China News Network reported on November 30 Source: CCTV News
CCTV exclusive interview with domestic violence victim Yu Ya: Why did not choose to call the police or leave when he was domestically abused for the first time
On November 25, Weibo host "Yu Ya" "Yuyamika" (He Mou, female, 28 years old) posted on Weibo saying that he was domestically abused by his ex-boyfriend Weibo host "Tuotuo's Wind Demon" (Chen, male, 44 years old, hereinafter referred to as "Tuotuo"). On November 27, the blogger Yuya's ex-boyfriend Tuotuo was administratively detained by the public security organs of Jiangbei District, Chongqing for the 20th.
"Yu Ya: I don't know what he is going to do next, I am very scared. Then I started yelling, I have been on the 66th floor, crying for help, very loud, I used all my strength to shout. That. At that time, I just wanted someone to see it, but I didn’t."
An exclusive interview with CCTV Newsweek, the victim Yuya
, allows more victims to recognize the dangers of domestic violence
"break free" from the vortex of violence
"Yu Ya: accompanied by a lawyer, I have already applied for a personal safety protection order, and it has been down today. I also hope that this protection order can truly protect my personal safety." The public security agency determined that from early April to August this year At the end of the month, Yu Ya's ex-boyfriend repeatedly intentionally injured him and violated the law, but the damage did not reach the level of minor or minor injuries.
△ Yu Ya posted the emergency medical record of the fifth domestic violence on Weibo.
"Reporter: The first time he committed domestic violence, why didn't he refuse him at that time?
Yuya: Actually, many people are asking me this question. Because I think the first time being domesticated is not so easy to do it. Choose to leave immediately. You have feelings for him, and you have expectations. The kind of emotional bondage will make you feel soft and want to forgive him. Moreover, after he is violent, he will show good. The first time I met You really don't know what to do at that time, and how to make a very clear and correct decision."
In September this year, Yu Ya issued a statement in the circle of friends, severing relations with Tuotuo.
"Yu Ya: Some of his former friends and his wives saw my statement and took the initiative to find me and talked to me a lot about his previous things. Only then did I slowly understand the seriousness of this matter." After that, Yuya and Tuotuo’s ex-wife and friends will make a documentary about their encounters, which will be released on the International Day for the Elimination of Domestic Violence (November 25).
"Yu Ya: I have received a lot of messages. I really don’t know that so many women are being domestically abused. I hope that the video can be seen by more people, can give them a little strength, and let them Don’t think you’re a weak person, you should be patient. Even if I make a small voice, maybeIt will be different. According to statistics from the third survey conducted by the All-China Women’s Federation, 24.7% of women experienced various degrees of domestic violence during their marriage. The victim suffered an average of 35 violations before he chose to report to the police.
"Reporter: After he was detained. , Is there a feeling of relief?
Yuya: Yes, I think he has been punished accordingly, and I hope he can change. Reporter
: Do you still have expectations for him?
Yuya: It's not an expectation, I just hope that he won't hurt new girls anymore. Producer of
/Editor-in-chief of Xu Bing/Reporter Ma Wenjia
/Yao Daolei, Lu Bo
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