Husband fell in love with his friend’s widow, sent his wife chic and let go, and regretted it when he met others in his old age. This period has both ancient conservative and modern openness, and it is a time worth remembering.
The protagonist introduced by the editor in this issue is Jiang Menglin, a famous educator in my country. After he fell in love with his friend's widow, his wife chose to let go. However, when I met others in his later years, I regretted the decision I had made.
Jiang Menglin was born in 1886, and his ancestral home is Yuyao, Zhejiang. He is a famous educator during the Republic of China. He has obtained a Ph.D. in philosophy and education from Columbia University. His representative works include "Western Tide", "New Wave", "Talking about Learning" and so on.
Like many literati in the Republic of China, Jiang Menglin's first marriage was also the word of a matchmaker by his parents. At the age of marriage, his parents arranged for Jiang Menglin's marriage partner Sun Yushu, but this made it difficult for Jiang Menglin, who had accepted new ideas, to accept.
Later, his parents gave the order to die, and the filial Jiang Menglin could barely accept it. The two entered the palace of marriage in 1908. Although they did not have the vigor of love, there was peace of wood, rice, oil and salt, and their lives were stable and happy.
They gave birth to two sons after their marriage, which not only extended children to the family, but also added a lot of laughter. However, the twisted melon is still not sweet. When the marriage reaches the ninth year, there are finally irreconcilable contradictions.
It turned out that Jiang Menglin transferred to another relationship and fell in love with his friend's widow Tao Zenggu. The two are in a subordinate relationship at work. After getting along for a long time, they have a good impression of each other, and they quickly developed into love.
When Jiang Menglin revealed the truth, he was surprised that his wife did not make a big noise. Sun Yushu received traditional education since he was a child, and he has always been compliant with her husband, so he can only bear such a choice.
Actually, Sun Yushu chose to be cool and let go. Another important reason is that Jiang Menglin's conditions are very generous. Although the two were divorced, Sun Yushu is still the nominal daughter-in-law of Jiang's family. All living expenses of the two sons are borne by Jiang Menglin, and they have the same inheritance rights.
Sun Yushu is loyal and honest, seeing her husband as benevolence and righteousness, she will have no worries in her future life, so she chose to be chic and let go. This incident caused a sensation at the time. In order to calm the message, Jiang Menglin hoped that Hu Shi could be a witness.
However, Hu Shi's wife Jiang Dongxiu saw the clue and felt that it was better not to associate with such a character, so she firmly opposed her husband to witness marriage. Later, Hu Shi had no choice but to go over the wall. This marriage of
has always been Qin Se and Ming until Tao Zenggu passed away in 1958. Originally, Jiang Menglin planned to no longer marry a wife, but he met Xu Xianle, who was more than 20 years away from him.
Xu Xianle was once recognized as a school bachelor of Shanghai Guanghua University, and once again met Jiang Menglin by chance. The two fell in love soon after. Not long after, Jiang Menglin stepped into the marriage hall for the third time and embraced the beauty.
However, Xu Xianle is a "gold-worshiping girl", and she has the best food and clothing, and her feelings towards Jiang Menglin are not indifferent. Jiang Menglin is in his old age and only needs a supporting wife, but Xu Xianle obviously has his own ideas.
In the end, Jiang Menglin was in anguish and paid 500,000 alimony payments to dissolve their marriage. In his later years, Jiang Menglin often lamented that he was unfair to others, and missed the plain life with his wife, so he always regretted not cherishing it.
and Xu Xianle's lawsuit has just ended for half a year. The exhausted Jiang Menglin contracted liver cancer, and finally died on June 19, 1964, ending his humble life.
