Men will forget your sexiness, but will not tire of your humor, the sadness and joy of comedians.

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Stand-up comedian, Master of Laws from Southwest University of Political Science and Law

owns two stand-up comedy specials of "Little Deer Random" and "Deer Seeing Injustice"

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Men will forget your sexiness, but will not tire of your humor, the sadness and joy of comedians. - Lujuba

deer

female rule five

Humor is a kind of mutual and If you don’t take the initiative to grin, no one can make you amused.

That night, Xiaolu's place was not too hot. The audience, dominated by middle-aged men, paid much for the swearing of male actors' genitals and the ridicule of women's clothes, but they were obviously not prepared to listen to Xiaolu's talk about gynecological diseases, but to encounter a group of interns for no reason. When words like "vagina" and "womb" appear in a paragraph, some people naturally become nervous. Packaging embarrassment experiences into jokes is a common practice in stand-up comedies, but if the audience has no concept and empathy for the pain, it is difficult to understand the humor after the bitterness is eliminated. The cold field of

is an inevitable price for a stand-up comedian who is determined to make up the sharp truths that women face in society. Not all actors have the courage to survive this self-doubt moment, but Xiaolu dare to be the only actress in China who has two stand-up comedy specials. She has the ability to distinguish the occasional coldness because the script is not good enough. It's because the correct verse didn't meet the audience who understood it. All the jokes of

are brewed from her negative emotions. No one is born with a desire for pain, but cleverly catches, confronts the unsatisfactory, and ridicules its process, allowing the deer to regain a sense of control over life. "When you finish talking about the layer closest to your negative emotions, you will dig the next layer, then go down and out, and your vision will broaden from yourself to the pain points on the social level."

grew up, because She loves to be funny, she is very popular with the same sex, but there are boys who like to say bad things about her. She grew up in a small town in Yunnan. If a woman is better than a man at the wine table in a joke, everyone will discuss "how can her husband bear it". There is no reason for this. After growing up, she experienced firsthand that "girls are funny is very dispelling sexy in the eyes of men". But this reality does not mean that women have to accept their fate and pretend to be a boring and unsharp person, just to take care of the fragile self-esteem of some men. After all, in her idol Alan DeGeneres, Xiaolu has really seen how a talented and humorous woman can make the audience laugh without pretending to be ugly and grandstanding. Charm thing.

At the end of 2017, Xiaolu created a document on the computer and asked himself "What are you going to express?" Now she has found the answer-"I am an actress. Although I don't usually highlight my female identity, I think someone should have a very strong female voice on the stage of stand-up comedies." She wants to use jokes to tear out a bit of justice in these breathless parents and the social dilemmas faced by women.

Men will forget your sexiness, but will not tire of your humor, the sadness and joy of comedians. - Lujuba

​​Xiaolu

Q&A:

It is not easy to make people laugh. Sometimes it is harder than making people cry. As a talk show actor, is it stressful?

Xiaolu: I am not such a fraternity person, I must make everyone laugh. Our audience is also very fixed. They are all urban white-collar workers. They are very smart, have a wide range of knowledge, love to laugh, and like their own lives. Comedy can't cure your unhappiness, it just temporarily relieves you, so that you don't think about it temporarily, and it depends on whether you want it or not. You have to always stare at your sadness with extreme sensitivity. I said you can think of your ex-boyfriend. No one can help. Comedians can never make you smile unilaterally, you have to grin on your own initiative.

Do you hope that people will stop asking female stand-up comedians any more questions in the future?

Xiaolu: Your lipstick looks so good today, what color number did you use? Your hair is so shiny, what shampoo do you use? I will feel that your attention is not on my performance. I don’t want someone to ask me why I’m doing this after the show. Didn’t you see so many people laughing just now? The answer to

is already obvious.

Jin Yimeng

screenwriter and director

Masterpieces: "Perfect", "One Night Surprise", "All the Way Surprise", "Sun and Moon", "Sisters of the Peak"

Men will forget your sexy, but will not get tired of your humor

Men will forget your sexiness, but will not tire of your humor, the sadness and joy of comedians. - Lujuba

Jin Yimeng

female rule six

funny women are not silly and sweet, but they know how to liveThe little girl in her heart rushed out and went wild.

When a woman has a sense of humor, a man has no dopamine?

director Jin Yimeng led a group of goddess-level actors to vote for you a movie ticket, and did not want to answer your question. At that time, with "Perfect", Jin Yimeng became the first female director of a "Chinese" movie with a box office of over 100 million yuan. In this romantic comedy she wrote and directed, she also made Zhang Ziyi and Fan Bingbing look good. The leading figures in the world, through fierce fights and jokes, constantly win the love scenes, and complete their first breakthroughs in their comedies. In the following movies, Caijie Guo and Di Lieba were used as the leading roles, and the recently completed "Sisters of the Pinnacles", the blonde beauty Beth Bige in "Sisters of Bankruptcy" partnered with the Chinese comedian Ma Li. For these beautiful actresses, it is not difficult to find a role that plays the old and the ugly, but it is rare to have the opportunity to star in a comedy, because many people still have the prejudice of "being beautiful but not acting well". Jin Yimeng is the director who has the courage to dig out comedy talent from beautiful women.

After graduating from Florida State University with a master's degree in film production and returning to China, Jin Yimeng introduced the popular European and American "ChickFlick" (chick flick) into China. In Jin Yimeng's comedy movies, women are the absolute protagonists, and her requirement for the characters in the play is "cute". "The cuteness here is not a silly sweet kawaii, but that she is worthy of love." In Jin Yimeng's romantic comedies, there is always a hidden line of young women's self-growth. She will be vulnerable and panic. , Frustrated, neurotic side, but also have the side of taking the initiative to bear the consequences and clenching their teeth. Jin Yimeng said that this growth line is called "Only when you find yourself can you find true love." This is what she most wants to convey to the audience, especially young women, through comedy.

comedy is a kind of performance that needs to liberate the nature most. How to make goddess-level actors find the best state? Director Kim’s secret is to bring them back to childhood. Jin Yimeng believes that only in a happy state can people give out their best and cutest self. "I think everyone still has a child in their heart. You see, we laughed many times when we were young than when we were adults. Create a safe range, and ask them to let out the cute little girl deep in their hearts. Wild for a while.”

Regardless of whether you have watched Jin Yimeng’s movie or not, I hope you can always let the happy little girl deep in your heart out for a while.

​​Jin Yimeng

Q&A:

Some people think that beauty is a burden of humor, because it is difficult to let go of the burden. How do you dig out their comedy talents from beautiful actors?

Jin Yimeng: All the actresses I work with are beautiful, but they can also act in comedies. Because comedy is not performed, but created. Comedy is a situation, you make a person embarrassed, there will be comedy, because the laughter is the state of the person in an embarrassing situation. In the role played by Bingbing in "One Night Surprise", a woman suddenly became pregnant. She didn't know who her child's father was. This was a situation. Humor is not the only way to be ugly. The more beautiful people are embarrassed, the more comedic conflict will be.

There is still a view of "straight male cancer" in the market. A woman who listens carefully to a man's speech and is amused by a man is attractive. What do you think?

Jin Yimeng: I think sexy feels different for every man, otherwise everyone will go to that type of woman. For me, the most important thing for a person is to be cute and have something worthy of love. As far as I know, many men do not marry a woman because of sexiness, or decide to go with her forever, but because she is cute and he feels happy with her. How many years can sexy this thing last? You can't be with a person for 40 years and feel that she is so sexy every day. I don't think this is the main reason why men evaluate women. I remember in an episode of "Sex and the City", Mr. Big chatted with his friends and talked about sexy supermodels in New York, saying that men would want to date supermodels. Mr. Big said, in fact, you only want to be with someone who can make you laugh in the end.

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