Following the incident of Wu Yifan's concubine selection, in the past two days Li Yifeng whoring prostitutes, Zhang Han in the new drama "Gentlemen in the East Eighth District of ", the news of the heroine salty pig hand has hit everyone's attention again. The former male gods have fallen to the altar one by one due to scandals. These things are simply urging ignorant girls who like to watch idol dramas and are still fantasizing about perfect love to grow up.
Back then, I was so ignorant. Now I find that what my mother once said is true, "A maniac is acting, and a fool is watching a play." Those who act are definitely not lunatics, but the people who watch the show are indeed like a fool. I used to be. In the past, I watched idol dramas of gods and goddesses, and I thought that was what love should be like. However, the reality is that gods and goddesses divorced, escaped, and got caught. Later, I finally figured it out. The thing, idol drama, is that smart people can make money, and fools like to watch it. Because the perfect heroine satisfies women's fantasies about themselves, and the perfect male protagonist satisfies their expectations for their lovers. In those years of watching idol dramas, I think that boys should be like the male protagonists in TV dramas, and always have infinite love and tolerance for girls. I don't accept any boyfriend who doesn't seem so loving. Until one day, I came across an article in a book called "Yeah, He Just Doesn't Love You Anymore".
used an analogy in the article. He said that if you are asked to hold up a pencil, you can easily do it, but if you are asked to hold this pencil 24 hours a day, it is difficult for you to do it. Love for someone is like lifting a pencil. After you have lifted it for a while, you need to put it down and rest for a while before you have the strength to pick it up again. The same is true of love. Always ready for you. Luyao is ruthless and ruthless. If you are too demanding on your lover, you will make him stay away from you. If it happens that you are like me, and if your boyfriend is doing well most of the time, then letting go of unrealistic high expectations is not only letting go of your lover, but also letting go of yourself.
