July 2021,
, a 19-year-old Beijing girl, Dou Meizhu,
on social media,
fired the first shot of the big news in the entertainment industry this year.
Then, traffic star Wu Yifan screamed in jail.
Then, on August 10th,
30-year-old Shanghai dancer Chen Lu,
was also on social media,
zz broke the news that singer Huo Zun was forced to withdraw from the private life of 13 铄12zzzun and then 2zzzun 13 Entertainment circle.
Before and after, women kept coming forward,
broke the news that they had been infringed,
is the biggest melon,
is a Alibaba zzz
zz, a cooperating female employee who has been infringed by a Alibaba2 employee, and 13This matter also caused an uproar in the Internet community.
These three women above,
have become famous so far,
are called brave new women,
dared to expose those polite hypocrites to fight for their legitimate rights and interests for 2zzz, 1213zzz.
Then there are good people to judge them,
thinks that is the first one to stand out,
is a true brave woman, zzz13150, not a follower of 15512zzzz.
Ali girl can only be regarded as an imitator,
and its motive is still controversial, so
is not so powerful.
More good people say that
privately,
these female whistleblowers also have contempt chain,
despise Ali,
,
,
,
z0 Women despise other whistleblowers.
Originally, in human society,
has a chain of contempt for everything, not surprising,
, but among the women who broke the news,
actually has
, which is interesting.
So I am interested in not quitting,
want to talk to my unfriends about the despise chain.
Speaking of, between people,
and even things and things, things and things,
does have a chain of contempt.
The most famous chain of human contempt,
are the four castes under the Indian caste system.
Brahman look down on Kshatriya,
Kshatriya look down on Vaisha,
Vaishya look down on Sudra.
Sudra also has people who look down upon.
is the most common chain of human contempt,
is the professional chain of contempt,
looks down on subordinates as superiors,
looks down on people who do physical work,
.
and so on.
So, why
will always have
despise chain?
Take the chain of contempt between people as an example. The reason for
is that in the relationship between people,
always has close relatives and distant relatives.
2500 years ago, Confucius sorted out a relationship chain,
and based on this relationship chain,
put forward the Confucian thought of "preferring oneself and others".
this relationship chain:
love their parents love → → →
children love love love couple Brothers → → →
relatives love love love all friends → → →
love things like this, throw a stone into the water,
form The ripples protruding from the inside out:
The core of the circle is oneself. On the outer circle of
, it is the parents.
is another circle outside.
This circle, Confucius pushed it from the inside to the outside,
pushed out the chain of humanity and justice from oneself to others,
from near to far.
does not quit calling it the chain of kindness and justice .
But looking at it from another angle, from the inside out,
is also the chain of contempt and contempt that is constantly strengthened,
so it is also the contempt chain .
On the other hand, in modern society,
people have long been separated from family and clan,
is more facing the outside world, and the relationship formed by
is from the outside to the inside.
always meet "other people" first, z1After 3z
got acquainted, they became closer, " Taoyuan knot ",
has "brother and sister-like friendship". If
continues to be familiar with intimacy,
may conclude marriages and various covenants,
has a family-like relationship, and reborn children,
will have the most intimate relationship.
After the formation of a series of interpersonal relationships,
will follow the difference of distance and closeness,
unconsciously produce different emotional chains:
pay attention to friends and pay attention to their own friends:
→ Pay attention to everyone → pay attention to all things →
This chain of emotions,
from close to sparse, the degree of attention gradually decreases, and the degree of contempt for
gradually rises.
So this chain of emotions,
is really a chain of contempt.
People in society, entering a group,
must establish a relationship from far to near.
If the relationship is close, the chain of contempt will inevitably arise.
further,
is the same for people, things and things.
has different degrees of closeness and preference to things and things,
will naturally lead to the generation of the chain of contempt.
So, when you
put Du Meizhu, Chen Lu, Ali female employees, etc.,
into the same group,
z12155 will have an invisible competitive relationship between
z0 and 15013zz12155. Chain.