A novice dad, needs your support, please pay attention to me, thank you.
Two years ago, "Wrestling, Dad" was released. At that time, I saw Ji Ta in the movie won the gold medal in women’s wrestling at the Commonwealth Games. I felt enthusiastic about it. It’s hard to understand that this is not a nation, or a game I’ve never heard of. Gold medal, why does it feel like this.
may be the kind of father-daughter love, fathers can't bear his daughters are like traditional women, born to marry, serve a man and his family, they should have their own pursuits and dreams. Perhaps it was the fight against destiny in the movie, with the pressure of ridicule and hatred by many people, and finally became a wrestler, changed his destiny, and rewritten history.
At that time, it was very strange why there was no such kind of movie in China. Until Chen Kexin started filming "Win the Championship" and " Li Na", he deliberately reviewed the history of the Chinese women's volleyball team. He always respected the spirit of the women's volleyball team. Tenacious struggle has always been the main theme of the promotion. But compared to team sports, I am more looking forward to "Li Na", whether it is a life of ups and downs or a perfect love, it is more story-telling. And relatively speaking, Li Na is more controversial and more personal heroism.
is still unforgettable. The day when the five-star red flag fluttered beside the Roland Garros stadium in France, Li Na said excitedly after the game, "Actually, when the national anthem was raised, I was still a little touched. Later I learned that after all, I was the first one. That’s why Chinese athletes who won championships in the Four Grand Slams.”
As a tennis player, I have known Zhang Depei since I was a child. He was the second largest player in men’s singles in the world. Later I learned that he is a Chinese American. Experienced the times of Sampras and Agassi, experienced the times of Nader, Druid and Federer. As for the women's singles, it was the back garden of the Williams sisters and the stage for various Russian dolls. After Li Na won the Australian Open championship, when the match staff said to Li Na, "All of us need to wear gloves to hold the trophy, except you." At that moment, I was honored!
Maybe many people already know Li Na's story, but I still want to write it down. This is a dream about a dream that almost no one believes. It is a legend of a "childish" girl who was full of resentment because of her father's early death and her mother's remarriage soon afterwards. Wuhan girl under pressure. Zhong Nanshan said, Wuhan is a heroic city, and I want to say, Li Na, you are the hero in your heart.
has a Li Na's micro-film "Be Yourself", which pokes the tears of many people, including me. It was a dialogue between Li Na after retiring and her father who died for many years. From the beginning of the father’s sentence "How have you been all these years?" , my father just sat quietly, listening to Liu Na's grievances, pain and glory over the years, and listening to her being a wife and a mother. Inner joy.
Until the moment when her father disappeared, Li Na cried, maybe there was the unspoken line "I really miss you" , this taciturn paternal love is so moving. There is a scene in the movie that I still remember deeply. The young Li Na is sitting on the front bar of the bicycle and acting like a baby to her father. "Dad, is it because you didn't win the championship, so I let me learn tennis." " Dad , I practice tennis so that my legs are thick, no one treats me as a girl." Her father answered her with a smile, "Nana, when you grow up, you will know."
smiled at that moment, that When he was seriously ill, he refused to let his family members call her for fear of affecting her father, but he died when he was 14. At that moment, the sky fell, and I can imagine Li Na’s grief at that moment, "I used to think that people grow up little by little, and mature little by little, but that day I know that people grow in an instant. Big.” After the death of her father, had to pay the debts owed by the illness, and the funeral would also cost money. Her only thought was that would play one more game and the bonus would beA little more, the debts of the family can be paid off earlier.
Also during this year, my mother chose to remarry. Her once complete and beautiful family disappeared without a trace in such a short time, and all happiness was wiped out in a year. She involuntarily resented her mother, hated her for betraying herself and her father, hated her for turning herself into a child without a home, she was 15 years old, lonely and helpless.
supported her at that time, only determination was left. Even if his father is gone, 's dream is the determination of my dream. After panic, pain, and confusion, she finally chose to be strong. French Open champion, Australian Open champion, 15 years of career 9 WTA and 19 ITF singles champions, the highest ranking second in the world!
is really hard to imagine, maybe as she feels, "Sometimes I really want to go back and tell the girl who is helpless in the strange crowd: cheer up, everything will be fine. But sometimes I feel that No. Those little tribulations and obstacles turned out to be the ripening agents assigned to me by fate. They taught me to be brave and bearable. "
Of course, love is what makes her strong. I especially like her love with Jiang Shan . I like her to scold Jiang Shan in Wuhan dialect when she is playing, "Get out if you can't stand it!" "Don't touch me! " " I know, you are talking nonsense!" "Jiang Shan, you a boon, stand up and applaud!" Wait, I prefer Jiang Shan to pay attention to the side, helpless, sometimes a little dingy.
Some people say that Li Na is too shabby for Jiang Shan, but Jiang Shan said that if he can't bear this way of venting, then his "husband" is too incompetent. The most classic of their love is the sentence after the 11th Australian Open final: "I always make fun of him, but whether you are thin, fat or ugly, you will always follow you, and I will always love you."
two People knew Li Na when she was 12 years old. When we were 16 years old, Li Na always disliked Jiang Shan, "Jiang Shan is a strange flower, no, it is a non-earth creature. When I was young and ignorant, I mistakenly thought he was charming. Place, and then married him to save the planet.” had the mark of love on his chest four years before the marriage, and wanted to tattoo a fire on his leg. Inside was the word "mountain" of Jiangshan. It turned out that Jiang Shan did not get her tattoos because he was worried about what he would do if he broke up.
Jiang Shan is just like his name. It can be warm red ginger water or a cold coach. You can help Li Na thread, take takeaways, pay attention to the weather forecast, and swipe his credit card when shopping, but he can also be more ruthless than anyone else. When Li Na behaves like a baby, "Look, I practiced so well today, or tomorrow Take a break ", he will return to her fiercely, " take a break? You have to do it after you say it! Why take a break".
Jiang Shan is not romantic. The most romantic thing he ever did was his marriage proposal in 2006. He prepared 99 roses. When Li Na didn't know it, he suddenly knelt on one knee. And Li Na was even less romantic. Her first thought was that you have so much money to buy flowers. Don’t you just give it to me? "But these two unromantic people have the best understanding, companionship and trust between husband and wife.
Without Jiang Shan, there would be no current Li Na, and Jiang Shan is also a lucky guy, because he found Li Na. It's hard to tell. Whoever made them, maybe their encounter is the greatest blessing to each other. They have already merged into one. That's why there is that touching confession, "You have made me for five years, and I will reward you in fifty years." ".
Li Na is also the most controversial athlete in China. In 2002, she retired and chose Huazhong University of Science and Technology to study journalism. After five years of fighting for the country, she grew up in the "national system". The tennis female player chose to "fly solo" in 2009. After winning the French Open in 11 years, she said: thanks my team, a girl has her birthday today, and this is a gift for her. I wish her happy.
Suspicious, when she was "flying solo", she said she had no sense of collective honor, and said, "The country has worked so hard to train you, but you have to stand on your own?"; after her first round of the London Olympics, she said "playing for yourself She was very hard at the time. When it came time to represent the country, she played casually." When she was ups and downs due to injury, she couldn't wait to jump out "Don’t look at Li Na anymore, she is no longer good, and her mental quality is not good." .
She is so maverick, because what she wants is simple. plays tennis very well, earns a lot of money, makes beautiful manicures, raises a puppy, and has a baby of his own. Retiring to go to Huazhong University of Science and Technology was only a decision with Jiang Shan. So, is not smooth at all. . When she was at the University of Science and Technology of China, she said, "I don’t have a godfather. Since I can’t rely on my godfather, I can only rely on Jiang Shan." . He brought me other things that are not so important. I hope to fight with him! "
can't even see Jiang Shan, but it turns out that there are too many people helping her in recent years. I can’t thank you. I am not alone behind Li Na. We have a lot of people in our team. We want to thank all of them. "She never considers herself a national hero, she just tries to be herself, but sometimes she I will also be very upset. For those remarks that she was passive and sabotaged when she worked for the country, did she not bring her nationality when she played any games?
In 2008 when she chose to fly solo, she had just completed right knee surgery, and her attending doctor advised her: If you sign a sponsorship contract with a brand, you must remember to settle all endorsement fees at once. Because there is no guarantee that your knee will recover, maybe next year will be your last year. It was in this situation that after three months of cruel training, she participated in the Olympic Games and won the fourth place in singles history for China.
's so-called solo flight for money is even more nonsense. At that time, she was responsible for her own profits and losses. In order to support the team, she would lose more than 2 million yuan every year. She even asked Jiang Shan to plan for the worst. If she didn't get it right, she would lose all her savings. She and Jiang Shan were looking for a cheap apartment and renting a cheap place. At that time, her right knee was injured and she was facing a second operation, and the operation fee was waived by the kind doctor.
At the age of 26, she just wanted to realize her dream of being in the top 10 in the world when she was 16 years old. She never accepts the term "solo", she thinks it should be called professionalization, because only professionalization can have the opportunity to not be restricted by the system, adjust the competitive state 100% to challenge higher heights, and go To become a better version of yourself, even if you fail in the end, you can at least do your best.
This legend came too late and ended too early. It was only three years since she won the French Open in June 2011, and it was only 8 months since she won the Australian Open in January 2014. Just as all the fans were looking forward to the continuation of the legend, Li Na chose to retire. Just like Yao Ming, who retired in 11 years, from injury to surgery, to retirement, he couldn't believe it, and he didn't want to believe it. In the end, only sighs.
When we are in a great legend, we always hope to enjoy the wonderful feeling of victory, hope that they are not injured, hope that they are invincible. We always forget what they have undertaken and what we said when their state was up and down. This is the fans, may really just ask too much for us and not good enough for them.
Li Na once said that after she retires, fans can forget her as soon as possible, because forgetting her will represent a better Chinese tennis player. But just like China has never had another Yao Ming in the past 10 years, I don't know how many years it will take to wait for the next Li Na.
Young heroes will eventually leave us. Li Na before retiring said that in competitive sports, as long as in the arena, no one wants to lose, so she has a bad temper and dared to choke. She was criticized for not being grateful and ungrateful. After retiring from the military, Li Na said that family is the most important thing, so she learned to shake hands with the world around her. Apart from habitually attacking Jiang Shan, she is completely a good wife and mother.
"I worked hard, I tried my best, and I live the way I want to live." , has been working hard to be herself Li Na. She rose up amidst all her bruises and moved forward amidst criticism and doubts. She continued to challenge and The appearance of breaking through myself is the hero in my heart.
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