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Jin Yong teacher's novels, there are many male protagonists who see one and love the other, such as Wei Xiaobao , Zhang Wuji and so on.
However, Hu Fei is the one I hate the most. Because Wei Xiaobao is a scumbag, you can leave him immediately if you can't accept a woman; as for Zhang Wuji, although he is also scumbag, he can't help himself in the big environment.
And the two women around Hu Fei, from beginning to end, he was free to choose, but he used the worst way.
In terms of relationship management, Hu Fei is the female version of Nanlan .
Nan Lan chose to go to the field and returned to the farmer
Nan Lan married Miao Renfeng because of the grace of saving her life. Her father was targeted and killed because he carried the "Leng Yue Bao Dao" and went to Beijing to pay tribute to the emperor.
Miao Renfeng appeared in time and rescued Nan Lan, but her leg was poisoned. Seeing that Miao Renfeng was dying, Nan Lan could only suck out the venom from his leg with her mouth.
Then, the two continued to escape from the dead in the pursuit of the enemy. Since then, Miao Renfeng has decided to take good care of Nan Lan in this lifetime.
Actually, Nan Lan is also a hard worker. If she hadn't married Miao Renfeng at that time, how would she have survived, a poor and lonely official lady. Therefore, her marriage to Miao Renfeng was both a repayment and a helpless move at the time. After
got married, the two still lived a happy and beautiful life and had a lovely daughter Miao Ruolan .
However, after a long time, the combination of the lady of the official family and the hero of the rivers and lakes still has a great personality contradiction.
Nan Lan is from an official family. She wants a man to be elegant and gentle, to understand the petty nature of a woman, to be able to joke and flirt, but Miao Renfeng is a martial artist who only dances knives and guns all day, and occasionally acts as a hero Zhuangyi often has to go out to look for it. When he was fighting with Hu Yidao, he secretly poisoned his sword, causing him to kill Hu Yidao by mistake.
accidentally killed Hu Yidao, which became Miao Renfeng's biggest heart disease in her life. How could he calm down and adapt to the life Nan Lan wanted before he was relieved of his heart disease. Even though Nan Lan had clearly told him whether he could let it go for her and her daughter Ruolan, he still couldn't do it.
At this time, the suave Tian Guinong came to his house as a guest. Nan Lan looked at the handsome Tian Guinong and thought: Why didn't Tian Guinong save her back then, but this wood-like husband?
Nan Lan finally understood that she had turned from hopeful to despair for this marriage. From Tian Guinong, Nan Lan felt an unprecedented tenderness and care.
Finally, on a passionate night, the guests insulted the host, the wife insulted the husband, and the mother insulted the daughter.
Nan Lan chose to run away from Hetian Guinong. After Miao Renfeng learned about it, he immediately rushed to chase Nanlan back. Nan Lan said firmly: Even if I die under your sword today, I will not go back with you.
Miao Renfeng finally let them go. Why not kill them? In addition to not having the heart to kill his own wife, more is the guilt of Nan Lan.
Miao Renfeng really doesn't love Nanlan enough. As a husband, he is indeed unqualified. The reason for the failure of a marriage must be two-way, a slap does not make a sound.
The worst thing Nan Lan did in this marriage was that she should first file for divorce from Miao Renfeng in person, and then go to find her love. Instead of beheading first and then playing, it will lose morally and husband and wife.
What's even more wrong is that she was obviously with Tian Guinong, but she was thinking about Miao Ruolan and Miao Renfeng. Now that you have made a choice, you should stick to it. Being in Cao Ying and being in Han, what does Tian Guinong think?
Therefore, the reason for the tragic ending of Nan Lan is not the two men she loved before and after, but because she herself is too greedy, she wants everything, and in the end she gets nothing.
Hu Feicheng is lonely
Hu Fei and Nan Lan are the same emotionallypeople.
Yuan Ziyi and Cheng Lingsu both like Hu Fei. But Yuan Ziyi is much prettier than Cheng Lingsu. In the original work, Cheng Lingsu's appearance was evaluated as being the same as that of a "village girl".
Most people are visual creatures, men and women. Therefore, it is reasonable that Hu Fei would like Yuan Ziyi.
Hu Fei and Yuan Ziyi did not know each other, but Cheng Lingsu did not know each other.
Yuan Ziyi appeared most of the time to make Hu Fei embarrassed, or to ask Hu Fei to help her do this and that. The funny thing is that Hu Fei was so happy that he even killed her enemy Feng Tiannan and was seriously injured.
However, Cheng Lingsu is the exact opposite. She spends most of her time on the way to save Hu Fei and help Hu Fei save his friends. For Hu Fei's "loyalty", she put herself in danger many times.
The last thing in the world is good for no reason, especially between men and women. Cheng Lingsu gave Hu Fei this way, no regrets and no return, didn't Hu Fei know? he knows.
, but he chose to become brothers and sisters of the opposite sex with Cheng Lingsu. On the one hand, he rejected Cheng Lingsu on the surface, and on the other hand, he enjoyed her devotion and help to him with peace of mind.
Cheng Lingsu helped him save Miao Renfeng, helped him save Ma Chunhua , helped him save Ma Chunhua's child, and helped him kill Feng Tiannan at the World Leaders Conference.
I always thought that Cheng Lingsu loved him more than Yuan Ziyi. However, he didn't even do one thing for Cheng Lingsu. He could obviously refuse to be ruthless and decisive, and let Cheng Lingsu give up and leave him.
However, he just wanted his righteous sister and his sweetheart. does not know that flies that eat honey will die in the honey sooner or later. I want too much, but in the end I lose everything.
In the end, Cheng Lingsu died to save him, Yuan Ziyi had to keep his promise to his master and become a monk, and be a long-term companion of the ancient Buddha.
wrote at the end
In a relationship, there is really no breakup, and the option of still being friends is responsible for your own and other people's feelings, and even more responsible for your future lover.
In a relationship, the most valuable things are daring to love, dare to hate, and being open-minded; the most taboo is indecision and self-deception.
Nan Lan and Hu Fei committed both taboos. Their final tragic ending was inevitable.
And of all the female characters in the book, I am the most worthless Cheng Lingsu.
Wu Guijun wrote in the poem "Like a person": hurts you not because of the other's ruthlessness, but because of your fantasies.
Love is always the efforts of two people, not the grievances of one person. Loving a person starts with appearance, falls into talent, is loyal to character, obsessed with body, obsessed with sound, and intoxicated with affection. If you are together in this way, you are married to love. May you meet a mature lover, may you be less hurt when you are obsessed, and may you catch up when you wake up.
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