Zhou Xun is a good actor, Na Ying is a good singer, they went on a talk show together, made other people's good programs, and were scolded on the hot search.
is a talk show that is rooted in the hardships of life.
is different from cross talk. The jokes of the talk show will be more obscure and require a little more logic. The problem with
is that in the show, Zhou Xun basically can't appreciate the humor that needs to get through logical turns. She seemed to be interested in the light-hearted jokes.
Netizens scolded Zhou Xun in the barrage: "How many years will you be sentenced to take a picture of the lights?" Like a ghost mirror. What does
say?
Yayi felt that interlacing was like a mountain. This time, Zhou Xun and Na Ying used their amateurs to challenge other people's majors.
Whether they have culture or not, I can't guess. However, one thing I can be sure of is that their life circle is too high-level, too superior, and so different from the life circle of talk show audiences that they don't see enough of the world. The reason why
talk shows attract young people is because the audience also has fun in life. Female stars don't quite understand what a grain of sand of the times means to ordinary people, and how powerful poverty is to kill. So, they laugh when they shouldn't and don't shoot when they should.
When I see the world, I don't see glory and wealth, but the realm of honor and disgrace. For example: Jia Mu in "Dream of Red Mansions" can still be sympathetic to the rural woman Liu Granny , and every move she talks to is a manifestation of upbringing.
The world is every side of the world.
Everyone's different lives and different situations, plus the laughter and tears in different situations, constitute every side of the world.
has seen the world before he can be flattered.
If you can only get along with the rich or the poor, it means that the world you see is not broad enough.
The world that these female stars have seen is not enough; the books they have read are not enough. So, the funny in the eyes of the audience may be another look in their eyes.
The husband of the writer thirteenth sister, the thirteenth brother-in-law complained Zhou Xun said -
Boys can't afford a house in a big city, girls can't get a table in their hometown, stocks are losing money, work is exhausted, and their income is stretched , Hu Piao, a rental house whose sense of satisfaction is particularly easy to soar, Hu Peng and Gou friends who try to buy a haunted house in order to settle down in a big city... Such a paradoxical and high-level humor to ordinary people... Do you think Zhou Xun can listen to it? understand?
One more point, Zhou Xun, absent-minded.
Unlike filming, she doesn't seem to fit in.
Careful netizens found that Zhou Xun was wearing this chanting counter on her finger, recording how many times she recited the sutra. There is a treasure for sale. This at least partly explains the reason why Zhou Xun wandered in the show.
took the notice fee from the show team, but sat in the position of the laughing leader who could decide the life and death of the contestants. Billion feels injustice.
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见世面
就是见过众生后
拥有一种开放性的心态
我特别喜欢看年轻人说的脱口秀。
Those who can't afford a house in a big city, are run over by the boss, and all kinds of miserable jokes are born.
Once, a talk show actor said he was too poor to rent a "diamond room" in Shanghai: every room was irregular. The toilet is installed at the bottom of the acutely angled stairs. When he is standing to urinate, he has to bend his waist so that his body forms a diagonal angle with the toilet -
and similar jokes are the real talk show. The life presented by talk shows like
is as beautiful and real as the life Zhou Xun presents in the movies.
However, a talk show is not a film or television work.
talk show, those ordinary people who are most similar to you, their emotions can also be understood, refined, and turned into countless jokes.
If we can't appreciate or laugh, maybe our life circle is too narrow.
At one point Yayi found out that my kids didn't appreciate these jokes. I deliberately took my son to take the hard-seat carriage of the green leather train , and let him observe and experience it. I encourage young people in my family to live in dormitories and see how their peers from other places live. Mr. Jin also showed his son the lives of some migrant workers on , Douyin, and , to help his son see the various forms of living beings.
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已识乾坤大
犹怜草木青
因为懂得，所以慈悲
我特别喜欢一句话：
已识乾坤大，犹怜草木青。
lives in an ivory tower and is well protected, but people who have never seen the bottom of society do not understand 's empathy with and compassion.
Zhou Xun was scolded on the hot search like this, and everyone was angry that she used her own value system to arbitrarily referee, instead of like Luo Yonghao , even if she did not agree with a certain point of view or opinion, she would not make self-righteous comments.
Luo Yonghao's "big picture" comes from his experience with the world.
There is a talk show of Yang Li, Luo Yonghao said to Li Dan: "Although we both photographed lights, but I think the lights you gave are very cheap, because she is flattering you. I’ll give it at the right time.”
Another time, he praised Yang Li and said: “This is where she is brilliant, she scolds every man, but everyone firmly believes that it has nothing to do with them. Even if she scolds me , I also like to listen to it."
Luo Yonghao's upbringing and talent are reflected in his comments when he was a referee. Many of the things he said not only made me laugh, but also surprised me, and then I thought about why he said that? It feels like he is not only better than these talk show actors, but also better than my perception.
Think carefully, how rich Luo Yonghao's experience is, he can be so tolerant of all kinds of people. I already know the universe, but I still pity the green grass and trees. That's what I said.
Let me give a few more examples:
In the documentary " Ding Zhen's Natural Notes ", one of the guests is Li Haoyuan, who graduated from Renmin University of China .
As we all know, Ding Zhen has never read a book and is a poor Internet celebrity. Li Haoyuan is only five cars rich, but he is very self-disciplined and knows how to show empathy. During the chat, Ding Zhen asked Li Haoyuan enviously and said, "You have read a lot of books, have you been to school for many years?"
Li Haoyuan replied: "I have read books for 17 years." Ding Zhen, who has only read primary school, looked at him , and exclaimed with some inferiority: "Wow! In 17 years, I haven't read a book." At this time, Li Haoyuan felt the embarrassment and inferiority of the other party. He used a sincere sentence to resolve Ding Zhen's inferiority complex. He said:
"You have been in the forest for so long, you are like me, and you have read a lot of forest books."
This is Li Haoyuan's empathy.
He's seen the world, he's read a lot of books, and he's sympathetic to the weaknesses of others. Although the life circle is different, he can appreciate people who are very different from himself.
He raised each other's strengths, said them, and let others find self-confidence, so that the conversation between the two could continue, and the hearts of the two could come closer.
Let me give the example of Franklin again.
Franklin, who came from the bottom and is a high-ranking president, always expresses his views with modest and cautious words.
He said, I hope well-intentioned people will not speak in an arbitrary and conceited way, which will weaken the power of doing good, because this way is often offensive and easy to cause confrontation. Because if you're going to provide information, an dogmatic attitude can invite rebuttals and hinder candid attention when you're presenting your opinion.
Franklin knew that different classes had different ways of thinking. He had seen the world and dealt with a lot of people, so he knew how to communicate. He is well versed in the way to communicate with people, that is, to return+, to put aside arrogance and prejudice, and to humble ourselves and repent.
Really, we are all proud. We are all guilty. We are all blind. We are all overwhelmed. Why look at someone else's life? Take a look at the talk show of miserable people and proletarian youth? Because we tend to be short-sighted and narrow-minded. It’s easy to think that others should have it just because you have it. We middle-aged people, we must deliberately jump out of our circle. Let go of all your prejudices based on experience and become a little more informed.
Because, in this life, the noble people we can meet, the money we can earn, the fun we can feel, and the spiritual heritage we can give our children are only within our own experience and knowledge. Expand yourself, put down the long veil, don't limit it, let your knowledge grow, see every side of the world, and finally return to the truth. This is a lifelong homework.
put a long curtain, yoursThe career will be smooth, and the colleagues and leaders will get along better. You know that in the workplace, speaking with certainty and speaking quickly will lead to unhappiness and even opposition from others. Speak wise words, let the golden apple fall into the silver net, and then it can be said to be the light and the salt. In the family, you will understand the strange relatives and pig teammates better. You can analyze, ruminate, and learn from the scenes in daily life where everyone is red-faced because of different views on an issue as jokes and jokes.
In the parent-child relationship, you can have empathy and thinking from multiple angles, instead of always teaching others with the face of the elders. Finally, I wish my readers more and more wisdom, more and more humor, more and more knowledgeable - already know the world, still pity the grass and trees. Reconcile living truth with practical life.
