epidemic, all people seldom go out, and celebrities are no exception. It's rare to get along with your family, and you really have to cherish it. Stars have a baby to accompany their baby, and those who don't have a baby to accompany their parents.
Chen Xiyan plans to have a second child and plans to add younger brothers and sisters to the stars. Netizens: You can’t be blind.
Chen Xiao and Chen Xiyan are both actors we are very familiar with. The two have been in love with each other for five years because of a relationship. They are a very low-key and happy couple.
In 2015, the two announced their relationship, and Chen Xiao bluntly said on Weibo, "One day, you will follow my last name!". When Weibo was posted, all netizens were very moved, "Yang Guo" and "Little Dragon Girl" were really together. In the same year that
and the public love affair, Chen Xiao proposed to Chen Xiyan in Paris. In 2016, the two officially became husband and wife and announced the good news that Chen Xiyan was pregnant. That year, Chen Xiyan gave birth to a boy and named Xiaoxingxing.
In a blink of an eye, now their son "Little Star" is three years old, and it is the cutest time. Because of the epidemic, Chen Xiyan has had more time with Little Xingxing. Now she plays with Little Xingxing at home and teaches Little Xingxing English, which is really quite happy.
In a recent interview, the reporter asked Chen Xiyan if she planned to have a second child. Chen Xiyan responded very generously. She did have a second child. She also said that if there is a younger brother or sister to accompany Little Star, it will be very happy. thing.
Netizens also shouted, "The beauty of this couple is really a waste of good genes";
"I look forward to the birth of the younger brothers and sisters of the little star. They must be of high beauty, and you can't be blind." .
"Chen Xiao is such a good gene, is it reasonable to not have a second child?"
analysis
We all know that the best childbearing age for a woman is 24 to 29 years old, and 35 years old and above belong to advanced mothers, so mothers want two Try to choose the fetus before 35 years old.
If the first child is delivered smoothly, the second child needs to be separated by more than one year; if the first child is a cesarean section, the second child needs to be separated by more than two years.
Of course, many mothers are still hesitant, whether they want a second child, in fact, we all understand all the worries, but we also need to know the benefits of a second child.
Why choose the second child
1. One more child, one more happiness
The birth of the second child will bring new hope to the family, and it will also bring new happiness. Especially when the child is young, there will be more interesting things. Looking at the cute baby, the whole person is full of motivation.
2. Reduce loneliness with only children
Many mothers who are only children know that a baby in the family is really lonely. Since I was young, no one has played together, and no one has shared things together. Compared with a few children in other families, I am always alone. If
has hands-on hands and feet, it will be different, especially those of similar age, it is easy to play together, and the loneliness will be reduced.
3. Let the children get a more comprehensive physical and mental development
Only-child families, parents are easy to spoil their children, especially the elderly.
Because of family spoiling, many children are always self-centered and often ignore other people's feelings. When they grow up, they tend to be left-sided, and they are also prone to lack of responsibility and practical skills.
If you add a younger brother or sister to the only child, they will gradually be willing to share their things with others. In order to set an example for the younger siblings, the children will work harder.
4. Reduce the burden of the only child
is our generation, especially the only child, in addition to their own elderly and the elderly with their partners, a total of four elderly people.
Although pensions and medical insurance are now in place, what the elderly need most is the company of their children. This alone makes many people difficult.
If there are no brothers and sisters to help each other, only a husband and wife, think about how difficult the future will be. Therefore, for families with two children, the pressure on the children will be much less when it comes to providing for the elderly.
Parenting Messages
Of course, when choosing a second child, Bao’s mother still has to follow the actual situation, on the one hand, her own body.On the one hand, the family financial situation, on the other hand, is the question of whether there is energy.
It is wrong for some mothers to directly give the second treasure to the nanny or to the elderly after giving birth to the second treasure.
nanny is not as good as the care of relatives after all, and the elderly are getting older and can't be too tired and don't have much energy to take care of their children.
Therefore, it is better to educate the children by the parents themselves. Therefore, when Baoma chooses to have a second child, she must think about the future parenting of the child.
Today's topic
What are the benefits of choosing a second child?
