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Some people see it three hundred times, but some people see it three times. ——Introduction
"About Winter" was originally written by Qi Qin in just 15 minutes to express his miss for Wang Zuxian.
Rao Xueman was deeply moved, and inspired by this to create the novel "About Winter", which is now made into a movie, revealing the regretful love to the fullest, so that too many people who parted and regretted in love can feel the same.
went to the theater to watch a movie last weekend. I have always liked Ma Sichun very much. He has good acting skills and he is very real and kind. Not to mention Huo Jianhua, the ancient costume male god, acting in a modern drama is unambiguous.
did not expect the first snow in 2019 to be felt in the movie. The story of
begins in winter, with heavy snow, cold and romantic. The heroine of
met Qi Xiao in the heavy snow. Two people who didn't meet each other would entangle each other for a lifetime. Maybe this was fate, and it would take ten thousand years. The whole story of
is still very complete, with many details echoing back and forth, and it truly expresses the various emotions of love through language, actions and scenes perfectly. In just two hours,
expresses in detail the love story of the male and female masters for most of their lives, just like an exquisite kaleidoscope. Through this kaleidoscope, you can experience the prosperity and loneliness of this world with a little heart. The beauty and regret of love.
01
In this world, all deaths are better than births
"One day you will understand that in this world, all deaths are better than births." This sentence An Ran said to his daughter. The humble language of
runs through An Ran's entire youth and life.
Enron loved Qi Xiao so much, but because of various practical reasons, she was separated alive. She cried countless times, looked forward to countless times, tried countless times, and finally passed by love. After meeting
for the first time, An Ran was moved by Qi Xiao’s kindness and handsomeness. After watching the concert, she returned to the dormitory and sang Qi Qin’s songs. The corner of her mouth recalled the heartbeat she encountered, and her eyes were full of anticipation of love .
Since that day, An Ran has been waiting for Qi Xiao's letter day by day, panicking and frustrated, but the feeling of heart is coming, even if he did not meet, he did not escape with time. After the second meeting of
, Qi Xiao and An Ran stood by the bridge, talking and laughing. The natural state of having known each other for a long time made me think in a daze that they had been in love for a long time.
Not surprisingly, they are in love, cuddling each other in each other’s tender hometown, and taste the taste of love generously. Every time An Ran sees Qi Xiao, his face is full of smiles. That is the most simple appearance of love, which can’t be fooled. anyone. The initial love of
was pure and happy, and didn't care about anything, but it was the reality and the family got stuck.
Qi Xiao had to return to Taiwan to take care of him because his father had a stroke. With tears in her eyes, An Ran said in an almost imploring tone that she can do nothing, their love has nothing to do with money, but Qi Xiao is calm and serious, "not moved", he must withdraw from Beijing.
Since then, Qi Xiao and his ex-girlfriend Ye Yuchen have been married, and they have devoted themselves to career. See you again, Qi Xiao divorced, and Enron became a famous host in the country. The two spent their leisure time together in Taiwan. During this reunion, all the thoughts, unwillingness, and grievances burst out.
Once again, not surprisingly, they caught each other back and went back to Beijing to live a simple life. Qi Xiao said that they would buy a small house, and the two would live happily and simply and solemnly to propose marriage. They were moved to tears.
To be honest, Qi Xiao Anran's marriage proposal scene, in many marriage proposal scenes, can be said to be very unluxurious, but it is full of moving. It is the taste of reunion, the happiness finally obtained, although simple, it is incredibly luxurious.
Obviously happiness is within reach. Obviously, he will get married soon. There is another moth out of Taiwan. Qi Xiao is pulling the suitcase to leave, and rushing in the door An Ran, asking him where he is going. An Ran yelled hoarsely, and said that if Qi Xiao left, there would be no possibility for them.
I thought Qi Xiao would cry. I thought Qi Xiao would hug An Ran and told her that she was helpless and reluctant, but she didn't. Qi Xiao took the suitcase and left without looking back.
Seeing this, I suddenly thought of the TV series "Why Shengxiaomo", Zhao Mosheng is going on a business trip.The packed suitcases were placed in the living room. He Yichen was disappointed when he saw it and threw Zhao Mosheng down and asked her where she was going. The fear of losing again is so distressing.
It's just that Zhao Mosheng was really on a business trip, and Qi Xiao really left like this. It was the last time in their lives, they were so close.
Seeing this, I even doubt Qi Xiao's love. Does he love Enron? Then why is Enron always ranked last when choosing? Does he love Anran? Why never see him crying, nor can I see his reluctance.
Until the end, when I saw the appearance of the middle-aged Qi Xiao at home, I suddenly realized that Qi Xiao certainly loves Enron, and no less than Enron. Isn't the roses full of the courtyard exactly what he expected?
He once told An Ran himself that he wanted to have a small house, planted with roses, and live with his loved one.
He really fulfilled his promise back then, but only the one he loved the most was missing. The lens of
rose flower flashed by, but inexplicably completely touched my heart, I was caught tightly in their love, unable to extricate myself.
Qi Xiao loves rationally, Enron loves emotionally.
Qi Xiao once said with regret: This enthusiasm should have belonged to me, but I regret to miss it.
If you take a serious taste, you will find that not everyone loves the way so hot, adult love, there are too many things, family, responsibility, reality.
Qi Xiao is a very responsible person, so why not let him give up his love? But he couldn't help it, he couldn't just watch his father grow old without making any efforts. For Qi Xiao, he was even more helpless.
True love is restraint, and this sentence couldn't be more appropriate for Qi Xiao.
Qi Xiao's forbearance and peaceful enthusiasm are flowers that bloom in love, but the season has passed before it blooms, so the thoughts of a lifetime are left behind.
02
The reincarnation of love regrets, after all, trying to make up for
An Ran's daughter named Xiao Nian. The word "read"
, taken apart, is: I still conceal it in my heart to this day.
thinks of youth, heart, and Qi Xiao.
Those who have been riding horses and galloping in youth, how can they easily forget, how can they dare to forget easily.
is like Qi Qin and Wang Zuxian, entangled for more than ten years, and finally dispersed. Wang Zuxian lived abroad for a long time, ignoring this worldly love and hate, as she said: "Everything is blank, my feelings are gone. In the future, it will be blank." Some people at
love feelings only, if they are gone, they will be gone, and they will never look for their true heart, and they will never take out their hearts.
Some people also love love, but after all, they have to let go of this world and be responsible for themselves and those who love her.
An Ran and Yu Feng are married, with all the regrets, I think also with love.
Qi Xiao and An Ran are full of regrets, but An Ran's daughter and Qi Xiao's son meet again. Obviously, their relationship is more than friendship.
walked through the place where Qi Xiao and An Ran walked together, looking for the lost happiness again, so warm.
Qi Xiao and An Ran may have regrets and unwillingness, but fortunately, their children are simple and lovely, upright and beautiful, understand the emotions of their parents, and have never complained, even going back to the past, trying to paint perfect for their love Dot.
In fact, the plot design of the movie echoes back and forth in many places. When
was in love, Qi Xiao invited An Ran to the photo studio to watch him do activities. After An Ran became famous, he went to Taiwan as a host, and Qi Xiao secretly ran to be an audience.
once fell in love with love, once was parting and seeking love.
An Ran didn't believe in love at first, and said mischievously: Unless she can meet Qi Qin on the street, she believes in love.
She did not believe in love, but fell in love with Qi Xiao irresistibly, like a gust of wind.
She said that she only believed in love when she met Qi Qin. At the end of the film, it was stated: At that time, An Ran was on the way to the concert, and the person who passed her by was Qi Qin himself.
may have its own arrangements.
and love met at the concert, and regretful love, met again at the concert.
After 28 years, Qi Qin held a concert in Beijing again. Xiao Nian and Qi Xiao’s son Qi Yitian gave them to An Ran and Qi respectively.The tickets for Xiao's concert, they tried every means to complete their mutual regrets.
Qi Xiao's temples gradually turned pale, and he stood there blankly, sitting in the crowd, crying and singing: "Dear in the long night, in the days to come, please don't cry for me..."
faded The edges and corners of youth, the slightly mottled people, met again in a similar scene.
saw this, really crying. In the film
, An Ran said: How deep is the fate of one person with another person for more than 50 years.
We all know that An Ran and Qi Xiao are closely related, otherwise how would they meet and love each other in the vast sea of people. Maybe later, it was Yuelao's red line that made a mistake, which caused them to go through twists and turns and leave them.
but after another thought, they finally met again at Qi Qin's concert, even if they just looked from a distance, it was actually a great comfort to the lover who was full of miss. For Qi Xiao and An Ran, the reunion of the children preparing for
is a make up, a late concert, and a late love.
If regret is destined to be a common thing in love, Qi Xiao and An Ran's hard work is already touching. The
film stopped abruptly after they met. It's better to imagine it bravely. If they hold hands again, it is not impossible. When
meet again, you and I are both alone. If you break the copper wall and iron wall, "Are you willing to put your hand in my hand."
I thought, if Qi Xiao dared to say this, An Ran would not hesitate.
Xiao Nian and Qi Tian Tian don't mind, but support with both hands. Yu Feng, who was hiding in another world, would breathe a sigh of relief, because for Feng, if he was happy, he would be happy.
03
Selfless love is a warm haven
The love of Qi Xiao and An Ran is multi-faceted and colorful.
Yu Feng's love for An Ran has only two words: selflessness.
From beginning to end, Yu Feng loves An Ran very much. He considers everything for her and makes a beautiful resume for her. It is as thick as a book and as beautiful as a picture album. Maybe the details have not been shown, but it must be Yu Feng's struggle Made all night long.
An Ran’s broken love, Yu Feng accompanied, An Ran started a business, Yu Feng encouraged, Yu Feng spared no effort to give to her everything An Ran wanted to do, never asking for anything in return, and never demanding unreasonably because of his contribution to An Ran An Ran was with him.
At first, I thought that Yu Feng didn't know about An Ran and Qi Xiao.
didn't realize that Yu Feng was a sensible person until he saw a plot.
Yu Feng's mother happily said that Qi Xiao was married, holding the wedding photos of Qi Xiao and Ye Yuchen, constantly praised Qi Xiao's wife for her beauty, and handed them to An Ran to see.
An Ran slowly took the photo and looked at it with disappointed and helpless eyes. Yu Feng was always paying attention to An Ran's changes and tried his best to prevent An Ran from continuing to look at it. It turned out that he knew everything, and he knew everything.
An Ran was extremely sad because of Qi Xiao's departure. He threw the cell phone Qi Xiao gave her and threw it into the river, and said: The old will not go, the new will not come.
Yu Feng was stunned, looking at An Ran lovingly, and asked: "I am the old or the new one." This sentence of
was too heartbreaking, funny and pitiful, wronged and warm. Perhaps An Ran didn't even know Yu Feng's position. Although it was not as good as Qi Xiao, it was definitely An Ran's safe haven.
Compared with Qi Xiao Yinren's love, Yu Feng's love is hot and great.
In a relationship, people who love a lot are often full of uncertainty about love. Until his death, Yu Feng is still thinking about An Ran, and is still asking if An Ran regrets marrying him?
An Ran said without hesitation: "I have never regretted marrying you." Of course,
does not regret it. Yu Feng's love for her is water flowing and free of impurities. From the end, An Ran can get Yu Feng like this. Your love is a joy and a happiness.
may not be the happiness of falling in love, but it is definitely warm happiness.
This kind of love is really rare.
When everyone is sorry for Qi Xiao and An Ran's parting, perhaps they should also pay attention to the unrequited Yu Feng. He may not be the most dazzling one, nor the protagonist, nor did he receive An Ran's only love.
But he is not sad.
He has been accompanied by Enron for decades, which is extremely rare for love.
is like what Yuan Quan said: "The person you meet randomly on the road is the person someone else meets in their dreams."
An Ran who accompanies Feng is the person Qi Xiao thinks about day and night. From this point of view, Yu Feng is not wronged at all, instead he has a lot.
In love, without distracting thoughts, is qualified to be accompanied by love.
Another character in the play, Ye Yuchen, Qi Xiao’s wife, loves too paranoidly. In order to destroy the relationship between Qi Xiao and An Ran, she resorted to various tricks. On the surface, she seemed to have won. As she herself said, she had played the best The drama is a lie to An Ran.
She thinks she is wonderful, but in fact she has nothing, no love, no company, no respect.
Yu Feng loves selflessly and warmly, Ye Yuchen loves paranoid and sad.
Maybe their ending should give us enlightenment. For love, in addition to being sincere, it is best not to intrigue and use bad acting skills. If
cannot be honest and truthful, it is not qualified to have happiness.
is just like what Rao Xueman said in "Left Ear": "Who is whose savior? No one is. In the misplaced emotions, we can only pay for our own pain. The pain is extreme. I can't blame others for a point either."
Ye Yuchen refuses to think about his own faults, but wants to punish others and harm others and himself.
If lovers are like Yu Feng, maybe there will be no heart-piercing tragedy in love. There is no jealousy, no scheming, and only warmth is left.
Parting is the norm, and meeting is luxury.
Regarding love, there is indeed too much helplessness. Even if the blood is broken, it will not necessarily lead to lifelong companionship.
Zhang Ailing wrote in "Love in the Fallen City": "Death and life are bound to each other, and you will become a son. Hold your hand, grow old with your son... It is really the saddest poem, life and death and parting , Are all major events that cannot be controlled by us. Compared with the power of the outside world, we are so small and so small! But we want to say:'I will always be with you, and we will never leave forever. We did it like the master."
We really can't do it, and we really feel helpless.
But An Ran once said, "This peace of mind is my home." Such a touching love sentence of
is much more romantic than "love you for life".
Maybe what the future will be, neither you nor I can control it, but the heart that loves you is here. In your heart, this is my warmest and most comfortable home.
This is the warmth hidden under regret.
regret is real, but in the end it is just a result. The
process has been earth-shaking, this is precious that many people can't repair.
may be regrettable and worthy of regret, but beauty is also worth remembering.
has a deep affection and will remember each other all his life. If there is no fate in this life, we will meet again in the next life.
wishes all those who have wept bitterly in regret, and try to relive those extremely warm memories. For the unobtainable results, the process is actually more precious. If you really love
, try to be calm.
is not only for Qi Xiao and An Ran, but also for you and me.
