03, the third pair, Li Nan and He Xiaofen (small three) together to find a husband's love thinking
① The dilemma of feminism in the relationship between the sexes
Wang Luodan played Li Nan is a white-collar elite, independent and intellectual woman Li Nan, Husband divorced, but her husband disappeared, but she stayed. One day a dusty woman came to the door and played a game of haircutting with Wang Luodan, so they became friends. The dusty girl said Wang Luodan’s Her husband must have been in an accident. She said, "He has not disappeared, he only loves me". So the journey of finding a husband for the two women began.
② For a man who has never loved himself before, and for a man who has never paid in marriage, what is a pity?
Li Nan and Xiao San found out that Hu Jianping had many other types of friendships in the process of "finding a husband": Hu Jianping and Li Nan are well-known husbands and wives; his relationship with Xiaosan is purely physical; and his first girlfriend is probably a platonic love, and he even helps his life without asking for return; he also has a more mature and dignified relationship than Li Nan Women maintain a certain kind of confidant relationship and tell her all these things. Such a man seems to love every woman, but his love for them is critical. In fact, he loves no one, only himself.
In my opinion, through this journey of finding a husband, Li Nan also slowly pieced together the complete life of her husband in the bottom of his heart. Maybe he once loved her too, loved her dignified, loved her intellectual, loved her all, But she also understood that this kind of love from her husband is never satisfied and greedy. He is always asking for it, and always thirsting. Confronting is essentially a man who is changing and thinking about things. Cheating is bound to happen, and it is the same for her and other women. Divorce is the best choice you can make.
04. The inspiration and reference value of this film to the practical significance
①Love and marriage
From love to marriage, it must mean step by step from fierce to dull, from fantasy to reality. The romance of flowers was replaced by firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the dream of a perfect spouse in my mind was broken by numerous problems discovered after close encounters. Marriage emphasizes the responsibility and obligation of love, and love nourishes the survival of marriage.
② Long-term love requires mutual understanding and company
In real life, the test of love is everywhere. In love, some people just go away, and those who leaveIt's the same as our film title "The Man Caught by Light". I don't know if I left with others or disappeared by myself. But these are not important. The important thing is to hope that everyone will rethink love and examine life through this movie.
Concluding remarks: love, in the face of different ages, different realities, and different time and opportunities, are all manifestations of different states. But no matter what, although love has different forms, the connotation of the package is the same. There are as many disillusions and helplessness as we have fantasy and expectation about love. However, the ups and downs of life are always fuller and fuller because of the sweetness, sadness, happiness, and distress brought by the special seasoning of love.
