"I fell in love two seconds after I saw him and I will never stop loving him, even though I fell in love two seconds after I saw him and I will never stop loving him, even though it doesn't make sense to love him." it makes no sense anymore.
─ ─ "Marriage Story"
This is a script that cannot be written without personally walking through this journey, and this is not a person who has not tasted the taste of life after thousands of times, light A true mark that can be swayed out of thin air by imagination. It’s as smooth as a real marriage, like a pile of sand on the beach, a snowman in the snow, from the hands of two happy people, from scratch to a little bit of accumulation, but built on the sacrifice and dedication of unequal power Above, it is love, how come this feeling of admiration and talented woman has become a suffocating cage in the end?
Milan Kundera's life music score, when you meet when you are young, you have the opportunity to write together and change your motivation, but after a certain age, their respective music scores gradually take shape, representing different experiences and values, and it is difficult to fit together. Keeping two styles for one and two, it is also difficult to abandon the melody of many years in order to be neither old nor new nor their own. Qin Se and Ming are often like Li Weijing’s description of the body consciousness of pas de deux Men lead, women follow, and the dominant player does not. I feel that in accordance with social norms, the follower has no choice but to become a foil role for a community of destiny. There are helplessness and regrets, sweetness and quarrels, laughter and tears, anger and warmth, estrangement and tolerance. , The two glowing artists ushered in another ending of "City of Philharmonic" in parallel time and space.
"Divorce is like death in a way. When it happens to you, people can talk about it, but people don’t want to really mention that something is no longer in it. I just think we can find a way to make a movie. , Can be close to this theme in both aspects, and at the same time can completely override this theme."
Noah Baumbach and Greta Gerwig can be regarded as Hollywood geniuses and beauties. The boyfriend who has been in love for eight years to the present is writing and directing this part of " The gold medal producer of "Marriage Story" sharply analyzes a broken marriage and a united family, and injects many personal touches under real life. In addition to his praised black humor, it will also bring many resonance and tears to the audience. Scarlett Johansson and Adam Driver compose a "Marriage Story" that tells how a couple who had been in love came to the end of their divorce. The script is more embodied in the director’s previous marriage to the end, he can see Scarlett Johansson’s self It is projected in the movie, because she was divorced twice, as she has gone through this stage, and she also understands the complex feelings of being a child.
The two people acting as husband and wife brought unexpected chemical effects. The extremely natural emotional expression showed no trace of "acting". In the play, Scarlett Johansson's Nicole career is an actress, hoping to win a TV in Los Angeles Charlie of Adam Driver is a theater director who is eager to develop his promising creative plan in New York. The poster design echoes the ingenuity of the plot arrangement, one on the west bank and one on the east bank. Unable to reach a consensus on career goals and family life, there have been several fierce tit-for-tat disputes, which also extends many legal challenges regarding divorce proceedings.
The love that holds this intimate relationship tightly is present between each other, and has not disappeared. It exists in the intimate interaction of trimming the hair, in the thick door that is pushed together, and in the sincere blessing from the heart, It exists in the daily trivialities of choosing meals, and also in the subtle actions of squatting down to help tie shoelaces without hesitation; perhaps love is impulse and enthusiasm at the beginning, but it becomes the folds of the years. The tacit traces of life have become a large part of the reason why we are now we cannot be separated, a certain level of complementarity and a certain level of similarity, in the name of marriage and family.
Many people are most impressed by the cruel accusation of accumulating emotions, pointing to the nose and glaring at each other. From the initial rational argument to the nonchalant, the sharp edge of the speech is the sharp edge of the increased tone. The four strings at the high point of the tension sounded like a cracking silk, and suddenly fell into silence, full of tears of annoyance, as if regretting how you once again hurt the one you once loved the most. Adam Driver aggressively said that that was also your own choice. Why not? We have all accepted our role in the flood of fate, but this road may not be able to go to the end, and no one will be responsible for our future lives without making changes for ourselves.
There are often more than two opinions in a relationship. In the past, it was just a story told by oneself, with a panoramic view of one's grievances, sacrifices and imbalances, and an unauthorized interpretation of the other party's situation, achievements, and reason. Charlie felt that his wife was not close Favor, she petitioned for divorce simply because she was dissatisfied with marriage and infidelity. Nicole knew from the bottom of her heart that it was difficult to communicate with the person in front of her. She didn’t even understand herself. One person gradually lost and one person kept giving. After losing control, he calmed down his husband who was on the verge of collapse.
"The reason why I love Charlie is because he likes to be a father. He likes to be almost annoying. He cries easily when watching movies. He is very strong. He knows what he wants. He knows how to wear clothes. Very sloppy dress, few men can do this. He accepts my emotions and does not embarrass me. He rarely gives up, but I often do." The plain Scarlett Johansson showed her as a mother, The wife’s women struggled to find a response to the dignity and autonomy, mixed with perseverance and fragility, blooming the most beautiful posture in the trough of life; in the past, tied up by the family and watching her husband affirmed in the corner, she was once gloomy and returned After being familiar with the growing environment, she sang joyfully with the hands of her family. At this time, she seemed to be the focus of the audience again. She deserves to live under the applause and the spotlight, rather than playing the great woman behind a successful man after becoming a wife. , Only occasionally on the awards stage and other occasions can I hear my own devotion being carried over by a clichéd testimony.
Her confession is as calm and rational as her eyes, and she narrates her mixed feelings along the way. Her eyes flow and body language constantly change with her mood. From happiness to confusion, from confusion to pain, what is now Everything that happened is closely entangled with all past experiences. People often unconsciously push themselves into dangerous roads, and sometimes they face the dilemma of balancing the two evils, whichever is less. The meaning of life lies in the pursuit of personal value, but life requires emotional accompany and dependence as support, and even conflicts with each other. Between the last resort, we can only reluctantly find partners in the current stage of contradictions and difficulties to find a balance. Everyone There is no way to know what the ending will be after the change, but the only thing we know is that if you do not seek change, you will only struggle repeatedly in the quagmire and sink deeper and deeper in the foreseeable future.
"The reason I love Nicole is because she is good at dancing and full of infectious power. She is good at playing with children and playing crazy. She is good at giving gifts. She is very good. She knows when to spur me. It’s time to walk away quietly.”
Adam Driver’s gestures are all shining. In his understanding, he also dedicates everything to his dreams, career and family, and he believes that a perfect couple will work together to make family and career happy, starting from his own starting point. For consideration, I decided based on my own likes and dislikes, and unconscious proposals were left behind. The marriage was on the verge of breaking and remained passive, gentle, and late, without a sense of crisis. It wasn't until the lawyer called that he felt that he was under the enemy, but he had already been taken away from the dominance of the whole thing. He couldn't even figure out which part of the matter went wrong. He could only silently and passively accept that the development of the matter was beyond his control. Range.
Charlie also has his own rhetoric and explanation for his wife's complaint. When the dissatisfying details of life are brought to the table, it seems that everything is just an aggressive human nature, but it can be big or small. It is no longer the person next to his pillow who gets along day and night. First he is alienated, then repressed, and then angry. The one who is generally considered to be emotional is always calm, and the one who is generally considered to be rational is fragile and so fragile. Finally, he cries and loses his voice. The thick shoulders of trust once showed weakness and loneliness, awkwardly hiding his embarrassment and loss in front of his son, and pity and sympathy under the director's lensHe emerged spontaneously and turned into a bitter song of "Being Alive". He is still the man who is not good at expressing and full of flaws. He restrains and releases the great pain in the depths of his soul. He only sees that everyone is facing himself very hard. On the battlefield, no one can bear to continue to criticize.
Maybe there is no domestic violence, no abuse, no alcohol and drug abuse, no bad habits, and the career is gradually going smoothly, but this is the most horrible and inexplicable thing. We can’t find the life development of the two in the intimate relationship. Balance, when one person’s career is flourishing in a marriage, the other person will inevitably support a home alone, so life is getting smaller and less important. John Cheever has written that all that is done to maintain a marriage is How much is good?
"Criminal lawyers see the good side of bad people, and divorce lawyers see the ugly side of good people."
Laura Dern's interpretation of the female lawyer Nora is remarkable, bold and careful, sociable, and with precise and sharp unique eyesight. Ding Shenxian has the upper hand in the coming and going. Her rich practical experience allows her to see through the marital dilemmas faced by modern women, and once again point out that mothers in a patriarchal society are always closely connected with everything about the family and children, slightly Negligence, languidness or carelessness will degenerate into a failed woman in the definition of everyone.
At the beginning, when we were in court, the duty of lawyers is to help clients get the most benefit in a limited space. So blood spraying is one of the methods, so it is reasonable to do everything. Intimacy is a relationship of power. Based on the facts without emotions, it is a two-sided sword. Those with vested interests may unconsciously or even inertially ignore them. Once they are naked in the sun, they cannot stand up to any scrutiny. How many couples have torn their faces in court in ancient and modern times. , Killing and not contacting each other, from the original intention of protecting the child to no old feelings at all, but this is not the original intention of two people who love each other as always. We all need someone to hug you too tightly and hurt you too deeply.
The desired feelings all have a romantic encounter, and perhaps there have been two hesitating souls who are also fallen into the world. Under the arrangement of fate, in the most hesitating and helpless time in life, the unsuccessful theater director Meet the actresses who run into walls everywhere in the big city full of hope and despair, and light up stars after each other in the dark night.
"Marriage Story" is different from most love stories. It starts with gentleness and ends with gentleness. It counts the advantages of writing meticulously through the perspective of love. If there is no more than a second in the line of sight On the other side, Noah Baumbach omitted the beautiful love process that everyone praised. We saw the inevitable end of the intimate relationship, the true appearance after the enthusiasm was consumed by life, there were marital unbearables, and projections. There are also traces of sadness across the shadows. The brilliant golden surface of the past is covered with messy scratches, large and small, but when you look carefully, you suddenly burst into tears at a certain moment. It is the stars under the clouds. , The light blue soft light at the far end of the line of sight is also the love after tempering.
"Let life slower and longer, continue to touch, love and hate, remember and forget, to be a thorn, but also to be a hug," Huang Liqun said, "To live is to go Feeling happiness and hardship, boredom and mediocrity,” Yu Hua wrote. Those things that have happened have never really passed away, but are covered with reluctance to accompany us in a new form to continue moving forward in the future, turning sorrow and pain into life Nutrients and regrets can flow through my heart like a beautiful sunset. Really mature love makes people calm. Only when the heart is calm can we think deeply, and the cracks will have the opportunity to repair. Those who can't get through will one day naturally and lightly cross it. The beauty of humanity and art changes the real world bit by bit. Texture, this is the most sincere and moving movie this year.
