The most beautiful thing in the world is that I look up at you, and you turn around to look at me, smile at each other, and we go hand in hand towards the dusk.
---------------------------Pony loves to share 1218's view of love
Everyone has their own views and thoughts on love, 1000 I have 1,000 Hamlet in my heart. Here I will share with you my view of love.
1, love is my waiting for you, quietly waiting for your appearance
love is untold, don’t fall in haste because of external reasons. Love will always come, but sooner or later .
I used to be a very arrogant girl. In school, I was pursued by many people, but I refused one by one. At the time, I felt that men were unreliable and had a faint tendency towards celibacy. Until I met the current object.
It was the summer of 2014. I had just graduated from university. With a dream, I secretly ran to Beijing with a living allowance of 1,000 yuan to start my life in Beijing.
Life in Beijing is not as happy as I thought. After paying the rent, there is only more than 100 yuan in living expenses in my pocket, not to mention finding a job, even eating is difficult. Occasionally, through the Internet, I saw a part-time job handing out flyers with a 100 yuan a day. I finally put down my arrogance and compromised with life.
The weather was very hot that day, the cicadas in the summer were accompanied by the unique rush of metropolises, and the tall buildings lined up in rows and I looked so small. I was holding about 500 real estate leaflets in my hand. At the Shuangjing subway entrance in Beijing, I tried my best to sell my flyers to everyone passing by. Only a few people would pick him up, and most people still turned around. Go, I am like an unwelcome person, that was the first time I felt lost. But life is not easy, I dare not rest for a moment and insist on finally distributing the flyers in my hand. Then I waited expectantly to send the money, but I didn't expect that the phone leading the team, QQ, WeChat could not be reached. The sun above
is scorching hot, and the people around still haven't stopped their hurried pace. The world is so big that no one cares about my grievances here and now. I began to think about why I came to this place. I stood sluggishly on the side of the road, and it was the tears falling on the back of my hand that awakened me to think.
Suddenly a bottle of water was handed to me. I followed it and saw a cleanly dressed boy standing there against the light. The sun shot him a light and shadow behind him. He smiled very nicely, and for a while I felt a little bit It is not clear who is more dazzling between him and the sun. I was stunned that I didn't catch the water, and the water fell to the ground. The atmosphere was very embarrassing at the time, and then we talked.
Until many years later, he told me that he was very sad when he saw me crying when he got out of the subway. He didn’t know what happened to me and wanted to help me. In fact, he didn’t know it. In that afternoon, he acted firmly. A lost person.
It didn't take long for us to fall in love. In the days before
, I rejected so many people, it turned out to be just waiting for you in the afternoon.
From our encounter, I realized that some of them are due to the urging of marriage by the elderly in the family, the concern of relatives and friends, and some may be old, and I am afraid that I can't find the right person and enter love and marriage in a hurry.
Is love and marriage like this what you want? The high divorce rate in China now reflects this problem.
Among China’s 1.4 billion people, only one person is old with you, so our love should not be affected by external factors, we should follow our own inner feelings, stand loneliness in order to keep the prosperity, and leave for the person who suits you. A location.
2, love is for mutual tolerance and pay.
Love is like a beautiful rose. When you appreciate its beauty, you must tolerate its thorns. After
worked in Beijing for two years, my parents were really worried that I was wandering in Beijing alone. The work was arranged at home, and there was a lot of work pressure at that time, so I hadWith a shrinking heart, I want to return to Jinan.
At that time, his monthly salary was very high and he was not tired from work.
Our original plan was that I work in Jinan, he will continue to work in Beijing, and he can meet in each other's cities on Saturdays and Sundays. One week after
returned to Jinan, he came here to look for me. On Sunday, I asked him why he left without a reservation? He smiled and told me not to leave. It turned out that on the day I returned to Jinan, he had already submitted his resignation to the company.
His smile is bright, just like that afternoon.
He gave up his good job and came to a strange city. This is a dedication to love.
just came to Jinan and it was very difficult to find a job. After all, there are still differences between Jinan and Beijing. There is no better choice in terms of working environment, salary, and job prospects.
Although we are all in the same city, he has a grumpy temper because the job search is not going well.
I can understand his anxiety and help him analyze the reasons why it is not easy to find a job. I can lower some standards first, because gold shines everywhere.
Love is mutual understanding and respect for each other, and the rose of love also needs watering and pruning.
Since returning to Jinan, I have thought about it seriously. The relationship between two people is mutual, not the contribution of one party, but the tolerance and growth of two people. Love and being loved are mutually existing relationships. The process of two people falling in love is the process of two souls running into each other. From life and encounters to create a tacit understanding between two people, the mutual respect, understanding and care of two people, This is the secret recipe for a long-term relationship.
3, love is mutual growth, making each other a better self
I remember a writer Su Cen once said: "When you meet good love, luck, luck, and anger come. I don’t agree with those who treat people. The tormented true love makes you unbearable. It must be the fate of the wrong encounter. For a long time, a good lover will definitely prosper you. There is only one criterion for judging the relationship: as long as it is right, it will definitely make you change It’s better to succeed.” I always agree with what she said, good feelings bring people happiness and courage.”
Time flies quickly, unknowingly we have been together for 6 years, here 6 During the years, we have the same goal, respect each other, we strive to make ourselves better and support each other, now we have bought a car, a house, and have a cute baby.
Sometimes I will think back to our past 6 years Bit by bit, two people walking hand in hand, it’s really not easy. Without his original bottle of water, we might not know each other in the vast sea of people. Without his giving up and giving for love, we might also be in a long-distance relationship. And parted ways. Without my understanding and comfort, we might be tortured by the pressure of life. If we don’t have a common life goal, we might have been running in love for a long time, and we will not be able to achieve success.
Yes, we can meet and know each other. This is not easy, we must learn to cherish it. Don’t forget our original intention, don’t be disturbed by external factors, learn how to get along with two people, learn tolerant, learn to give, and let them become better selves.
The most beautiful thing is like this, I love you, you love me, I look up at you, you also turn to look at me, look at each other and smile, and you will live forever.
and above are my love experiences and views on love. I It is my little horse who loves to share 1218, loves life, likes to communicate, pays attention to me, and we grow up together.
