In August, a TV series called "In the Name of Family" quickly occupied the hit list. In the TV series, the father Li Haichao has become the "ideal father" of many children.
"In the name of family": Family will make each other better people
Li Haichao is a single-parent father. He raised his daughter Li Jianjian by himself. Although he lost his wife, Li Haichao is not decadent. Instead, he loves his daughter even more and lets her know that she still has a father. In addition to being the biological father of a girl, he is also the "daddy" of two other boys, and he is not related by blood.
Ling Xiao was born in a family with a very poor parental relationship, and his parents often quarreled. Ling Xiao, who is afraid of his parents being hoarse, liked to sit alone on the stairs when he was young, soaking a bucket of instant noodles for dinner. Li Haichao and Li Jianjian noticed him and called him to eat together. Slowly, Ling Xiao was influenced by the goodwill of the two, and every day he would sit at the door of Li Haichao's house and wait for food.
Another little boy, He Ziqiu, has never tasted his father's love since he was a child. His father didn't want him, and his mother left without saying goodbye. After Li Haichao knew, he took him home. On that day, He Ziqiu, who lacked the love of his parents, shouted "Dad" to Li Haichao expectantly.
is such a combined "wonderful family", but it allows us to see how much a three-minded father has an impact on children. Li Haichao treats all three children equally. His daughter will be severely criticized if he makes a mistake; he will respect the child's decision: He Ziqiu's father returned to pick him up to study in the UK. Li Haichao did not stop: "Zixiu, do what you want to do."
Under the care of Li Haichao, the three children have gradually grown into an outstanding person. Even when faced with the entanglement of their biological parents later, they can handle it well. For example, in a TV series, He Ziqiu even bluntly said to his own father: "I don't know you, Li Haichao is my father."
Having a three-minded father is the blessing of a child's life!
says something like this: "A child with a good family education is very lucky. He has seen what a good relationship is like. He has a keen sense of healthy love and can easily run in the right direction. And he is making up the atmosphere. Children who grow up in the environment do not know what is good, so they have to spend a lot of effort to kick away the bad, and it takes many years to hit a wall before they know which way is right."
The famous Austrian psychologist Alfred Adler has devoted his life to studying the impact of childhood experiences on people. He once said: "Fortunate people are cured by childhood, but unfortunate people need to spend their entire lives to heal their childhood." Having a good family is the guarantee for a child's happy childhood, and a good family requires three views. Dad and mom.
Father’s Three Views of Righteousness will make children a better person!
One, bring a positive influence to the child.
Saint Confucius once said: "If his body is upright, he will do nothing; if his body is not upright, he will not follow the order." This sentence is the same in the education of children. Father's three views and good quality will affect children in a subtle way. Even if the father does not specifically teach his children some principles of life, the child can learn a lot of positive things from his father's words and deeds.
2. Give children a bigger picture
Educator Zhang Haitao said: The parent is a living person, a role model, a hero that the children can see and touch. In a family, fathers are mostly the pillars, and father's three views can also give children a bigger picture.
Take He Ziqiu and Li Haichao from "In the Name of Family" as an example. He Ziqiu's biological father returned to pick him up to study in the UK, but Li Haichao did not stop him. Because he knew that with his own ability, it was impossible to give He Ziqiu good educational conditions, and forcibly blocking it would only delay Ziqiu's future.
