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Children are the hope of a family and the inheritance of their parents' lives. When a child comes to the world, only the family is the closest and most trusted person. At the beginning,
was The mother has gone through the hardships of “pregnancy in October” and the pain of “one-time delivery” before bringing her baby into this world. Therefore, in many families, the relationship between mother and child is closer,
, however, all say “children are big Avoid mothers, girls avoid fathers", this is a tradition left by our ancestors, that is, parents and children of the opposite sex should know how to keep a distance. However, many parents isolate the phrase "the difference between men and women". In addition to family affection, if you get too close to your child, it is easy to do things that parents regret and cannot recover.
Di Ying spoiled her son as a "giant baby". She was 12-year-old weaned and slept in the same bed at 15-year-old. She personally "ruined" her son
. There is a female star named Di Ying in Taiwan, China. At that time, Di Ying was also considered popular for a while. Although she looked pretty, she soon got married and withdrew from the show business. After the marriage of
, Di Ying and her husband Sun Peng tried artificial insemination, and finally, in the third artificial insemination. At that time, she successfully got pregnant with a baby. Although Di Ying was 37 years old and was an advanced parturient at the time, she still gave birth to a son resolutely and decisively. Di Ying naturally loved the child very much, even a little. Head,
Di Ying’s petting behavior towards her son is a bit extreme in our opinion. Generally, children can be weaned when they are about 2 years old, but Di Ying’s son is only weaned at 12 years old,
and Di Ying also He once said on the program: "My son really loves me, and he still sleeps with me." When talking about his son, Di Ying was full of pride, but Di Ying's son was 15 years old by this time.
So, there is no boundary between mother and child, what will it bring to the child?
When Di Ying was still proud of her childcare concept, her son Sun Anzuo caused trouble. Sun Anzuo was studying in the United States and threatened to "blow up the school". The police found more than a thousand bullets at home. And the pistol, when they were about to be arrested and put into prison, it was Di Ying and his sister Di Mei who paid for a lawyer to "save" Sun Anzuo back,
Moreover, Sun Anzuo once had a girlfriend with a The Internet celebrity named Mi Sha had a relationship. Although the other party was 8 years older than Sun Anzuo, he still had Sun Anzuo's baby by accident. Later, his mother Di Ying also cut off the son's "Peach Blossom". Analysis of
Di Ying made a good interpretation of the phrase "loving a son is like killing a son". In front of his son Sun Anzuo, Di Ying can be said to be responsive, and his love for his son has gradually become doting,
is doting Most of the children who grew up in the middle of the world are very self-conscious, arrogant, and don’t know that all things and people have to revolve around themselves,
and, in the process of getting along with his son, Di Ying also let his son be Gender confusion occurs, and even some children sleep with their parents after they grow up, which can easily cause precocious puberty.
So, how should parents instill the correct "sex education" to their children?
1. When the child is about 3 years old, the gender concept has been formed. At this time, they will be curious about the opposite sex. Parents must teach their children the correct cognition of the opposite sex;
2, and parents of the opposite sex must know how to avoid suspicion. Don’t change clothes in front of your children or wear them too revealing. When expressing love to your children, it’s best to only kiss your face and forehead, and tell your children not to touch their private parts and lips easily;
3, Chinese parents There is a common problem with "talking about sexual discoloration". I find it difficult to talk about sex education, and I am afraid to teach children badly. It is best not to have this idea. Instill gender concepts in children so that children can protect themselves and others and avoid children Go astray.
diligent mother's message:
really needs the help of parents when the child grows up, but the parents can’t help everything, and the parents will give it to the child if he gets into trouble.Butt, this will only make the child more vigorous. Therefore, parents must clearly know that spoiling is not love. They must set rules and delineate boundaries for the child so that the child will stick to the bottom line.
After reading this article, what do you think of Di Ying's view of parenting? What do you think of Sun Anzuo? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!
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