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On November 27, 2019, the warm boy Gao Yixiang left us forever because of sudden cardiac death.
is his 36-year-old birthday today. His girlfriend bella took a group photo on social platforms for his birthday, with the text:
"Happy birthday to the brightest star in my universe."
The two people in the photo stared affectionately , As if there is only the other party at the moment, and the full of love is about to overflow the screen. The implication of
bella's posting of this photo is also obvious-I want to always remember your look.
Anyone who has a little empathy will inevitably feel sad and regretful when seeing this dynamic.
After all, what pain is there in the world, which is more than the yin and yang of the lover?
But when I opened the comment section, I couldn't believe that there were even more than a few netizens questioning Bella's motives for posting.
Some people condemned her for consuming Gao Yixiang again and again to earn traffic for herself:
someone opened her mouth to spread the rumors, saying that she changed several boyfriends a year:
Some people said she was short of money, so they held on to Gao Yixiang and threatened his mother. To enter the entertainment industry:
There are still people who have something to say, yin and yang ridicule Bella really love, don't marry again:
To be honest, is it necessary to speak so viciously to a girl who has accidentally lost her love for less than a year? Is it necessary to question her true heart with conspiracy theories?
Everyone knows that Gao Yixiang and his girlfriend loved each other well when he was alive, and cherished each other. They have reached the point of talking about marriage. Who knows that there will be an accident that is forever separated.
Gao Yixiang’s fans still can’t accept this fact, let alone Bella who agreed to spend the rest of his life with him? Before the broadcast of Gao Yixiang's posthumous work on
, Bella posted a post saying that she didn't have the courage to open it and hoped that everyone would support it.
Bella is not so much consuming and hyping Gao Yixiang, it is better to say that she is using her own way to commemorate the person who gave her endless love and warmth.
But what is the ironiest thing?
is Bella who doesn't improve at all. When she only posts photos of her work and daily life, netizens still scold her for being cold-blooded and nauseous, and forget her ex-boyfriend when she debuts.
You see, we commemorate a deceased person, under public scrutiny, it has become so difficult.
is a representative work showing the enthusiasm, and not posting represents forgetting and indifference.
But the question is, what qualifications do we have to point out the feelings of others? In what capacity do you speculate about the feelings of the person concerned after losing their love?
, like Bella, was judged by public morality, as well as Chen Qiaoen .
In 2017, Qiao Renliang chose to leave the world due to depression. At that time, everyone was posting a memorial. There are shocks, regrets, and grief...
But as Qiao Renliang’s best friend, Qiao En Chen, has not expressed his position for a long time.
also because of this, Chen Qiaoen was scolded by netizens for three days, righteously questioning her why not express sadness.
didn't reveal Chen Qiaoen's status until the staff couldn't stand it.
After learning about Qiao Renliang's death, she immediately stopped all work, and her whole body collapsed. Attending Qiao Renliang's funeral, he cried bitterly and had no strength to control himself, and he needed help when he walked.
has just responded to that sentence-people who are extremely sad cannot do anything.
When netizens saw the live photos, they gradually stopped cursing.
After Qiao Renliang's death, Chen Qiaoen will send fans to the sky to commemorate his best friends for four consecutive years. This is Qiao Renliang's favorite color.
will go to Qiao Renliang’s tombWorship, and tell him the truth:
will also fly back to the country, and visit his parents with friends:
suddenly lost his best friend, it is hard to believe, I feel very sorry for myself, and regret it.
But Qiaoen Chen insisted on telling him far away with a positive and optimistic life-everything is well, please rest assured, we will take good care of him.
Faced with the affectionate and righteous Chen Qiaoen, the Internet spray appeared.
They said that it was annoying to watch Chen Qiaoen's post, and they pointed out that she was a show, a fake sentimental, and a "human blood steamed bun".
But the truth is that the group of "visiting Qiao Renliang's parents" that made her on the hot search was exposed, all Qiao Renliang's mother took the initiative to post online.
step back ten thousand steps, even if it was sent by Qiao En Chen himself, what about it?
used to criticize her friend's death for inaction, but now she commemorates it and talks about it. The comparison before and after is really ironic.
In fact, the scolded Chen Qiaoen has always remembered Qiao Renliang, and the person who scolded Chen Qiaoen had already forgotten Qiao Renliang.
Two years later, the same situation happened to Song Qian .
In 2019, the news of Han star Cui Xueli's death from depression shocked the entertainment circle, and everyone couldn't believe it.
At the same time, the accusations from netizens also smashed at Song Qian.
As Shirley’s former captain, the relationship between the two was intimate, so why did she not say a word?
's accusing Song Qian's voice continued until she was photographed by the media. She appeared in South Korea in black, and her face was very haggard.
Later, someone broke the news, Song Qian stopped all work after learning the news and prepared to fly to South Korea as soon as possible. However, due to the expiration of the visa, I first went to Beijing from Shanghai and then flew to South Korea after applying for the visa. The whole process was very hasty. The staff of
also revealed that in the process of preparing the visa, Song Qian cried many times and couldn't control her emotions.
This sadness is self-evident. Four days after Shirley’s death, Victoria Song, who had experienced a double injury, couldn’t help but express her views:
“Social platforms are not a ruler to measure morality. You know you are cold and warm, and you refuse to show off.” The era of
is progressing, but Netizens love to be nosy, and the habit of getting moral satisfaction from accusing others has never changed, and their thinking is contemptuously narrow.
This world does not lack kindness and warmth, but lacks a thoughtful sense of justice.
Emotions should never be hyped, nor should human suffering be consumed.
In the face of death, even if we cannot empathize with each other, at least please learn to empathize and be kind, and use less moral benchmarks to measure others at will.
Everyone's life is unique. It is enough to manage yourself and have a clear conscience. Comprehensive Entertainment Awards
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