Love, sweetness and bitterness coexist, happiness and pain coexist, and even the pain is not willing to let go, love? This is an unsolved problem in the ages. Each of us hopes that we can have the best love and experience the happiness it brings. But what is the best love?
I always heard this sentence before: 's best love is nothing more than you making trouble, he is smiling.
We can imagine how warm and beautiful this picture is. Maybe we used to be the protagonists in this picture. Love looks like this at first. Why in the end, two people are still the same and the same environment becomes You are crying, he is arguing.
I don't totally deny the role of quarrels in getting along, but I can't appreciate that quarrels are always used to solve problems, and even quarrels do not solve any problems at all.
From the beautiful beginning to the end of the chicken feathers, how much love ends with such regrets, we doubt ourselves, even resent each other, and finally heal in time, and then seek answers, what is the best love in ?
Meng Fei has said more than once in "If You Are the One" that he thinks that the best love is to appreciate each other and need each other . Yes, this is very important in love. In addition, if you want to get long-lasting Love, I think we still need to grow up together with .
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Appreciate each other
The beautiful love between Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu is always praised. What we see is the love fairy tale of the talented Yang Jiang and the literary talent Qian Zhongshu, who stay together for a lifetime.
Have you ever known that the master of literature, Qian Zhongshu, can’t hold chopsticks, tie his shoelaces, and can’t even cook an egg, but Yang Jiang never blames him for this, and Qian Zhongshu will be because of his clumsiness I apologize and never take my wife to do these things for granted, but thank my wife for being an "all-rounder."
Because Yang Jiang appreciates Qian Zhongshu’s seriousness and achievements in learning, Qian Zhongshu also appreciates his wife who can solve all difficulties. Both of them appreciate their knowledge and attitude towards each other, so they can still ignore all other details. , This may be the combination of three views we often talk about now.
Qian Zhongshu once commented on his wife Yang Jiang: is the most wise wife, the most talented woman. Before I saw her, I never thought of getting married; I married her, never regretted marrying her, and never thought of marrying another woman.
Two people who admire each other can better discover each other’s strengths. Even if the other person is ordinary, those who admire him feel that he shines like a star, and only by admiring each other can they tolerate each other’s shortcomings, not be defeated by the details of life, and appreciate each other Love is also easier to last.
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need each other
Some people say that love is the icing on the cake, not in the snow. It is probably because in this materialistic society, everyone can have the ability to live independently, so they need the icing on the cake.
But two people will always experience difficulties together, even if the relationship has become flat, sometimes it will break a seemingly beautiful love. It is also important for
to need each other. If one party feels that it is not important to have the other party, perhaps the relationship is about to end.
My colleague Zhixin is only 30 years old this year, but he has been married for 6 years. He and his wife have been in love since junior high school, went through high school, university, graduate work, and got married in the second year after work. Now they have A son and a daughter, husband and wife love each other as before, is the object of our envy.
Look at his occasional photos of his wife and two children in the circle of friends. You can see their happiness from the smile on his face. He said his favorite thing is to go to the supermarket with his wife to buy food after get off work, and then go home together. Cooking. The younger colleague of
asked suspiciously, isn't it meaningless at all, do you think there is still love between you?
Brother Zhixin chuckled and said: I can’t tell what love is, but I understand very well that if I leave her, I can’t live well, and if she leaves me, the same is true. We can no longer live without each other. .
When I heard these words, I was moved in my heart that I couldn’t say. I need each other, know everything about each other, know each other’s weaknesses but hurt each other without mentioning each other. I need each other and respect each other so I can stay with each other until we grow old. .
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Grow together
We always say that we want to find someone who has the same three views and can get married, so many people have been waiting for this person, and finally one day we found this person, but we did not reach the end, and why ?
Because you are walking, you find that the two people are not in pace, one is left behind, and the other still has to move forward.
You are responsible for making money and supporting your family. I am responsible for being beautiful and beautiful, but it is just a beautiful yearning for deep love. Two people who cannot grow together will one day separate.
In "My First Half of Life", Chen Junsheng, who was honestly caring for his family, cheated on his colleague Ling Ling during marriage. His wife Luo Zijun couldn't figure out why her husband, who has always loved herself and her children, would do this. Chen Junsheng said that he was working There was a lot of pressure, but his wife never understood and kept buying luxury goods, but Chen Junsheng never criticized his wife because he thought it was what he should do, but he and his wife have nothing to say. Up.
and Luo Zijun is almost crazy when faced with being divorced, even begging each other, she cried and said that she also graduated from college, but obviously you said that you earn money to support me, I don’t let my wife go out to work at home. Did I do something wrong? Did I educate my child badly? There is no
. The previous promise is not false, but the wife does not understand his difficulties and what he said. Gradually, the two sides can no longer communicate. The only home that can be used as a safe haven seems to be no longer so warm.
After divorce, Luo Zijun worked hard, challenged himself, and created a world. When he saw Chen Junsheng goodbye, he was already a career expert. With a new look, Chen Junsheng only regrets. Only when
grow together can we always be equal. Two people can understand each other’s difficulties and help each other solve problems. At this time, even if it is just a hug, the other person feels that you feel the same.
So what is the best love, probably, you are always together, you need each other to be warm, grow up in the same pace, and always admire each other with smiles, and then go through the rest of your life with a firm heart.
May you fight against mediocrity together, overcome thorns and thorns together, overcome firewood, rice oil and salt, and face life, old age, sickness and death together. The point is not how your story is told, it is related to eloquence; the point is that you are always "together" (Knowing Dada)
You come to the world, you have to look at the sun and walk with your beloved On the street. --Haizi
May we all recite one day: Getting to know Junchu is like returning home.
