in " Zhen Huan's Biography ", in fact, it can be seen from the promotion process of the beautiful Meizhuang that there are some unknown truths in marriage.
Meizhuang's known congenital personal conditions are very good, I am a daughter from a noble family, with a dignified appearance and hyphenation, so I have a girlfriend relationship with the heroine Zhen Huan! When
entered the palace, Meizhuang's dignified and generous left a good impression on the empress dowager, so it is logical that she would be liked by Yongzheng .
There are still men in this world who don't like beautiful women, not to mention that this beauty also has the function of a housekeeper, so in Yongzheng, he also gave Meizhuang a small right to help assist the harem, which is similar to the husband paying his wife a little salary now , Anyway, the money is not much, and the rights are not too much, but it is enough to make Meizhuang, who is in love, feel that Yongzheng treats her differently.
The women's needs in harem dramas are different from this. Unlike the wife in modern marriages, they often ask the man: "Do you love me?" Take yourself to heart. This is one of the manifestations in the primary sweet stage of marriage. You are always in love with me, thinking that the other party is everything. As long as you have the man's commitment and love, you can have the power to fight against the world.
Ordinary women are like this, and Meizhuang is no exception!
is holding strong feelings for Yongzheng, so she was designed to think she was pregnant, but in fact it was just empty joy. However, her grievance Yongzheng not only could not understand, but felt that Meizhuang was competing for favor with a fake pregnancy, and immediately ignored Meizhuang.
When nothing happened, Meizhuang was Yongzheng's obedient and good concubine, but once he went against his will, he didn't even want to listen to the explanation, so he abandoned Meizhuang like a shoe. Is
ruthless or taciturn?
is not actually, this so-called love is all about men's feelings from the beginning to the end, the so-called deep love made up by women's self-brain does not know the origin, but the love is light but no more than a breath.
However, Meizhuang, who is trapped in the deep palace, must not be able to get out of the deep palace like a modern woman. She can only resist passively. Fengxin Suoai doesn't care about everything about Yongzheng at all!
He ignored his love for Meizhuang that day, and she will return it tenfold in the future!
met the man he liked Imperial Doctor Wen , what moved Meizhuang was not only his gentleness and amiability, but also because he knew that Zhen Huan would never belong to him in this life, but he was still willing to be a spare tire Spirit!
, like flowers and butterflies, shuttled through the crowd of women. Compared with Yongzheng, the mentally clean doctor Wen is obviously a qualified lover. At least with him, he will not worry about getting sick!
removed the love filter, and the man chosen by the most practical method is really good, this time Meizhuang has good eyesight, not only has his own child, but also cleverly avoided Yongzheng's confused genes!
It can be said that Meizhuang is the first sober woman in the whole "Zhen Huan Biography". Once you see that Yongzheng is just a ruthless and unrighteous person, you will immediately cut him clean and refreshing!
Even though he had to perfunctory Yongzheng for a while because of his child's Beijing hukou, he was bitten by a dog, and he didn't mind if he wanted to come to Meizhuang!
After all, the queen needs to accommodate the child born by the emperor and other women, presumably the emperor does not have to mind the children born by the concubine and other men, in short, he has to be called Huang Ama, so why distinguish each other!
said that the whole world is not the emperor's land, and all the people are the emperor's children!
even if the emperor brought a greenHe also had to eat this dumb loss and continue to wear the hat!
Look, the cruelty in marriage lies in this, when Meizhuang is gentle and affectionate and considerate, the emperor treats her as if she is a scumbag, and throws it away like an abandoned child, without the slightest sign of respect.
But when she really doesn't care and thinks about the emperor wholeheartedly, even if she has other people's children, seeing the emperor rush to seal her as Concubine Hui, she is afraid of making a mistake!
Women who give wholeheartedly in marriage will not necessarily be respected, and those who may be deceived will lose both, but if one day they have their own backbone and know that in marriage there is respect and self in addition to love, they can gain self without having to Open and close every day whether he loves me or not, am I his heart and soul.
Loving yourself in this world is the beginning of a lifelong romance! Putting hope and love on a man is both unrealistic and dangerous!
Even if you are in the siege of marriage, please women keep themselves, have social, have friends, have a job.
Independence is the foundation of survival, and self-affirmation is the basic basic confidence that needs to be possessed in life!
