Recently, the movie "Young You" adapted from the novel "You are so beautiful" by Jiu Yuesui was finally released. It broke 200 million box office on the first day and 600 million in 3 days. The Douban score remained stable at 8.5 About points. The good results of the
film are due on the one hand to the acting skills of the director team and actors, especially Zhou Dongyu’s shadowy crying scene and Yi Yangqianxi’s superb acting skills to subvert the image and break through, on the other hand, it should be attributed to the high school violence. Hot topics, as a youth film, the absence of cliché plots such as premature love, abortion, and copy homework also gives the film a lot of points. The
film started with a high school student Hu Xiaodie who committed suicide by jumping off a building. She chose to commit suicide because she could not bear the violence and bullying of her classmates on her campus, and the heroine Chen Nian watched and took photos with her classmates. When watching the excitement, she resolutely took off her coat and put it on her. Since then, she has become the target of the new school violence and bullying.
The chair was splashed with red ink, someone hit his head with a ball in volleyball class, was pushed downstairs when going down the stairs, endured other people's verbal insults to her mother, was careful not to speak loudly at school, was afraid of being chased and blocked on the way after school... …She has experienced the unbearable pain of her peers, and endured the unbearable life of her peers, but still has hope in life. The dream of "going out" has become the motivation for her to study hard and live hard.
Once by chance, she met Xiaobei, who was as lonely and helpless as him. They warm each other, trust each other, and work together. However, the initiator of campus violence, Wei Lai, a wealthy eldest lady, broke their original goals and plans. In the end, Chen Nian gave up the opportunity to study at a prestigious university and was imprisoned for four years. But fortunately, Xiaobei has been with her to protect her, and will never leave her.
Although the ending of the film story is quite satisfactory, in real life, not every student who suffers from campus violence can have a good ending.
According to statistics, 240 million students worldwide are subjected to school violence every year. In recent years, incidents of violent bullying in schools in our country have continued. News about young victims being beaten, pissed, raped, and taken nude photos have been reported from time to time, and some have even caused casualties, not only causing great physical and psychological harm to the victims and their families. , It also has an extremely bad impact on society. Therefore, while we call on the country and society to pay attention to campus violence and bullying incidents, we also hope that students who have encountered campus violence can face it bravely, work hard to solve it, and live optimistically.
01 If you have the courage to die, don’t give up the right to live easily.
Yu Hua’s novel "To Be Alive", Fukui once said, "Human water lives for the sake of living itself, not for anything other than living." And to live", facing all the relatives dying in front of him one by one, he still worked hard to live, even if he could only be with an old cow. From his story, we see the preciousness of life. I understand that Fugui is not living for himself, but for those relatives who want to live well but are dead.
news often reports news incidents of star suicides. Whether Leslie Cheung a few decades ago, Qiao Renliang a few years ago, or Shirley a few days ago, they chose to end their lives in extreme ways in the face of pressure. Escape and relief. The same goes for Hu Xiaodie in the
movie. She couldn't bear the insults, ridicule and bullying from her classmates and chose to end her young life. In addition to seeing her physically and mentally suffering, tortured, and even worse than death, we should also look back at the contemporary young people's ability to withstand stress, have the courage to die, and are afraid to live?
Living is the prerequisite for everything. If you don’t even lose your life, it can only show your cowardice, your timidity, and your irresponsibility, because your life is not just for you. Please think of the idea of suicide. Think about your loved ones first, and then think about your own death that will not solve any problems, but instead let the perpetrators get away with it.
So please cherish your precious life, because there is nothing better than living.
02 No matter how unbearable your native family is, your parents are still the ones who love you the most.
The image we see in the film, whether it is Chen Nian, a victim of school violence, Xiaobei, the gangster who protects her behind him, or Wei Lai, the perpetrator Parents’ education is absent in family life, which is one of the reasons for school violence.
Chen Nian’s mother was involved in the MLM organization, and the trouble was bigger than her, making her kind-heartedConfident, cautious and trembling all day long; Xiaobei was abandoned by his parents since he was a child, dropped out of school, went to Internet cafes and fights all day, and became a gangster in people’s eyes; and Wei Lai, whose parents are by his side, still did not get his parents right. Education: her father would use cold violence to punish her for repeating school. He did not talk to her for a year. Her mother lacked understanding of her. When school violence happened, she believed that her daughter was the purest girl. Because of this, Wei Lai, who could have grown up happily, had no future prematurely. It can be seen from
that the original family has a great influence on children. But what I want to say is that even if your original family is unbearable, the people who love you most in the world are still your parents. Chen Nian’s mother, who was involved in an MLM organization and lived a surreptitiously embarrassing life, was trying to save her daughter’s tuition. Even though she lived with her daughter, she still cared about her daughter’s study; Wei Lai’s parents were busy making money and ignored They care about their daughter and the education method is wrong, but they still love their daughter.
Speaking of this, I think of "Sadness Goes Against the River", which was often compared with this movie recently. When the mother of the protagonist Zhong Yi Yao learned that her daughter was infected with the disease because of her negligence, she was always harsh on her. She pulled herself a mouth fiercely, took Yi Yao's hand and said, "Mom takes you to the doctor." It can also be seen from here that a mother's love for her daughter.
Therefore, when encountering school violence and bullying, tell your parents as soon as possible, because no one loves you more than them.
03 Not everyone has Xiaobei around, so please learn to protect yourself
As this movie hits, one of the lines has also become a big hit, becoming a model for young men and women to confess "You protect the world, I protect you". While we were calling for the plot, we were also envious that Chen Nian could have a person like Xiaobei who would spare no effort to protect her. The fairy tales in
are all deceptive. Not everyone who suffers from campus violence has Xiaobei around him. So, please learn to protect yourself.
Bullying and fearing hardship is the root of some people's inferiority. Only when a person has a strong heart and becomes more brave, troubles can leave you; all day long, relying on promises and hiding in Tibet will not only solve the problem, but can only make the wicked become worse.
When you encounter school violence, you can go with your classmates, you can learn taekwondo, self-defense, and you can wear anti-wolf spray... But all of this must have a strong heart, otherwise, you will encounter problems. I frightened myself first, let alone protect myself.
Therefore, please have a healthy body and a strong heart so that you can face all the storms.
04 Even if no one believes, you must be full of hope for tomorrow.
Chen Nian chose the opposite path to Hu Xiaodie. She has been working hard and staying alive, precisely because she has hope for tomorrow, in order to “go out” She wants to study hard, get admitted to a university in Beijing, and stay away from her current life.
"We live in the gutter, but there are still people looking up at the stars".
This is what Chen Nian wrote to Xiaobei in his notebook. Even if they have no one else to believe and can only warm each other, they still have hope for tomorrow. The plot of
that touched me the most and earned me the most tears was that when Wei Lai was accidentally pushed down the stairs and died, the police suspected and interrogated Chen Nian and Xiao Bei. No one of them can believe that no one can really protect them, no matter the school, the teacher, the police, or anyone. They only believe in each other, and they can understand the tacit understanding of each other's intentions with one eye. The two people try to fulfill Xiaobei's phrase "As long as you win, I don't lose", so that one of them can go out. The goal, the performance of calm and peaceful confrontation with the world.
So, no matter when, don't give up hope for tomorrow, only in this way can you see the rainbow through the clouds.
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