Recently, the news that Fang, a 23-year-old woman in Shandong, was abused to death by her in-laws has caused strong and widespread controversy on major online platforms.
The victim, Fang Mou, because of infertility, was repeatedly tortured by her husband’s family by starving, beating with wooden sticks, and at a penalty station outside the house in winter, and beating Fang Mouyang several times on January 31, 2019, resulting in death .
The local city people’s court judged in the first instance that the defendant Zhang was sentenced to two years’ imprisonment and three years of probation. The family of
appealed, and the case was sent back for a new trial.
just because of infertility, a lively life was abused to death. The unreasonable trial of
seems to have become a "co-conspirator" who indulged atrocities.
A marriage certificate has become the "death-free gold medal" in the hands of the perpetrator, which is embarrassing.
Female fertility has been the most controversial topic in recent years.
will always hear around us if you don’t get married, don’t have a baby, don’t xxxx... then your life is incomplete, as if only marriage and children can reflect the value of women.
From life to film and television works, there are not a few that reflect related gender topics.
"Kim Jiyoung Born in 1982"
"Old Women"
Recently, there is a Korean drama that directly put the issue of "birth" on the stage, and many people have called too real after watching it!
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Douban even scored a high score of 8.5!
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The play is directed by the famous Korean female director Park Soowon starring actor Yan Zhiyuan .
Yan Zhiyuan will play a 40-year-old novice maternity Wu Xianzhen in the play.
From "Suyuan" to "Postpartum Care Center", she played the role of mother twice. How will the audience feel different this time?
The new play uses exaggerated and humorous comedy to tell many unspeakable things about women.
makes people look funny and bitter.
and her partner actors are also familiar faces, such as Zhang Huizhen ("Parasite") , Park Haxuan (Korean version of "The Lovers at 3 PM on Weekdays") and others .
The heroine is a working woman.
When she was a child, the family fell in love. In order to support the whole family, she studied hard.
sleeps only 4 hours a day, and spends the rest of the time reading.
She is studying when others are celebrating the nation, and she is still studying when others are chasing stars. After
went to work, she did not relax for a moment.
is willing to do whatever tiring work, she is not afraid of hard work for a 15-hour one-way business trip.
pleased the boss, struggling all the way up from the bottom employees.
excellent work ability, for the company to solve one problem after another.
and all these efforts made her finally become the youngest female executive in the group.
is rarely seen in Korean women's executives. If she wants to keep everything she got, she has to work harder.
For her, work is all of her life, and only the workplace can truly reflect her value.
But she didn't expect that, on the day she became a routine official, a sudden accident disrupted her original plan.
She is pregnant!
She thought she was not suitable for natural conception.
The elderly mothers, and the career is rising, this child seems to come at an untimely time.
Before she had time to think too much, she calmly accepted the arrangement of fate.
Wu Xianzhen, who became a pregnant woman, did not reduce her workload, and she still worked overtime day and night.
Even 24 hours before production, she was still desperately racing to grab customers.
Fortunately, she has a reliable husband.
will do maternity yoga for her, and then come back to teach her.
will bring the cut fruits back home every day...so Wu Xianzhen's pregnancy ended here smoothly.
On this day, at the moment the client signed the contract, her amniotic fluid broke.
Her face didn't change her face and her heart beat, she calmly arranged the follow-up work, and then called an ambulance to take herself away.
is so hard!
turned her head, lying on the hospital bed, she completely lost her previous boldness and confidence.
is anxious and restless. For all women, giving birth is like going through a ghost gate.
and her life project for Wu Xianzhen has just begun.
internal examination, enema, shaving... This stage is the humiliation period for all pregnant women .
gave an enema in front of her husband and had to bear with it for ten minutes, otherwise your baby might come out with the excrement in the delivery bed.
but Wu Xianzhen did not hold back, she begged the nurse to try again, but was indifferently rejected.
and then shaving.
This feels terrible. But she didn't know that the humiliation she suffered at this moment was nothing compared to the next.
became unbearable pain every time, so she could no longer calm down.
She grabbed her husband and yelled to beat him without pain.
husband hurriedly begged the doctor, but the doctor in charge not only ignored him, but also brought a few interns to analyze the cases first.
Wu Xianzhen feels like an object at the mercy of others, at this moment she has no privacy at all.
This humiliation is finally over, WuHyunzhen hit painless smoothly. The mood of
also returned to calm, no longer irritable.
will also care about whether her husband is hungry or not, and even read the book leisurely. Compared to before, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is heaven phase .
is like the calm before the storm, and Wu Xianzhen is greeted immediately after the most painful and dangerous stage in the entire production process. The screenwriter calls it- crazy party period .
At this stage, painless no longer works.
You must endure the pain of birth, and then under the guidance of doctors and midwife nurses, teach you how to give birth correctly.
is like defecation, but it has to be right.
can't shout, you have to keep your strength.
can't clenched your teeth, otherwise you will get injured.
At this time, Wu Xianzhen no longer overestimates herself. She can't get a smooth delivery, so she asks the doctor to perform an autopsy directly.
But the doctor's response was to press harder.
Pain, severe pain, painful pain.
Wu Xianzhen has seen death standing in front of her bed countless times, waiting to take her away.
After a hard time, without a trace of strength, her consciousness gradually blurred, and then she passed out.
On the other side of the river, she cried to the god of death about the misfortune of her life.
She has worked so hard in her life, why is she the one who died so early? She is not reconciled. After speaking,
pushed the god of death off the boat, rowed desperately to escape, and came back to life.
"Postpartum Care Institute" beautifies the horror process of female production with a comedy approach, but in reality, there are many examples of life hanging by a thread because of production. The production process of
is not worthy of "joy".
In the domestic documentary "Shengmen" , there are embryos growing on the incision left by the last caesarean section, the placenta has passed through the basal layer of the uterus, and the third-born mother Xia Jinju who may rupture and bleeding at any time;
z Placental previa;
and 28 weeks of gestational age The child has no fetal movement and needs to induce labor, but it is not permitted by law.
At the moment of childbirth, the door of life opens.
not only welcomes the new life, but also survives.
The child's cries finally sounded in the delivery room, and Wu Xianzhen, mother and child are safe.
everyone congratulated her, and when she was happy, she would say the last sentence.
"Sure enough, no matter how hard you work, as long as you see the child's face, you will forget everything"
happy? Wu Xianzhen asked herself.
looked at the children around her, as if her in-laws and husbands were celebrating some kind of celebration, she was even more disappointed.
and she participated in this celebration, but she became a supporting role.
Everyone only pays attention to the child, her thirsty mouth is dry and skinny, and no one cares.
ifSaid, there is anyone in this world who can empathize with her at this moment, it must be her mother.
Mother is here, and her grievances can no longer bear.
There is no such thing as a smooth birth. From the mother's perspective, it is just her daughter who is suffering.
After the celebration, the in-laws left the ward long ago.
and only her mother is still busy with her, taking care of her carefully.
, except for mother, everyone else is the same as in-laws.
Those people are like clockwork puppets, always talking in her ears, everything must be children.
Even if you are not suitable for breastfeeding, you will be forced to try again and again.
In the conditioning institute, no one cares what your name is or what job you did.
just call each other, XXX's mother .
At the same time, here is the same as society.
Mothers who give birth, breastfeeding, and take care of their children full-time at home are the most sought after.
is like the nobleman in "Snow Country Train", who stands at the top of the pyramid among postpartum mothers.
Caesarean section and formula feeding are not welcomed by other mothers.
Although Wu Xianzhen had a normal childbirth, it is clear that she is not suitable for breastfeeding.
She feels like a cow drinking kelp soup, pulling her clothes open in front of everyone, and she has to endure other people's ridicule.
It doesn't matter what your needs are, you want coffee or alcohol?
Then you must be an unqualified mother.
I have little breast milk and want to feed milk powder?
Then you are definitely an unqualified mother.
If your child encounters certain difficulties and diseases in the future, it must be because you did not insist on breastfeeding.
or a little carelessness in the child's growth process, the first reaction of those people is to blame the mother.
But mothers have a series of physical and psychological sequelae caused by childbirth, such as urine leakage, body loss, postpartum depression... Everyone seems to turn a deaf ear.
or otherwise.
"It's all over here, bear it with me"
"It's okay, just be born"
"We were..."
"Being a mother is like this, and the mother is like this." I believe that countless women have imagined what their future will be like.
has seen the beauty of the world and eaten countless delicacies.
Learn a skill, drawing, playing piano, skiing, diving, and cooking. No matter what.
or shuttle between office buildings, meeting customers, discussing contracts, and brainstorming with colleagues in the meeting room.
But the only thing you haven't thought about is to be someone's mother.
mother is great and nothingprivate.
The mother and the child have achieved each other, not the mother’s sacrifice of herself and the growth of another life.
In addition to becoming mothers, they also want to live their lives and have too many dreams to fulfill.
They are not fertility machines, but themselves.
So far, six episodes of "Postpartum Care Institute" have been released.
This time, Korean screenwriters have once again refreshed the idea of comedy telling reality. While joking, they also paid attention to the delicate and sensitive emotions of women and told them the unspeakable mood.
At the same time, it also tells the various experiences of new parents from the perspective of male and female roles.
did not provoke gender antagonism and did not sell any anxiety.
pays more attention to mutual understanding and communication between husband and wife.
are considerate of each other and say a word of hard work to each other.
It is not only a female drama, but also worthy of the attention of male audiences.
, especially the performance of Wu Xianzhen's husband in the play, is worth learning from all novice dads.
hope that there will be more similar themes in the future!
