Wang Xifeng in "A Dream of Red Mansions" once yelled at his sister-in-law You Shi: "A good wife and a good husband are less miserable, but a strong man is not as strong as a strong one!" Everyone must have heard this saying. The ancients believed that marrying a wife and a virtuous person is not a beautiful one; modern times People usually think that you need to keep your eyes open when looking for someone, otherwise you may not know until the end what the other person is doing.
Jiang Menglin's marriage has caused much discussion. Jiang Menglin is a well-known educator in modern times. He once acted as the principal of Peking University for 17 years. But this cultural celebrity had a big trouble in his marriage in his later years. He was married three times in his life. The third marriage was 75 years old, which lasted for 3 years, but he was tossed half of his life. Up.
It turned out that when Jiang Menglin was young, he married his fellow daughter, the Sun family, who was a virtuous Sun family. However, he did not have a high level of education. He took care of his parents-in-law and children in the countryside all the year round. In 1933, Sun received the divorce letter and continued to stay in the countryside, but Jiang Menglin, who was still young, married another friend's widow.
At that time, Jiang Menglin said that he married her to fulfill his obligations as a friend. This rhetoric once became a literary joke. In fact, the two have been in love for a long time because of work, and the relationship after marriage can pass. The only disharmony is that his second wife has a bad relationship with many people in Peking University, which almost endangers Jiang Menglin's career.
Jiang Menglin lost his wife when he was 72 years old and was alone. However, the wife asked her relatives before she died, and she must find another beautiful woman to accompany the love-conscious Menglin, lest he is too lonely. This relative has been enthusiastic about introducing that Jiang Menglin remained unmoved until he met Xu Xianle, who was born in a prominent family, at a banquet two years after his bereavement, and his heart moved instantly.
What I want to explain is that Xu Xianle did come from a distinguished family, but she was 52 years old at the time, and she was no longer the beloved daughter in the family, but a lady with a reputation for worshipping money in social circles. In the past life, Xu Xianle had countless boyfriends, and the only marriage lasted only 7 months, she left with her husband's wealth.
Xu Xianle doesn't care about the man's sincerity, he only cares about the money. He lives very smartly and well maintained. He is still charming after half a hundred years. After the two exchanged, Jiang Menglin began to write a love letter: "Among the ladies I have met, you are the person who touches my heart the most..." It can be seen that Jiang Menglin still maintains his youthful romance, no Subject to age restrictions.
However, when the two were still in love, Xu Xianle asked Jiang Menglin for 200,000 and Jiang Menglin gave 80,000, which made her unhappy. As the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with the onlookers." All of Jiang Menglin's friends, including Hu Shi, advised him not to marry this woman in the door, otherwise he will regret it in the future. Moreover, if you marry, our relationship will have to be rethinked!
Under heavy pressure, Jiang Menglin married Mrs. Xu who was 22 years younger than him at the age of 75. Because the marriage was not blessed, the wedding was also very low-key. After the marriage, Jiang Menglin accepted an interview and confidently said: "I believe that Ms. Xu is my proper target."
However, the face-slapping came so quickly that people caught off guard. This Mrs. Xu soon began to question Jiang Menglin's personal property and changed his insurance beneficiary to herself. In less than 2 years, Jiang Menglin was hospitalized because of a fall. Not only did Mrs. Xu fail to take care of it, she quietly took away more than 200,000 cash in his account...
she even moved her account and moved away Things, by the way, quarreled with Jiang Menglin's colleagues. Jiang Menglin felt ashamed to see others after learning of all this, and finally woke up, decided to separate from Xu Xianle and offered to give her 3000 yuan a month for living expenses. But Xu Xianle felt too little, and resolutely refused to agree, and the two started a divorce lawsuit. On the one hand,
accused his wife of being “good-looking, dangerous, demanding, ranting and insulting,” and letting herself “suffer abused”. On the other hand, the official document said that the two are true love, and the husband gave the money to himself voluntarily. Those charges are imposed. Xu Xianle went to chat with Jiang Menglin again, but Jiang Menglin couldn't provoke him, so he had to hide.
At the beginning of 1964, this noisy marriage was finally judged. The two parties agreed to divorce, and Jiang Menglin paid 5Alimony of 0 million to Xu Xianle, plus the money she took away, Xu Xianle benefited more than 700,000 yuan from this marriage. The furious Jiang Menglin died less than 5 months after the divorce, but Xu Xianle has been celibate until he died at the age of 98 (2006).
