How happy an ordinary Chinese family is, just watch this movie to know

can make people feel a warm and harmonious family atmosphere on the big screen. Such movies are rare. Regardless of which generation you are, you will always have the same feelings about home. A word from your family, a taste, and the state of each New Year’s Day have already formed the deepest memory in your mind, as long as there is a touch , Can run out at any time, that is a warm and joyful feeling. The movie "Don't Tell Her" is like a memory switch. It not only opens everyone's memories of home, but also starts from the perspective of humanization, with the intention to find profoundly among people, countries and cultures. Resonance with culture. The movie

describes a big family in an ordinary city in China, with three generations of grandparents, two sons who went on separate journeys because of their academic careers, the eldest son lives in Japan, and the second son lives in the United States...The eldest grandmother in the family is seriously ill. Several generations of people gathered in this small northeastern city again. Regarding whether to tell her grandma’s condition truthfully, the second granddaughter Bi Li, who grew up in New York, had different opinions from everyone in the family. She wanted to tell the truth. Tell grandma, because she feels that grandma has the right to know, so that grandma can plan the days that will not be long in the future according to her own mind, but in the process of in-depth contact with family members on her return home day, her My thoughts have gradually changed...

The film is like a trickle, like ordinary days, slowly flowing with time. Inadvertently, you will suddenly find that a certain scene is a portrayal of your real life, and how subtle it is between saying and not saying it. This is the greatest feeling this film brings to the director. Seeing such a film is not only It feels dull, but relaxed and substituting. The strong family atmosphere of the whole family is very contagious. The parents at the dinner table are short of time by their side, urging marriage, leaving singles, working, and children going to school. It seems tacky, but it is a source of happiness for the whole family. Whether you are ostracized or want to express, it is your true state. While spitting out while enjoying this completely relaxed state, that is the most authentic home that brings to people. a feeling of. Grandma

is the core of this big family and the cohesion of the whole family, which is very symbolic in the film. For example, in several dining scenes, the family sits around a large dining table. Although the living room of grandma’s house is not too big, the round dining table must be large enough, whether it’s chicken, duck, fish, seafood or breakfast buns. Youtiao rice porridge, the atmosphere of a big family pervades this table. In addition to the large dining table at home, there is also a larger dining table in the restaurant. Grandma sits in the main seat, with children and grandchildren full of the house. It feels like a typical northern Chinese family’s New Year’s Eve dinner. Like touchable. In fact, the director just wants to use such a big dining table to highlight a traditional culture. The warm and cold feelings of the Chinese are between this table, which is authentic Chinese. Think about those of us who have not come from generation to generation. This year will be our children and grandchildren, and next year we will be our children and grandchildren. A big dining table, passed on from generation to generation, regardless of where we are in the world, just sit at this dining table. On top, just a bite of food is the taste of home. The image of the grandmother in the

film is vivid and interesting, very representative. The sound of "my granddaughter" is particularly cordial. The image of an old lady from the north emerges on the screen, festive and cordial, and there is no barrier to anyone. Engaged at the wedding banquet for the grandson, entangled with the hotel for the recipe, busy with the family's heart. Grandma is kind, but she is the head of the family. She is full of love for her family and refuses to give up. This is the cuteness of the old lady.

No matter where you are, family is always a place where you can show your truest side. Movies give people a sense of return and relaxation. Home is everyone’s root. No matter where you are, the root remains unchanged. The film takes the grandmother's illness as the entry point and opens the door to "home". At the same time, the overseas background of the protagonists of the family in the film also endows the word home with a variety of emotions, giving this film a special flavor. This can be seen from Bi Li. The change in her thinking after returning to China is actually her awakening of her Chinese roots. The movie is called "Don't Tell Her", on the contrary, through this "Don't Tell", Bi Li has learned a lot.