"are lucky enough to get lost in all of life."
| Author: curry
"Song double" the news of divorce today will undoubtedly become one of the largest entertainment melon.
The Korean media first broke the news that Song Zhongji had filed an application for divorce mediation to Song Hye Kyo on the 26th. Just when people were eagerly looking forward to refuting the rumors, the real hammer came quickly, and the brokerage companies of the two sides issued statements one after another, and the marriage of the two officially ended. The news that
caught off guard is unacceptable. After all, the "male god harvester" Song Hye Kyo and the "national husband" Song Zhongji are simply a match made in heaven, and the "Shuang Song" wedding that has sensationalized the entire entertainment circle is only more than a year old, and the beautiful appearance of love is still vivid.
If their union is a fairy tale coming into reality, then divorce is now a shattered dream and heartbreaking.
The rumors finally come true.
Looking at the entertainment circle, the split-and-combination relationship is too common. The reason why everyone is so surprised this time is because the "Double Song CP" was really too sweet before!
Since the broadcast of "Descendants of the Sun" in April 2016, the two have been expected by fans and fans to get married outside of Noh because of their "matching faces".
After that, they began a fairytale love, often sprinkling dog food regardless of occasion. When the crew of
"Descendants of the Sun" promoted, Song Joong Ki thoughtfully poured water for Song Hye Kyo and warmed her heart. Absolutely: Although he likes to be young, he is actually very mature and sensible. The shooting time was "very interesting and very happy". The word "happiness" of
makes drama fans so sweet.
In June 2016, at the Baeksang Art Awards ceremony known as the "Golden Globe Awards in Korea", after Song Hye Kyo lost his sight, Song Joong Ki secretly held her hand to show comfort ↓↓
and Dang Song After Zhong Ji won the best popular actor of the night, he directly confessed "Thank you Song Hye Kyo by my side" on stage.
In September, at the Seoul TV Festival Awards Ceremony, Song Joong-ki mentioned the Hallyu Best Actor Award. A host asked him: Who is the first person you think of at this moment? Answer: "The first thing that came to mind was Song Hye Kyo." Although the two of them have spread their dog food all over the world, they have never made a public relationship. Until July 5, 2017, caught off guard, Song Zhongji and Song Hye Kyo skipped the announcement of their relationship and directly announced the wedding date. All of a sudden, the fans all over the world burst, and the golden girl and jade girl finally held hands. There is nothing more delightful than this.
The earth-shattering wedding of the century on October 31, 2017 seems to be still in sight. Due to the colder weather, the two newcomers on the scene filled the audience with all kinds of careful and interactive dog food, so beautiful and dreamy that people wanted to cry.
At that time, there were many articles with the title "Double Songs are like love". But the reality is that the happy ending of the prince and princess living together happily forever seems to only exist in fairy tales. After
got married, negative news about the two has been constant.
On February 12, 2019, Song Hye Kyo changed her profile picture on social platforms and deleted group photos violently. Then there was news on the Internet that the marriage of "Double Song" was reported, and it was directly searched.
A week later, Song Hye Kyo departed from Seoul Incheon International Airport to Singapore to attend the event. She did not explain the marriage change, but she was noticed that she did not leave her wedding ring. The wedding ring on her left ring finger had been taken off.
is another wave of "gossips". Some people even picked up a photo of Song Hye Kyo's stylist, saying that Song Zhongji had transferred to him.
As various rumors on the Internet intensified, on February 22, Song Hye Kyo and Song Zhongji’s brokerage companies both responded: “The content of the report is not true. We will not respond separately later.”
thought it was fine since then. It occurred to them that just over 4 months later, the two of them issued a divorce statement, and the fans were completely cold.
"Character incompatibility" became the biggest obstacle
Within two years, this love that had been blessed and lemoned by thousands of people came to an end. In addition to sighs, people also found that in the divorce statement, the two parties pointed out the biggest The contradiction point is "character incompatibility".
No matter how good the appearance is, a sentence that cannot be bridged by personality is enough to make the two separate, because the difference in concept and background cannot be changed after all.
Song Hye Kyo is 4 years older than Song Joong Ki. Song Zhongji's father once said: "The son is finally married. Although Song Hye Kyo is a little older than his son, it is good for the son to like it." There is a hint of reluctance in the words of
. After all, Song Zhongji has a good family. He has been a handsome guy with excellent grades since he was a child. He has won the top ten in the national college entrance examination and runner-up in the national intelligence contest. He also participated in three national sports conferences as a short-track speed skater. Later he had to suffer from an ankle injury. give up. In terms of career choice, Song Zhongji transformed from a broadcast host to an acting niche. In 2010, he won the KBS acting award for "Sungkyunkwan Scandal".
In contrast, Song Hye Kyo is not so smooth. Her family life was not rich, and her parents' marriage broke up when she was 15 years old. Although she doesn't have the academic talent of Song Zhongji, she has also made her efforts to become the best figure skater and officially debuted in the model competition.
Since then, Song Hye Kyo has become a queen of South Korea with film and television works such as "Shunfeng Obstetrics and Gynecology", "Blue Life and Death", "Romantic House", "The Wind Is Blowing That Winter" and other films.
Song Zhongji once said in a program before that if you really fall in love, you will not make it public, because "If the outside world knows about it, my girlfriend will be very hard." In and out of the words, it seems that "male is strong and female is weak". It is estimated that in the view of this traditional thinking man, the marriage structure must be "male dominates outside, female dominates inside."
For Song Hye Kyo, whose parents divorced and debuted early, her career achievements are hard to come by, and she will definitely not give up her career for love. She herself publicly stated that her life ranking must be: herself, partner, children, family. Sure enough, one year after the marriage, Song Hye Kyo's new drama "Boyfriend" started broadcasting, and the first episode won the ratings, and was praised by netizens: Short hair is beautiful!
in the attitude towards love, the two can hardly agree. Song Hye Kyo was labeled as "rich in love history" long after he became famous: he had been rumored with Song Seung-hyun, Rain, and Zhao In-sung; in 2003, he had a relationship with Li Bing-hyun and thought of getting married; later he had an open relationship with Hyun Bin, and Break up because of pressure. In the face of love, Ms. Qiao definitely dares to love and hate. In contrast, Song Zhongji is cautious, saying that he "will not disclose his girlfriend", behaved in a low-key manner, and rarely exposed his love affairs. It can be seen from
that Song Hye Kyo's personality is soft outside and rigid inside. A woman who appears to be weak and weak is actually stronger than anyone else. Similarly, Song Zhongji's personality is also soft on the outside and strong on the inside. On the outside, he is a simple and cute little brother, but on the inside he is a person with great ideas and opinions.
People often say that a good marriage requires evenly matched power, but it can also be destroyed by too much evenly matched. Feelings can’t escape the initiative. The strong two will only make both parties tired, and will gradually develop psychological grievances and lose understanding and respect.
"What you get is fluke, and what you lose is life"
Perfect marriages have their own marriage secrets, but broken marriages are mostly due to personality incompatibility.
Tang Wan and Cao Yunjin, who had just divorced some time ago, also mentioned "disagreement in personality" in their divorce statement. They did not have any interest in the show, nor did they know how to cooperate with each other. The embarrassing atmosphere was no matter how good the guests were But come.
When Yang Mi and Hawick Lau issued their divorce statement, many netizens felt relieved because Yang Mi’s personality was very axis and stubborn. If Hawick Lau could not bear it, he would still manage the marriage with a machismo. Even outsiders' tight relationship can't last long.
Faye Wong’s character is too straightforward, the audience of "City of Magic" can feel her straightforwardness across the screen. She is like an elf falling into the mortal world, who can never fit the world. Such a "legend" is unacceptable to Li Yapeng, and in the end the two can only get together.
Maybe they are still in love with each other, but marriage and love are defeated by the character that is difficult to run-in.
However, if you say you don’t believe in love when you see celebrities getting divorced, then you must ignore those screen couples who have lived their lives with honey over time, such as the fairy tale life of Yamaguchi Baihui and Miura Yu and the immortal couple. Love 40 The year is still loving, even without the handsome Yamaguchi Baihui, 60 years old can still live a peaceful posture; for example, Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming, a model couple with zero scandal in the entertainment industry, use their strength to explain what is " When the scenery can be seen through, I will accompany you to see the long stream."
Actually, appearance is the least important part of married life, and luck is. Of course, what I’m talking about here is not the luck of winning the lottery, but the luck of the two who happen to have similar personalities. They both happen to be willing to communicate and resolve rather than the luck of the Cold War. They both cherish the luck of this relationship and happen to be free from the interference of strong external forces. It just happens that there is no luck for a major change in temperament, and it just happens that there is no luck for encountering the test of humanity...
"All you get is fluke, and what you lose is life." If unfortunately you don't have that luck, you can't blame God and others. After all, divorce It is not the end, but a brand new beginning. There is no winning or losing. Everyone is just looking for someone who can truly go through a lifetime together.
Song Hye Kyo and Song Zhongji have come to this point. As bystanders, we regret it, but we also support their decision. Since it can't be bridged, it's better to make a difference and rejoice in each life.
