome in appearance, so many girls around him pursued him. However, on the orders of his parents, he betrothed to a neighbor girl with whom he grew up. This can be considered a childhood sweetheart pair, which attracted the envy of many people back then.
Because they have known each other since childhood, there was no major ups and downs in their relationship, and there was no second marriage, so earth-shattering, but under the arrangement of their parents, they held a simple wedding. After that, they gave birth to a son, and the couple lived a dull life everywhere.
Although Wang Weinian is very knowledgeable in the Jin opera world, but because Jin opera belongs to local opera. After the reform and opening up, there has been a new trend in the literary and art circles. Pop music, TV dramas and movies are widely loved by the audience in the society. In this case, he had to change his artistic category. At that time, Shanxi TV Station was filming "The General of the Yang Family", so he applied for a job during the filming. Because of his professional background, he finally stood out among many actors. He played such an important role as Yang Qilang in the play. At that time, the famous film actor Zhang Jizhong played Yang Liulang, so the two became good friends. Through the successful performance of the role of Yang Qilang,
participated in the shooting of many movies and TV series in succession.
The profession of an actor sounds very beautiful, but as an actor's family member, you will suffer a lot of loneliness in life. Sometimes one party may have to stay out for a long time because of a play, because they are far away from each other, because there is very little care for the family and emotional connection between husband and wife. Later, his wife, who no longer wanted to endure this kind of separation, filed for divorce, and they chose to break up. Every time this matter is mentioned, Wang Weinian is full of guilt towards his ex-wife and son.
Many people's marriages look like coincidences, but they are actually fates. At that time, Xiao Xiangyu was transferred from Henan Province Henan Opera Troupe to Shanxi Province Henan Opera Troupe. In order to carry forward the artistic heritage of Henan Opera, she is planning to build a Henan Opera Hope Primary School. Also because she is the leader of the Shanxi Henan Opera Troupe and has frequent business contacts with the TV station, it happened that Wang Weinian was also working at the Shanxi TV station at this time, so there was an opportunity for the two to meet and meet.
In 1994, when Shanxi TV had a program "Entertainment Gate", Wang Weinian served as the host of this program. Due to his special hosting style, the audience was refreshed and loved. The show became popular as soon as it was broadcast. Wang Weinian's name was also well-known to audiences across the country, and Wang Weinian naturally became a pillar of Shanxi TV at that time. .
Xiaoxiangyu and Wang Wennian should also be well-known figures in the entertainment industry in Taiyuan, Shanxi at that time, but they have never gotten along before. Once Xiao Xiangyu went to Shanxi TV station to do business, and an acquaintance called Xiao Xiangyu's name. At that time, she looked back and smiled. At this moment, Wang Weinian caught her, and she will keep it firmly in her heart.
From then on, he would chat with Xiaoxiangyu when he was busy, and he often flattered on the horse's hoof, which made Xiaoxiangyu not much interested in him. But after a long time of contact, they are still friends no matter what. How did the two of them change from ordinary friends to lovers? It was said before that Xiao Xiangyu was running the Henan Opera Hope Primary School. We know that it will take a lot of trouble to run a school. At this time, Wang Weinian is working very hard. As long as Xiaoxiangyu makes a call, Wang Weinian will run up and down, and in extreme cases In time, all the complicated things were done, so Xiao Xiangyu looked at him with admiration and had a feeling of admiration. From two people are single, slowly developed into a relationship of lovers. It can be said that Wang Weinian had a clear purpose from the first sight of Xiaoxiangyu, and under his constant public relations, Xiaoxiangyu naturally became an emotional captive. Xiaoxiangyu also feels that this person can be relied on in the future.
finally entered the palace of marriage after six years of marathon love. After
got married, they focused all their energy on running the school. Because acting is their forte, but running a school has to face a lot of complicated entertainment, which will consume a lot of energy.
From Xiao Xiangyu's founding of the Henan Opera School, it can be seen that she is a strong woman, and from the perspective of Wang Wennian's ability to work, she is also a strong man. Perhaps it was Wang Weinian who felt sorry for Xiao Xiangyu, and he "did it for you" for many things, but this kind of thing was thankless, and the thing was done, but it made Xiao Xiangyu unhappy, so the two often had conflicts at work. , which will undoubtedly affect the relationship between husband and wife. From an argument before, it developed into a small quarrel, and then developed into a big quarrel, and the quarrel was a chicken feather. The busier the work, the more frequent disputes between the two of them. This kind of days when one mountain cannot tolerate two tigers has planted an invisible bomb on their relationship. In the end, both of them were blown to pieces!
The best relief from this endless quarrel is breaking up. In 2004, they finally broke up peacefully, ending this difficult marriage for Wang Weinian.
can only say that once the sea was in trouble, except Wushan is not a cloud.
Among Xiaoxiangyu's die-hard fans, there is a male fan who is three years younger than himself. He pays special attention to Xiaoxiangyu, especially during the time of Xiaoxiangyu's divorce, he gave Xiaoxiangyu a lot of care, Therefore, he won the favor of Xiao Xiangyu, who is called Fan Zefeng. Although they don't have such great fame and status, love can't be bought by any money, and they finally came together. Once Xiao Xiangyu found a fibroid growing in the abdominal cavity, the doctor suggested that he could remove the fibroids in one piece during the cesarean section of the child when he became pregnant.
Later, the couple followed the doctor's advice, and finally not only gave birth to a son, but also removed the fibroids. Fortunately, Xiaoxiangyu finally found her own love, and their family is now very happy.
Although Wang Wennian and Xiao Xiangyu have both experienced two marriages, Wang Weinian is still alone after two failed marriages. He is calm himself, and after his divorce from Xiao Xiangyu, his thoughts are particularly painful, and he always washes his face with tears every day. I often drive alone on the outer ring of Beijing, crying and walking aimlessly, until it gets dark, and I often can't sleep at night.
Later, he and Wang Fang co-hosted an emotional program "The King and Little King". After watching this program, many people called Wang Weinian "the first emotion expert of Chinese men" and "the first male matchmaker in China". He persuaded countless couples who wanted to break up, but ironically, he himself was a marriage failure. It can be said that in this marriage, Wang Weinian invested too much, and he was really hurt too deeply, and he couldn't afford to lose any more, so he didn't dare to remarry.
Marriage is indeed a science, it is not about how strong you are, how much money you can earn, and how to raise a good family. You must know how to respect each other, be considerate of each other, and understand each other. It does not depend on one party shrinking back and giving in, and you can live well Yes, both parties need to work together. Otherwise, the chickens will fly and the eggs will be beaten, and it will be an empty joy!