reporter Cai Chenyi/Taipei Report
Kun Ling went to Cuba for "VOGUE" magazine recently. She admitted that she was very panicked when she went to Cuba without the Internet on the first day. Later, she was able to enjoy the world without being restricted by the Internet. "Here, You will feel that the distance between people is very close."
▼ Kun Ling went to Cuba a few days ago. (Photo/Provided by VOGUE)
She said frankly that in the past, she often wanted to cater to everyone, "I used to follow everyone's ideas more, even if I feel weird in my heart, I feel not sure, but because of the pressure of time and people If you are under pressure, you will follow along. If you can handle things in this way, then so be it. But often after seeing the results, you will regret it. So why do you have to take on things you don’t want because of the urgency? You can choose to slow down and not take that step first. Don’t you always say that mature people don’t regret things? I may not be mature enough now, but I am at least on the way to growing up!” Kun Ling revealed, because I grew up. My parents are divorced, and there is actually a certain sense of insecurity and pessimism about the relationship. "But fortunately, my significant other gave me a lot of love, so I don’t feel uneasy." She believes that the greatest courage in her life so far, "It should be Marry at a young age!” But she said that she did marry Jay Chou (Jay Chou) under the suspicion of everyone at that time, so she wanted to give up in the process of dating. “But it may be because of my personality. Impulse, it may be that I regard love as my heaven, or I want to have a Wonderful Family with someone I love, so I said to myself, why not."
Thought about giving up this relationship. (Photo/Provided by VOGUE)
She laughed and said that because she always wanted to prove herself, she cared very much about the opinions of others, hoping to break the stereotype of her, but then she gradually realized that people who care about and love you treat you Your opinions are more important than caring about the opinions of people who are not around you.
Recently, because of her participation in the reality show "Why are you so good-looking", her life idea has been greatly improved, "This show puts a lot of pressure and challenges on me. I am not afraid to see an unhappy world, but I am afraid that I will be unjust. I am afraid that there is no way to give others the comfort that they really need. And after deeply involved in feeling the insolvency of many problems, I really feel that everyone should have a psychiatrist. After all, there are too many experiences in life, we can There is no need to be as strong as we think, and there is no need to comfort ourselves in the way we feel, because maybe, in fact, there can be a better outlet."
▼ Kunling used to care about the opinions of others. (Photo/Provided by VOGUE)