" Ode to Joy 3" is the finale. He Minhong, who was scolded for a season by
, began to clean up from episode 26. When it comes to the finale, it will really be as predicted:
is a girl who is passionate, sincere and kind, so her friends also include her small shortcomings.
But, is He Minhong really "sincere and kind"? Is it really just a "minor defect"?
In fact, many "ideological systems" of He Minhong can be called some blind spots in people's three views. And these blind spots can really confuse good and evil, right and wrong, and even endanger society.
"Require good people to be better, ignore evil people to be worse"
Floor 22, the two people who had the worst life, one was Sister Zhu and the other was Yu Chuhui.
Sister Zhu was born in a typical patriarchal family, so she was about to sell herself for her younger siblings to go to college.
She was originally a victim in her family, the one who should be sympathized and loved the most. However, Zhen Zhen felt sorry for Sister Zhu, and Yu Chuhui understood it, but the most "sincere and kind" He Minhong had no sympathy for Sister Zhu.
She felt that Sister Zhu was ruthless and unjust to her younger siblings, and she felt that as her elder sister, how could she not care about her own treatment of her younger siblings.
Don't say it, He Minhong doesn't know about Sister Zhu's past or the specific situation. Really, even if He Minhong understood the situation and knew about Sister Zhu's past, she would still hold high the banner of "kindness" and ask the good to be better.
As for the evil, she clearly knows that the other is evil, but in order to show her "kindness" of He Minhong, she will still ignore the evil and kidnap the good.
why?
Because, she can bully good, and evil will completely suppress her.
Look at her relationship with Yu Chuhui, doesn't He Minhong know that Yu Chuhui's mother was domestically abused?
She knew that it was she who persuaded Yu Chuhui to bring her mother to his side. However, when Yu Chuhui really took his mother by his side and really took action to change his mother, He Minhong jumped out and accused Yu Chuhui: You are incompetent, you asked your mother to be a nanny, and you provoked the relationship between your parents.
can really wait until Yu Chuhui pushed her to the Han family who broke the contract first, and her sense of justice disappeared. She just accused Yu Chuhui of not being kind enough, but dared not accuse the Han family of breaking the contract first.
She was suppressed by the Han family, so she cried bitterly, and then went back to the 22nd floor to find Yu Chuhui to make a scene.
Especially the fact that Yu Feixue was deceived, you will find that the entire 22nd floor people focus on "controlling evil", how to beware of "traitors", and how to catch Chen Zufa, but only He Minhong completely ignored Abandoning the evil of the wicked, he just gave full play to his "unclear" goodness, which eventually led to Chen Zufa's escape, Zhu Jie's crisis, and Yu Feixue even took the money for his father's treatment.
What's even more sad is that at this time, He Minhong still felt that she was right, that her original intention was good, and she just wanted to be kind.
But what is goodness?
The real kindness is never a height, it is better to ask good people to have no bottom line. Because good people are better without a bottom line, and can easily become evil. Look at He Minhong, her so-called goodness is not condoning evil, condoning people like the Han family who arbitrarily tear up the contract, and condoning Chen Zufa to escape.
More importantly, true goodness has a very essential point: it is its breadth, and a truly good person will allow others to interact with themselves.is different.
"Take morality to kidnap others and regard them as their own kindness"
What kind of person is He Minhong?
is not an independent person. To put it further, she is still a giant baby without weaning.
She is an adult and lives outside alone, even sending dirty clothes home to her mother to wash.
She can't even be independent herself, so how can she have the confidence to accuse Sister Zhu, who supports her younger brother and sister to go to college, and Ah Chu, who dares to fight against her scum father and wants to support her mother.
However, she justly blamed.
She and Ah Chu had a big quarrel over the Han family. At this time, Lucy pointed this out to He Minhong very rudely:
This steel scale in your heart, when you measure yourself, measure it by 70%. When you measure others, you measure 100%. Do you think it is fair? Not fair at all! Besides, is your steelyard the cosmic standard?
What is kindness?
Kindness is self-discipline and lenient towards others. If a person advertises kindness, it becomes to forgive himself and kidnap others. Then this is not kindness, but double standards, selfishness and viciousness.
Of course, the most prominent incident of this is that in order to show his kindness, He Minhong brought the drunk Yu Feixue back to the 22nd floor, but asked Zhen Zhen to take Yu Feixue in.
What is the reason for Minhong Ho to justify this?
She thinks Yu Feixue is pitiful, you should help her.
is kidnapping others to show their kindness. Moreover, in the process, she once again only considered her own kindness, and did not care about the state of her roommate.
Ah Chu worked two jobs. Sister Zhu went out early and came back late, so she was busy with work, and Zhen Zhen often stayed up for several days after staying up late.
Isn't He Minhong kind?
Why didn't she think about her roommate, but only wanted to get rid of Yu Feixue, because to get rid of Yu Feixue made her feel that she was kind, and to be considerate of her roommate made her feel that it was unnecessary.
has always had different voices saying that He Minhong is kind, and He Minhong is just too simple. Some people even said that He Minhong was like our young self.
To be honest, I don't agree with that statement.
He Minhong is not kind at all, but selfish in his bones. She just regards kindness as a kind of display, a slogan, but never really considers others.
has such a detail in the treatment of Yu Feixue: Ah Chu and Sister Zhu have always asked whether to take Yu Feixue, but emphasized that for Yu Feixue, work is the most important thing now.
This is the real kindness, this is the real consideration for Yu Feixue. Ah Chu and Sister Zhu did this, and they didn't want to get Yu Feixue's words, you are too kind, you are really kind, such a compliment. But just, from your point of view, for your sake.
What is it that He Minhong condoned Yu Feixue?
advertised that he was kind and completely considered his own feelings, but he never thought about what kind of fate Yu Feixue would have in the long run.
Of course, the cool thing is that Minhong Ho's "infatuation" with Yu Feixue was destined to be paid by mistake.
Because, Yu Feixue can do this time and time again, but it is just taking He Minhong as a big head, maybe in the end, it is not good enough to bite He Minhong.
"too good" people, there will always be bad people to grind.
because, she asked for it.
"The whole world owes her, she is the best, she is the most right"
Looking at all the incidents, you will find such a commonality: He Minhong's starting point for all things is "me".
I think, I'm right, I'm kind, I'm kind. As for whose fault it is, it is someone else's.
Sister Zhu is wrong and irresponsible to be wary of her younger siblings. She sympathizes with Sister Zhu's younger siblings who are kind and right.
It was wrong for Ah Chu to help her mother prevent the "scum" father. Ah Chu called her mother back from the Han family because she was indifferent and incompetent. She saw injustice on the road and upheld justice.
She ignored Sister Zhu's reminder and caused Chen Zufa to escape, which is also right and kind. She brought Yu Feixue back to the 22nd floor, and it was also kind that the entire 22nd floor were affected. Even with
, she was attacked by both the leader and the author. Ah Chu secretly helped her, which was also Ah Chu's fault. It's right that she can't do things, it's right that she can't handle her own work, it's right that she doesn't do anything, it's everyone else's fault.
It is wrong for others to trust her, it is wrong for others to help her, and it is also wrong for others not to be kidnapped by her morality.
One of the more "crooked" points is that she is so kind, kind, and correct, so she can morally kidnap others, but she has no practical actions.
Chen Zufa ran away early because of her "kindness", He Minhong pretended to say to Zhen Zhen that she "wanted" to save 1,000 yuan a month to make up for her mistakes.
However, she just "thinks", but doesn't want to take action. The pain of others is not worth her movie tickets. She should still eat, drink, watch a movie, watch a movie, as for Yu Feixue, she sympathizes, she brought Yu Feixue back to the 22nd floor to harm everyone.
What is the essence of He Minhong's kindness?
is that I only consider my kindness, regardless of other people's life or death. Zhen Zhen deserved to be exhausted to comfort me, Sister Zhu and A Chu deserved to endure Yu Feixue's madness for my kindness, they were so exhausted that they couldn't sleep well.
He Minhong doesn't stand in anyone's point of view, think for anyone, only stand in his own point of view, me, me, me.
disguise the ultimate selfishness as the ultimate kindness, which is probably the essence of a person like He Minhong.
parents, the last fig leaf.
Many people said that He Minhong developed this way because of her parents.
Her parents lived in a too closed environment, which led to He Minhong's ignorance. However, I would like to say that Ho Minhong's entire ideological system has something to do with his parents, and it doesn't have much to do with his parents.
because He Minhong is pure and true, but she is not ignorant. Instead, she knows everything. What's more, even if she didn't know, Sister Zhu, Zhen Zhen, Lucy, and A Chu reminded her again and again.
Ah Chu reminded her more than once that she wanted her to cherish Zhen Zhen, but when she saw Zhen Zhen going out in the middle of the night, she could still be indifferent.
Ah Chu helped her to fight the injustice. Not only was she not grateful, she also complained about Ah Chu. Sister Zhu explained the matter to her in great detail, but she didn't listen at all.
Lucy even bluntly pointed out her shortcomings, too self-righteous, too much nosy.
Zhen Zhen told her time and time again, to allow others to be different from her, and to think more from the standpoint of others. However, to no avail.
Are all her actions related to the family of origin? Did her family of origin teach her not to listen to anyone's opinions?
Even her mother reminded her to talk less and get along well with her roommates. However, she didn't care at all.
The parents, the family of origin, are actually just the last fig leaf for people like He Minhong. It was her own fault, but she blamed the heavens and the earth and her roommates. In the end, no one blamed her, so she blamed her parents.
But in fact, Minhong Ho's biggest problem is not her family of origin, her biggest problem is herself. She has insufficient ability, lack of intelligence, lack of emotional intelligence, and has no self-knowledge at all.
doesn't know anything, can't do anything, can't do anything, and still wants to flaunt himself as the kindest and most correct, naturally he becomes this ugly appearance that everyone dislikes.
