Recently, "Settle Down" has been aired. This reality TV series not only pokes many pain points in the real life of Chinese people buying and selling houses, but also reveals many truths about marriage.
When the passion of love has faded, what do we rely on to maintain our marriage in the days of firewood?
kid? As parents, children are the fetters of our lives, but can a marriage that depend on children to maintain it be strong?
The experience of these three women in "An Jia" tells us the answer.
1. Zhang Chengcheng
Zhang Chengcheng is Xu Wenchang's ex-wife. The two agreed to a false divorce in order to buy a house, but Zhang Chengcheng took the opportunity to cheat.
later got pregnant by accident with her little boyfriend, but wanted to remarry her aunt, so she used this child as an excuse to keep pestering her aunt.
However, Zhang Chengcheng did not manage to count, and the child was not Xu Wenchang's.
And even if it’s an aunt’s, he has long disliked Zhang Chengcheng, and Zhang Chengcheng’s final outcome can only be both.
2. Xu Wenchang's mother
This is a woman who lives only in memory. Originally, her family was happy, but her husband had an affair. When
was betrayed by her husband, she did not choose to divorce. She just forbeared and suffered depression. On her son's birthday,
hoped that her husband could come back to accompany the child, but she was refused. Under the various blows of
, she chose to commit suicide and jumped down from the 20-story building, turning her son's birthday into her death anniversary and casting a deep shadow over Xu Wenchang's life.
3. Mrs. Kan
Mrs. Kan helped her husband to start her career by herself. At the same time, she raised four children alone and took care of her parents-in-law.
However, the developed husband found a new love in a blink of an eye, and bought a luxury house as a gift. At the beginning of
, Mrs. Kan cried and made two troubles at the agency, but wanted to maintain the integrity of the family for the children.
But later, the plot began to reverse. After she was sober, Mrs. Kan decisively divorced and secretly collected evidence to return to the property. She was really relieved.
Children are not a tool to maintain a marriage. When there is no love in a marriage, it is better to get out as soon as possible, and to give yourself and children a chance to start again, in order to have more happiness.
