has recently been searched on Ma Sichun , and the media has photographed her suspected new boyfriend. The man is the lead singer of a band Zhang Zhexuan (Zhang Manle). However, Ma Sichun's fans are more opposed to this relationship, because Zhang Zhexuan's character is not good.
Some netizens dug up Zhang Zhexuan's previous black material. When Zhang Zhexuan saw a couple upset, he said to his boyfriend, I slept with your girlfriend.
Some netizens broke the news that after Zhang Zexuan had a relationship with a girl, he arrogantly said, is it not good to be pregnant with my child?
There is still a lot of black material. In short, Zhang Zhexuan is an ordinary singer with chaotic private life and poor character.
Zhang Manle/Ouhao
Compared with Ma Sichun, who has won the Golden Horse Award, that is the gap between the toad and the white swan.
Many people think that she is too bad at picking men, that she is a love mind, love is the first.
In fact, Ma Sichun is very sensitive to love. Outstanding men will not express love easily based on their respect for women. If a romantic man sees one love, maybe Ma Sichun has fallen.
Ma Sichun once said this in "Wonderful Flowers":
I think a woman is a very magical species, he can change a man, as long as you love a man enough and tolerate this man enough, you give him this time long enough, he will Surprise you. So even if the starting point is relatively low, he might not be a similar man in the future.
Ma Sichun feels that love can change a man. Such a view is definitely not tenable. People are easy to change, but their nature is hard to change. Mu Nianci only had Yang Kang in his heart, but Yang Kang would not look back because of the prodigal son.
After Ma Sichun's love affair was exposed, "Ma Sichun's love view" immediately became a hot search.
What is the reason for Ma Sichun's exaggerated love?
is still lack of love! Lack of love in childhood!
On March 7, Ma Sichun’s video revealed his childhood growth and depression. The video said:
When she was young, her family often taught her to "be obedient", "be sensible", "be careful of others" and so on.
Mom will restrict her to eat snacks, will not let her go home late, will not let her attend class reunions, Ma Sichun is also very sensible, she has been a good girl since childhood. When
grows up, even if I want to go to the toilet at high speed, because I am afraid of trouble with the driver, I prefer to hold it by myself. Even in love, they try their best to please each other, and the result is frustrated feelings.
and this kind of thinking also made her let others in many things, others are more important than herself, and wronged to herself.
Because of long-term depression of his own emotions, Ma Sichun suffered from depression, and usually needs medication to maintain it.
If you don’t take medicine, your body will become very stiff, your legs will be very soft, you will not be able to walk from the bed to the door of the room, and you will pant constantly and you will lose sight of your eyes.
Since she was a child, few people have taken care of her feelings, making her unable to experience love. She has experienced the consequences of lack of love, but she has also exaggerated the role of love, and it is easy to get lost in the whirlpool of love.
So, when asked about Ma Sichun's views on love, she would say: "I like him, he likes me, it's okay", "Love really makes people happy." love has become a luxury in Ma Sichun's heart.
but anythingIt's just enough, but too much is too late.
Ma Sichun and Dongyu Zhou -hard-pressed girlfriends are also destined to be separated
" July and Ansheng " released in 2016, Ma Sichun played a good girl, Dongyu Zhou's character is a rebellious girl. very similar.
both won the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress because of their outstanding performance. At the award ceremony, Dongyu Zhou came to the stage first to accept the award, and then Feng Xiaogang called Ma Sichun's name again. Such double shadows caused thunderous applause from the audience. Zhou Dongyu looked at Ma Sichun enviously, which was happier than winning the prize.
Ma Sichun said to Dongyu Zhou on stage like this: "I might not stand here without you, and you would not stand here without me."
There is no jealousy, no concealment, and mutual appreciation between them. , Both hope that each other will have a better life, so the two of them have become hardcore girlfriends.
However, the later development also made the two drift away. After "July and Ansheng", Zhou Dongyu performed "Lies Sicily", "Sparrow", "Like You", "Later Us", " Youth" "You " and "Young You" also won an Oscar nomination, and Zhou Dongyu also became the three golden actress who burst into acting.
Ma Sichun has no outstanding works after "July and Ansheng". Some people think that her peak acting skills are "He's coming, please close your eyes" and "July and Ansheng".
Some people even say that Ma Sichun's acting skills are awkward.
's career gap also made their relationship gradually alienated. Not long ago, Ma Sichun disappeared from depression for more than 100 days. It was not Zhou Dongyu who accompanied her, but Yang Zi and Wang Yao.
In the "Tucao Conference", Yi Lijing also complained about Ma Sichun, Zhou Dongyu has no time to be friends with you, why didn't she take you?
The separation of Zhou Dongyu and Ma Sichun can be said to be a matter of time. Let’s analyze their personalities first:
Zhou Dongyu: family background, independent and rebellious since childhood, like a boy, caring about my own feelings.
Ma Sichun: From a wealthy family, he was very well-behaved, obedient, thoughtful of others, sentimental, and depressed.
Psychology often says that the missing parts in childhood are often found back in adulthood.
Zhou Dongyu, who is from an ordinary family, has an independent personality, and she is more looking forward to a career. Someone asked Dongyu Zhou, Oscar or boyfriend is important? Zhou Dongyu said without hesitation, it must be the queen!
Ma Sichun has a wealthy family. Since she was a child, she has taught her to think about others, but she lacks the feeling of being loved. She is more eager to get love. Ma Sichun said in "The Story of Wonderful Flowers" that when I was young, I felt that getting married was the most important thing for me.
Ma Sichun and Zhou Dongyu have different starting points and pursuits. Their meeting point is in "July and Ansheng", which also makes them best friends. Different pursuits are destined to develop separately. The same thing is that they are all pursuing inner satisfaction.
In contrast, the optimistic and independent Zhou Dongyu is lightly packed, while the melancholy and sentimental Ma Sichun is moving forward with a heavy load.
Ma Sichun’s love is too humble
Ma Sichun’s ex-boyfriend is Ouhao, Ouhao’s family background is much worse than Ma Sichun’s family background. Ou Hao was born in a small fishing village in Fujian. His family was poor. As a young Ou Hao, he had an ideal: when he grew up, he would buy a house for his parents.
Whenwent to Ouhao to study at the Conservatory of Music, his family could not afford to study for him. Ouhao could only study part-time. He went to deliver food, sell clothes, shoot commercials, sing and so on.
Ou Hao officially debuted after participating in "Happy Boys" at the age of 21. In 2014, he filmed "Left Ear" and collaborated with Ma Sichun. Ma Sichun was fatter at the time, and Ou Hao served as her fitness trainer.
Ma Sichun wrote a three-year love letter to chase Ou Hao. It was not until March 14, 2017, which is Ma Sichun’s birthday, that they announced their relationship.
When they were together, Ou Hao would ridicule Ma Sichun directly and said: You are fat. Then take Ma Sichun to the gym to help her lose weight. Ma Sichun's mother has wanted Ma Sichun to lose weight for more than 20 years, but she has not succeeded. She lost 20 catties after being with Ou Hao. This shows Ma Sichun's dedication to Ou Hao.
arrived on August 8, 2018, they announced their breakup, which may be the reason for the big difference in family background, which made Ouhao feel too pressured. After breaking up with
, Ma Sichun was talking about his ex-boyfriend and said in pain:
I think the love stories in the book are all deceptive. People who love each other can stay together, and some people can only share the suffering but not the happiness. It is a very happy love, because of happiness, it will be uncomfortable to lose.
Ma Sichun has a stronger desire for love than others, because her native family gives her too little love, so she has to use love from a new family or a new relationship to make up for the lack of love.
Ma Sichun has said many times that he yearns for love and marriage. Let’s put together the words she said:
"I feel that marriage is the most important thing in my life when I am five or six years old."
Makes people happy."
"Love is more important than taking a queen."
"Why can't people who love be together?"
Ma Sichun has said many times that he wants to marry but is in love. To a certain extent, it is not enough independence and self-confidence.
The reason why Ma Sichun hates to marry is emotional hunger. She is very likely to choose the wrong man because of " hungry but not eating ". And men are also afraid to hate women who marry, because women who hate to marry are already full of imagination or planning for marriage. Men are afraid of women who love too crazy and are afraid of women's excessive control.
Ma Sichun did not respond to the new love affair exposed by the media. Everyone was worried that she would choose the wrong person because of "hungry for food".
Ma Sichun’s parents taught her the skills to survive, but they did not give her the courage to conquer
. In a show, Dongyu Zhou said: If two people like it, they will be together. There is no need to get married.
Ma Sichun recalled the last love affair but cried and said: Why can't people who love each other be together, because of love, it is uncomfortable to lose .
In terms of emotions, Dongyu Zhou is more open, while Ma Sichun is concerned about gains and losses.
There is an inexplicable power in Dongyu Zhou that makes her confident, optimistic, and open-minded, which makes her invincible as she grows up.
Ma Sichun is as melancholy, sentimental and weak as Lin Daiyu. A broken love or a frustration will leave her devastated. The difference between
comes from whether the native family has created a complete and healthy personality for them.Let them have enough ability to deal with the difficulties of the outside world.
is like what psychologists say: the love that parents gave to their children when they were young will be cast into the armor of his life, making him full of the courage of conquerors throughout his life.
