South Korea seems to have one or two hits every year.
's two biggest hits this year are "Parasite" and "Jin Zhiying Born in 1982".
We have already talked about "Parasites", and today I will tell you about "Jin Zhiying born in 1982".
This movie is adapted from the best-selling novel of the same name by Zhao Nanzhu, a post-70s mother. It is so sought after, and has a lot of infamy. People's anger against this book even spread to the recommender. The star who recommended this book by
was burned by internet mobs, cut up photos, and threatened personally. After the film was adapted into a movie, the internet mobs again launched a boycott of the film and began a bigger round of condemnation:
launched a personal attack on the heroine Zheng Youmi and the hero Kong Yoo of the film;
even went to the Blue House Presidential Palace to petition the South Korean authorities to ban the film. Why does
arouse public anger?
What kind of heinous crime did this girl named Jin Zhiying committed?
What is ridiculous is that Jin Zhiying didn't do anything earth-shattering, and there were no curious elements such as homosexuality, fraudulent marriages, cheating, open marriages, etc., and there was no bloody and sour horse hunting.
Some of it is just plain.
is even like a running account, which simply records all the details of a woman's life from birth to childbirth. The protagonist of
, Jin Zhiying, has a common name, just like Li Juan, Zhang Li, and Wang Fang in China;
comes from an ordinary family, father is a civil servant, mother is a full-time housewife, has an older sister, and a younger brother, and his family background is average;
about Her story is also very ordinary, birth, going to school, looking for a job, getting married, having children...
everything is done in order, of course, it seems that there is nothing to complain about.
But it is precisely this kind of "reasonable" that makes Jin Zhiying fall into the abyss.
When I was young, the good things in the family would be given priority to my younger brother:
"My younger brother’s chopsticks, socks, sanitary clothes, and shoe bags are always in pairs, and the items of the older sister and Jin Zhiying will always The mother of
often said that because she and her sister are both sensible and good at taking care of others, the two sisters have no reason to be jealous with their younger brother. When
was in elementary school, she had to endure the bullying of her neighbor’s male classmates:
Boys at the desk bully, the teacher said: Boys are like this, the more girls they like, the more they will bully her. "When
was in middle school, it was a matter of course to be followed by male students in the cram school:
" The middle school was followed by boys in the cram school, and my father scolded Jin Zhiying: Why is the skirt so short? Why go to a cram school in such a remote place? "
Jin Zhiying has been educated since childhood:
"Girls must be careful in everything, dress conservatively, behave carefully, and avoid dangerous times and dangerous people by themselves, otherwise the problem lies with people who don't know how to avoid them. "
look, how natural it is. When
is looking for a job, even if the equivalent qualifications are equally good, the interviewer will naturally be rejected:
"You are in good conditions, but we want boys more." "When
enters the workplace, he has to face many unspoken rules:
" No matter how many reasons Jin Zhiying gives, he declined, saying that he can no longer drink, and it is dangerous on the way home. If he really doesn't want to drink, he will be asked by the minister. : There are so many men here, what are you afraid of?
‘I’m most afraid of you! Jin Zhiying swallowed this sentence back into his stomach, and secretly poured the wine into the cold noodle bowl and the empty glass beside it. "
entered the year when he was urged by his elders to marry and have children. Then, under the "natural" expectation of everyone, he quit his job and became a full-time mother:
"Zhiying, I think you should not just think Thinking about what you will lose, think more about what you will gain. What a touching and meaningful thing to be a parent! And even in the worst case, you can't find a place to take care of the baby, and you have to leave your job. Don't worry, I will be responsible for raising you and will not let you go out to make money. "
caused wrist strains due to taking children and doing housework. When I went to see a doctor, the doctor naturally felt that there was nothing hard:
"In the past, we had to beat clothes with wooden sticks to clean them, and burn wood to cook clothes to disinfect... Nowadays, we have washing machines and vacuum cleaners, right? What is so hard about women nowadays? "
bought a cup of coffee to enjoy a short personal time in the park, and I should be made fun of as a "parasite":
"I really want to use the money my husband earned to buy coffee and drink, and spend my days hanging around... , It's so fate... I don't want to marry a Korean woman at all..."
Jin Jiying collapsed:
"I didn't steal my husband's money to use it. I bet on my life to give birth to the child, and even give up I have lost all my life, work, and dreams just to take care of children, but I became a bug in their mouths. What do you think I should do next? "
This is what Jin Zhiying has encountered in his life in the past thirty years. Isn't it familiar or ordinary?
women have been given too many shackles, and all the unfairness seems so "for granted":
"The world has really changed a lot, but some of the small rules, promises and habits have not changed much. Therefore, the world has not changed.
But gender discrimination still exists in our consciousness and unconsciousness. "
For example, successful actresses and female entrepreneurs will be asked:
"How to balance family and career?" "
Yesterday I saw that Dongyu Zhou's new movie may have to partner with Liu Haoran. The first hot comment below is:
"Zhou Dongyu resources are too good, I have worked with young niches many times." "
is hard to imagine. This sentence comes from a female netizen. The value of
women is still naturally attached to men. If you marry well, you can be highly regarded. It is enviable to cooperate with young students.
in the film , Jin Zhiying’s husband is portrayed as a nearly perfect husband-expressing support and understanding of his wife, appearing in the workplace as a highly gender-conscious image, and proactively applying for parental leave when his wife wants to go out to work, but all of the above It is a symbolic good.
In fact, from the tedious and tedious housework at the beginning of the movie to Jin Zhiying looking out the window in the sunset countless times, her husband is always absent.
However, ironically, a The symbolic image of a good husband on the screen has won the envy of everyone in reality: "If there is a husband like Kong Liu, what else is not satisfied? "
This just reflects that it's not just men.
and even most women are unconsciously sexist. After the movie
was released, Korean men even launched an "anti-feminist movement". I suggest that
also be launched in China. In such a survey, there will only be more men holding anti-feminist views.
Some men are anti-feminist because men are under no less pressure than women. Men have to bear the responsibility of supporting their families and have a successful career, a car and a house. Women’s demand for gender equality means that they only want the same rights as men, but they do not assume the same responsibilities as men, greedy vanity and enjoy the “gender dividend.” These men should first understand that men’s difficulties are not caused by women. Yes, the reason why both sexes are difficult is the stereotyped positioning of both sexes by some ignorant traditions. The essence behind
is still the patriarchal society, women are not treated as independent people, but male dependents.
In the past culture, women were juxtaposed with money and status. They believed that as long as men worked hard and followed the hierarchical order of the male group, they would naturally be "allocated" to a woman.
When men do not have enough wealth to have women who can prove themselves, Men will begin to oppose feminism and criticize girls for enjoying the "gender dividend." It can be seen from
that in this set of discourse, women are still just a commodity image to be sold.
read aloud a few days ago and saw a boy friend in the circle of friends Comment on this movie:
“Too much exaggeration of women’s hardships. Even children and father’s surnames, ID numbers always start with male numbers can be criticized, forgive me for feeling too sensitive.”
This just proves that men are here. From the bottom of my heart, it is natural for women not to fight or grab, but to submit to men. I think when women’s works raise these questions, you should not ask women why they are so “sensitive”, but ask yourself why everything is so reasonable.Of course? The so-called feminist rights of
are not to provoke gender antagonism, but to not be "others' mothers, other's wives", but only to exist as an independent self.
Ueno Chizuko, a well-known Japanese gender scholar, said in his admission speech to the University of Tokyo in 2019:
"Feminism is definitely not the idea of wanting women to be like men, nor is it the idea of the weak who want to become the strong. Feminism What we seek is the idea that the weak can be respected as the weak." We often say that the true fairness of a society is to protect the individual characteristics of each individual, so that a certain group or a certain person will not be excluded or even excluded because of a small proportion. Deprived of rights.
When one day, our society no longer has the so-called strong and the so-called weak, this society will be truly equal.
