Today we will talk about this most special constellation, which represents Cancer in the fourth house. It not only symbolizes the original family, but also the source of our sense of security. Therefore, the Cancer constellation needs a sense of security and belonging. Cancer is like a black hole, needs and pursues these. Although they may not express it, Cancer’s requirement for love is: "You must love me unreservedly. Your attention must be focused on me. You must value and care about me. I am your most important thing. People." Does
sound a bit scary?
Cancer needs the feeling of being tracked by gaze and emotion, and even being valued and cared about. It requires you to put him first in your life, and the most important people and things in your life should be her. Cancer’s strong maternal characteristics make the Moon or Venus Cancer, whether male or female, have a maternal possessiveness.
This is different from the extreme control of Scorpio. Cancer is more of a kind of maternal love. He can love you unreservedly like a mother, and also looks forward to your love for him.
Imagine that when you grow up slowly and no longer depend on your mother, your mother’s sense of loss and desire to get the strong emotion that you depend on again. If your mother is still menopausal at this time...
cough cough...I think most people have had a little experience.
Therefore, it is strongly recommended that free-loving wind signs, or students with heavier wind signs and heavier Uranus, do not provoke Cancer. After all, he loves the feeling that you regard you as his own, and he can't stand the hurt~
What they care about is not how romantic or ritual, but you and the days with you are like a trickle Flow-like emotional penetration, they can’t stand the feeling that you can’t be ranked first anytime and anywhere. This makes Cancer babies very insecure.
’s sense of security is a feeling of being surrounded by love. They must make sure that he is the most important person in your world. You can’t bear the days without him. Only then will he have a kind of security that needs to be relied upon. He In order to believe from the heart that you will not leave, you are worthy of being treated well.
This kind of suffocating need for maternal love makes me feel moved. Example of
: Venus fell on Cancer Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse. Once the golden boy and jade girl, Xie mentioned in the show that he was very hard in action scenes. After the filming, Zhang will check him from start to end and check again and again. Feel at ease when hurt~ This kind of emotional pattern similar to maternal love and care also appears in Zhang Midnight’s dreams and crying and waking up, you can thank you online, always strong emotional dependence, there is no logic at all~
everyone is also warmed by this Moved by the warm and gentle love?
The so-called "things are going to be reversed", let's talk about Cancer's "things are going to be reversed"~
If you have fallen into the honey pot that the Cancer baby loves, then congratulations, you are fortunate to have such a partner. Then please turn around, we secretly observe three seconds of silence for you. Because the Cancer babies are really "chaotic (zuo)". What does
"do"? Cancer babies will do a lot of inexplicable things to see if you care about TA!
Because they believe that you love him, they can tolerate these works, but if you can’t tolerate them, they will reason with him... Hey, when they get emotional, they won’t listen to any truth, all your truths. Will be automatically blocked, translated into one sentence: You do not love me! If you don't love me, what is the truth to those who don't love me? What reason can I tell you? Yes, in Cancer's eyes, there are only people who love me and not people in this world...
and many friends should know that Cancer is also nostalgic. Nostalgia is equivalent to good memory, and turning over old accounts is also one of the manifestations of nostalgia. They can remember all the love words you said more than 20 years ago, and the mistakes you made more than 30 years ago! When you reason with him, he will think: What you said back then, you want to watch the stars and the moon with me, and talk about life ideals from poems and songs. Okay, you have changed your heart now! I was a little princess when I was chasing me, and now I am beginning to reason with me, why didn't you reason with me at the beginning! ? You just don't love me anymore! !
And these emotions have no reasonable logic at all. Perhaps you can poke the trembling nerve line of a baby Cancer that is exposed outside the bone with just an action word that you don’t care about~
I remember a famous celebrity said: YouNever noisy a person who is unreasonable but only emotional.
So, the best way to soothe Cancer is, "Baby, are you hungry? I'm going to cook for you? Don't be angry~ You have to believe that I love you so much~ I am so nervous that I didn't notice you You punish me!!! What?”
Cancer is a typical eating soft but not hard. If you are anxious, you will cry, make trouble, and hang yourself. The best way is to hurry up and calm down.
