What would happen if Concubine Hua traveled to New China?
has a retro wavy hair, the most eye-catching floral dress in blue, green and gray, a small hand is placed in front of her chest, and she opens her mouth in a low-key Wu dialect.
The most beautiful and trouble-making girl in the whole factory is here.
I have been following this drama " Alley People ". Zhang Kaizhou has typical advantages and disadvantages. Unfortunately, the two heroines are so popular with me, especially the overbearing factory belle Song Ying played by Jiang Xin. How can she be so cunning? ?
She is the most dazzling person in the crowd, but her beautiful skin is wrapped in a ball of inexhaustible anger.
Never bother others to arrange things that you can grab by yourself, and never sit down and talk slowly about things that can be solved by quarreling.
I am attracted to Song Ying because she symbolizes a rare redress for domestic dramas -
The rogue plays the lead role, while the arch-flashy and silly Baitian are all on the sidelines.
inherits the spirit of celebrating breasts, and a large number of facts have proved that women cannot be messed with!
Toughness is a choice, shrews enjoy life first.
In the late 1970s, in the cotton spinning factory dormitory, female workers were off work.
As soon as the factory beauty who got married at an early age and became pregnant entered the door, she began to accept the kind but harsh complaints from her roommates.
The reason was her son who was crowded into the dormitory with her when he was in his prime years.
There was no way. Materials were in short supply at that time, not to mention housing. There are only a few rooms in the factory, and no one knows how they will be divided.
Song Ying remained silent throughout the whole process. She just silently put on her son's shoes and socks, then picked up the devil and walked into the cold night.
Not long after, Secretary Zhang's house was knocked open, and the two women couldn't help but rush in, saying: "If you don't give me a house, my son will live in your house."
dropped a "nuclear bomb" and turned around. Just leave.
Behind him, Secretary Zhang, who had just woken up, was still confused: Who are you?
In that era of conservative atmosphere, gentle humanity, and collective unity to achieve great things, Song Ying was not a rose with thorns, but the thorn herself.
After venting her anger and throwing tantrums, and turning her back when no one is around, she still can't help but feel a sore nose.
Why does Song Ying dare to make such a fuss?
because it works.
Begging grandpa to sue grandma for things that couldn't be done, and always trying to lead the family to enjoy the resources first, she got into a fight.
Of course, as expressed in the famous game "Whac-a-Mole", those who stand out will definitely get hammered.
She has a house, but Comrade Song Ying, who can manage more than a dozen cars by herself and whose work is prettier than her, has lost the title of activist she cherished so much.
But people are still stubborn with the leader——
I already have a house, who cares?
Well, the people who care are here.
Can punishment make a prick learn to restrain himself?
will not, it will only let the prickly head see a brand new world: those who are barefoot are not afraid of those who wear shoes, and broken cans are more suitable for breaking.
When punishment can bring benefits, it is not called punishment, but called investment cost. After all, this is still a good deal.
You warned her that she would be beaten if she cursed randomly. Her understanding was that it would be a loss if I didn’t curse more often.
On the first day of moving to a new home, I yelled at my neighbor who was dumping sewage indiscriminately. The whole family was like dogs, drilling holes everywhere.
When acquaintances call the door or neighbors quarrel, she is always equipped with a floral pajamas + crystal slippers, and she shoots out like a cannonball to yell and curse, to see who dares to gasp loudly.
Even when the in-laws next door had a quarrel, she dared to charge into the fight and directly confront the daddy man to question her.
The corners of her mouth touched the superb apple muscles, and Nian Shilan's reincarnation was nothing more than this.
In the past, there were so many evil mothers-in-law and evil teachers in domestic dramas. In fact, if you do a little calculation, they are probably Song Ying's generation.
Most of these people are described as shrews with low cultural quality and adhering to feudal ethics. They protect their shortcomings at home and love their male children, but are scathing and hooligans externally.
This kind of stereotyped, malicious and slanderous portrayal obviously ignores the other side of the "violent generation".
From the 1960s to the 1980s, the women's liberation movement was in the "de-genderization" stage, with the women's labor force participation rate reaching 80%. Various heavy industries and heavy manual labor industries were filled with women, who were called "iron girls".
Looking at it now, this policy inevitably ignores the physiological differences between the sexes, but spiritually, it has given this generation of women unprecedented subjectivity.
They suddenly understood that they could fight and fight, and their anger could also scare others.
Pour is a philosophy of survival. In the face of limited resources, how much is face worth? What's more, my face is naturally beautiful, and it doesn't matter if I lose it a little bit.
Whether a woman lives a virtuous and virtuous life or is aggressive and arrogant depends on what the environment requires of her.
Since you choose to let them grow wildly, don’t be afraid of the brutality that comes with growth.
But there is still a difference between "splash" and "splash".
Wang Fang, who lives next door, is an educated youth who came back from Xinjiang. She worked hard all her life, but her parents left all the dividends to their son, leaving nothing behind.
She yelled and yelled at the entrance of the alley, causing trouble in the neighborhood. This was a form of violence.
Another neighbor, Huang Ling (played by Yan Ni), 's mother-in-law, always has a calm face and her words are always impeccable, which brings the image of the crazy old people in domestic dramas back to the common mode and still retains it. Their most essence of mammary gland hyperplasia -
feudal, partial and shameless.
This kind of "splashing" is essentially unreasonable and only ethical. Nothing happens on the surface, but the savage and rogue energy is definitely at its peak.
But as a "classical shrew", the evil mother-in-law does not protect the rights of women as subjects, but the interests of the traditional family and clan. To put it more directly, they are the thugs of the patriarchy, and they do what the big daddy can't shame. Dirty work.
Women like Wang Fang represent the group that initially realized that they also have rights and can fight for them.
This also includes Huang Ling, who is willing to go to war with the entire husband's family in order to protect her children, and refuses her husband to feed "daddy's family" without any bottom line.
Her sister-in-law Hualin is also an educated youth who has returned to the city from a remote area. She hopes to put her child into her brother-in-law's house so that he can study in a big city.
And Huang Ling’s answer was that she would rather get divorced than give in.
Yan Ni’s acting skills are amazing, you must watch
In addition, this little cowardly and selfish sister-in-law also realized a little bit later.
She finally realized that her predicament was not caused by her sister-in-law Huang Ling, but by her parents who favored sons over daughters.
If they had not chosen to throw themselves into the countryside to keep the dividends for their son, they would not be in a dilemma at all now.
Those who ignore the structural dilemma, look at the fights between the sisters-in-law, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. Can
be found? The driving force behind Wang Fang, Huang Ling and Hua Lin's resistance was still based on an ancient instinct -
motherhood.
They were also domesticated very docilely by the old society and the old morals. Their fate was already determined, and they had to give in to many things, and they were unable to care about them.
It wasn’t until the endless exploitation finally touched their children that the deep-seated rebellion was aroused.
They chose to splash out a little bit in order to create a protective circle for the next generation.
Now I am looking at Song Ying again. Her "splashing" is actually at the third level, which is also the most modern.
In her consciousness, the importance of "I" is equal to that of everything in life, sometimes even a little more.
And her "splashing" is not just a skill that is passively triggered when encountering problems, but exists in every moment of excess and transgression. To the average concept at that time, it was definitely a dimension-reducing bullying. .
Someone next door bought a TV, and his son Lin Dongzhe became addicted to it. He watched it from morning to night every day at someone else's house, and he was finally disliked.
He ran to his mother and complained: What’s so strange about a TV? We can also buy it at home!
Song Ying’s eyes flashed: Yes, buy it!
The husband next to me had his eyes closed the whole time: he sat up in shock in a dying illness.
Why are you happy in other people’s homes? Gritting my teeth and working hard, I also want to feel the spring breeze of the times.
She was the first to bring a refrigerator worth thousands of dollars into her home.
Huang Ling came to express her joy and asked to borrow her refrigerator to order milk for her two children. She also suggested that Song Ying also order a bottle for Lin Dongzhe to nourish her brain.
Song Ying's expression was as if she had seen a ghost: Does my beast still need brain replenishment? Does he have this organ?
Then I thought for two seconds, and a sly smile bloomed on my face——
Order two bottles of
Milk beauty
building One bottle of philosophy, one bottle of me
Song Ying has a very advanced theory called "buy early, use early".
But in the final analysis, her philosophy is actually "see early and enjoy early".
See that you are also an individual with desires and needs. See that a woman does not need to live for anyone or for a set of values. She does not need to maintain the persona of a loving mother, nor does she need to endure hardships to prove her self-worth.
A bottle of milk is enough for people to see her avant-garde.
Just imagine, even today, how many mothers still insist on adopting a posture of "I save one bite for the child to eat more", and regard creating a sense of guilt as their life creed? (Mailin, I’m not picking on you)
Many times, it’s not others that prevent you from enjoying happiness, but you, the woman yourself.
Of course, under the objective social environment, we must also consider the supporting facilities of the "shrew".
"Classical shrews" often have an authoritative but powerless daddy beside them, just like Huang Ling's father-in-law. Before an attack, he has to look at his wife to signal him to cooperate. Because he is too proud, he usually pretends to be restrained and charges forward. Let the wife do the work.
Because they think too highly of themselves, they always pretend to be virtuous and respectable, but competition cannot be avoided to survive, so they force women who don't need shame to act wild.
The second level of "shrews", with the development of the times, each person has received a good-for-nothing husband. They are often weak in character and have no independent opinions, so the family has formed a "big wife and small husband" pattern.
Huang Ling’s family is an example.
Her parents' family conditions were considered well-off in that era, and the house after marriage was also a benefit given to her by the factory. Not only was she confident, but she was also able to surpass her nerdy husband in all aspects. She was a typical all-around housekeeper.
But because the husband is too cowardly and unable to cope with the oppression and exploitation from the outside world, this difficult situation also falls on the woman.
Mulan joins the army on her father's behalf, and they want to collect debts on her husband's behalf.
The good-for-nothing husband sold out the family’s interests and pretended to be a good person, doing good things, and earned all his reputation by himself. Looking back, life was unbearable. I was so poor that all I had left was my reputation, and I still had a woman to act like a scoundrel and make a fool of myself.
Oh, yes, don’t expect the other party to be grateful. It’s normal to slap him in the face.
For someone like Song Ying, the supporting standards are very high.
In a word, this man must trust the autonomy of women enough.
But how low the probability of meeting this kind of husband is, you can understand it with your duodenum.
Song Ying and her neighbor had a falling out over the issue of sewage discharge. Her partner would make tactical cooperation before the heavy rain, causing the yard to flood to see who could outsmart the other.
Song Ying couldn't get the TV ticket she longed for, and she cried with grievance. He could exchange 50 kilograms of grain with his colleagues just to make his wife burst into tears.
This is pampering, but it is not indulgence. He did this because he believed that his wife's judgment and decision-making were correct, so he also did his part.
In that period, if a woman wanted to make a splash, she had to have such a virtuous wife as her backing, otherwise it would be difficult for one person to compete with the mainstream.
The situation is different now, and women can achieve a higher dimension of independence.
However, we will see that images like Song Ying still appear to transcend generations and are quite pioneering. It can be seen that women still have a long way to go before they can recognize themselves and embrace themselves.
So why is it important for women to see themselves?
Referring to the first two categories of "shrew" images, it is not difficult to find that if a person neglects himself too much, he will always easily become a defender of the interests of others, or even guard the corrupt system.
"Self" does not mean selfishness. On the contrary, when you go deep enough into your own unique identity, you will understand your peers better and develop more empathy.
In the first episode, Huang Ling had already seen through the warm-heartedness behind her teeth and claws. She was a softer master than anyone else.
Song Ying dressed beautifully every day, but her son still wore crotchless pants when he went to school. Huang Ling couldn't stand it and ran to ask Song Ying to dress up the child.
Song Ying didn't care and respected her personal destiny. As long as she couldn't freeze to death, she could do whatever she wanted.
But when she saw that the little girl next door was starting to grow, but her mean stepmother did nothing, she immediately took out the flower cloth she had hidden, made two bras and gave them to her.
In fact, she was not the only one who discovered it, but others did not dare to interfere in other people's family affairs. The stepmother doesn't want to be scolded for treating her stepdaughter harshly. You taking care of the child for her is tantamount to mocking her.
Only Song Ying would do it without hesitation.
As Huang Ling’s daughter’s birthday was approaching, she secretly planned an event to hide it from all the men in the family, and the three of them sneaked out to eat out by themselves.
also told him to put on new clothes and take the opportunity to go out and show off.
Is this a simple meal?
No, this is the intergenerational inheritance of an important mental state: women should be kind to themselves, and it is not illegal!
Until now, my favorite scene is when Song Ying reads a magazine. The 1980s was the time when Chinese literature was booming, but the books and periodicals borrowed by children to read home aroused Song Ying's enthusiasm.
She said with emotion that only after reading the book did she understand what she felt that she could not express before.
At this time, Huang Ling's son answered:
Aunt Song, your feelings are human feelings.
What a beautiful sentence.
Being a free person can start from being a rebellious "shrew". What would happen if Concubine Hua traveled to New China? has a retro wavy hair, the most eye-catching floral dress in blue, green and gray, a small hand is placed in front of her chest, and she opens her mouth in a low-key Wu dialect. The most beautiful and trouble-making girl in the whole factory is here. I have been following this drama " Alley People ". Zhang Kaizhou has typical advantages and disadvantages. Unfortunately, the two heroines are so popular with me, especially the overbearing factory belle Song Ying played by Jiang Xin. How can she be so cunning? ? She is the most dazzling person in the crowd, but her beautiful skin is wrapped in a ball of inexhaustible anger. Never bother others to arrange things that you can grab by yourself, and never sit down and talk slowly about things that can be solved by quarreling. I am attracted to Song Ying because she symbolizes a rare redress for domestic dramas - The rogue plays the lead role, while the arch-flashy and silly Baitian are all on the sidelines. inherits the spirit of celebrating breasts, and a large number of facts have proved that women cannot be messed with! Toughness is a choice, shrews enjoy life first. In the late 1970s, in the cotton spinning factory dormitory, female workers were off work. As soon as the factory beauty who got married at an early age and became pregnant entered the door, she began to accept the kind but harsh complaints from her roommates. The reason was her son who was crowded into the dormitory with her when he was in his prime years. There was no way. Materials were in short supply at that time, not to mention housing. There are only a few rooms in the factory, and no one knows how they will be divided. Song Ying remained silent throughout the whole process. She just silently put on her son's shoes and socks, then picked up the devil and walked into the cold night. Not long after, Secretary Zhang's house was knocked open, and the two women couldn't help but rush in, saying: "If you don't give me a house, my son will live in your house." dropped a "nuclear bomb" and turned around. Just leave. Behind him, Secretary Zhang, who had just woken up, was still confused: Who are you? In that era of conservative atmosphere, gentle humanity, and collective unity to achieve great things, Song Ying was not a rose with thorns, but the thorn herself. After venting her anger and throwing tantrums, and turning her back when no one is around, she still can't help but feel a sore nose. Why does Song Ying dare to make such a fuss? because it works. Begging grandpa to sue grandma for things that couldn't be done, and always trying to lead the family to enjoy the resources first, she got into a fight. Of course, as expressed in the famous game "Whac-a-Mole", those who stand out will definitely get hammered. She has a house, but Comrade Song Ying, who can manage more than a dozen cars by herself and whose work is prettier than her, has lost the title of activist she cherished so much. But people are still stubborn with the leader—— I already have a house, who cares? Well, the people who care are here. Can punishment make a prick learn to restrain himself? will not, it will only let the prickly head see a brand new world: those who are barefoot are not afraid of those who wear shoes, and broken cans are more suitable for breaking. When punishment can bring benefits, it is not called punishment, but called investment cost. After all, this is still a good deal. You warned her that she would be beaten if she cursed randomly. Her understanding was that it would be a loss if I didn’t curse more often. On the first day of moving to a new home, I yelled at my neighbor who was dumping sewage indiscriminately. The whole family was like dogs, drilling holes everywhere. When acquaintances call the door or neighbors quarrel, she is always equipped with a floral pajamas + crystal slippers, and she shoots out like a cannonball to yell and curse, to see who dares to gasp loudly. Even when the in-laws next door had a quarrel, she dared to charge into the fight and directly confront the daddy man to question her. The corners of her mouth touched the superb apple muscles, and Nian Shilan's reincarnation was nothing more than this. In the past, there were so many evil mothers-in-law and evil teachers in domestic dramas. In fact, if you do a little calculation, they are probably Song Ying's generation. Most of these people are described as shrews with low cultural quality and adhering to feudal ethics. They protect their shortcomings at home and love their male children, but are scathing and hooligans externally. This kind of stereotyped, malicious and slanderous portrayal obviously ignores the other side of the "violent generation". From the 1960s to the 1980s, the women's liberation movement was in the "de-genderization" stage, with the women's labor force participation rate reaching 80%. Various heavy industries and heavy manual labor industries were filled with women, who were called "iron girls". Looking at it now, this policy inevitably ignores the physiological differences between the sexes, but spiritually, it has given this generation of women unprecedented subjectivity. They suddenly understood that they could fight and fight, and their anger could also scare others. Pour is a philosophy of survival. In the face of limited resources, how much is face worth? What's more, my face is naturally beautiful, and it doesn't matter if I lose it a little bit. Whether a woman lives a virtuous and virtuous life or is aggressive and arrogant depends on what the environment requires of her. Since you choose to let them grow wildly, don’t be afraid of the brutality that comes with growth. But there is still a difference between "splash" and "splash". Wang Fang, who lives next door, is an educated youth who came back from Xinjiang. She worked hard all her life, but her parents left all the dividends to their son, leaving nothing behind. She yelled and yelled at the entrance of the alley, causing trouble in the neighborhood. This was a form of violence. Another neighbor, Huang Ling (played by Yan Ni), 's mother-in-law, always has a calm face and her words are always impeccable, which brings the image of the crazy old people in domestic dramas back to the common mode and still retains it. Their most essence of mammary gland hyperplasia - feudal, partial and shameless. This kind of "splashing" is essentially unreasonable and only ethical. Nothing happens on the surface, but the savage and rogue energy is definitely at its peak. But as a "classical shrew", the evil mother-in-law does not protect the rights of women as subjects, but the interests of the traditional family and clan. To put it more directly, they are the thugs of the patriarchy, and they do what the big daddy can't shame. Dirty work. Women like Wang Fang represent the group that initially realized that they also have rights and can fight for them. This also includes Huang Ling, who is willing to go to war with the entire husband's family in order to protect her children, and refuses her husband to feed "daddy's family" without any bottom line. Her sister-in-law Hualin is also an educated youth who has returned to the city from a remote area. She hopes to put her child into her brother-in-law's house so that he can study in a big city. And Huang Ling’s answer was that she would rather get divorced than give in. Yan Ni’s acting skills are amazing, you must watch In addition, this little cowardly and selfish sister-in-law also realized a little bit later. She finally realized that her predicament was not caused by her sister-in-law Huang Ling, but by her parents who favored sons over daughters. If they had not chosen to throw themselves into the countryside to keep the dividends for their son, they would not be in a dilemma at all now. Those who ignore the structural dilemma, look at the fights between the sisters-in-law, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. Can be found? The driving force behind Wang Fang, Huang Ling and Hua Lin's resistance was still based on an ancient instinct - motherhood. They were also domesticated very docilely by the old society and the old morals. Their fate was already determined, and they had to give in to many things, and they were unable to care about them. It wasn’t until the endless exploitation finally touched their children that the deep-seated rebellion was aroused. They chose to splash out a little bit in order to create a protective circle for the next generation. Now I am looking at Song Ying again. Her "splashing" is actually at the third level, which is also the most modern. In her consciousness, the importance of "I" is equal to that of everything in life, sometimes even a little more. And her "splashing" is not just a skill that is passively triggered when encountering problems, but exists in every moment of excess and transgression. To the average concept at that time, it was definitely a dimension-reducing bullying. . Someone next door bought a TV, and his son Lin Dongzhe became addicted to it. He watched it from morning to night every day at someone else's house, and he was finally disliked. He ran to his mother and complained: What’s so strange about a TV? We can also buy it at home! Song Ying’s eyes flashed: Yes, buy it! The husband next to me had his eyes closed the whole time: he sat up in shock in a dying illness. Why are you happy in other people’s homes? Gritting my teeth and working hard, I also want to feel the spring breeze of the times. She was the first to bring a refrigerator worth thousands of dollars into her home. Huang Ling came to express her joy and asked to borrow her refrigerator to order milk for her two children. She also suggested that Song Ying also order a bottle for Lin Dongzhe to nourish her brain. Song Ying's expression was as if she had seen a ghost: Does my beast still need brain replenishment? Does he have this organ? Then I thought for two seconds, and a sly smile bloomed on my face—— Order two bottles of Milk beauty building One bottle of philosophy, one bottle of me Song Ying has a very advanced theory called "buy early, use early". But in the final analysis, her philosophy is actually "see early and enjoy early". See that you are also an individual with desires and needs. See that a woman does not need to live for anyone or for a set of values. She does not need to maintain the persona of a loving mother, nor does she need to endure hardships to prove her self-worth. A bottle of milk is enough for people to see her avant-garde. Just imagine, even today, how many mothers still insist on adopting a posture of "I save one bite for the child to eat more", and regard creating a sense of guilt as their life creed? (Mailin, I’m not picking on you) Many times, it’s not others that prevent you from enjoying happiness, but you, the woman yourself. Of course, under the objective social environment, we must also consider the supporting facilities of the "shrew". "Classical shrews" often have an authoritative but powerless daddy beside them, just like Huang Ling's father-in-law. Before an attack, he has to look at his wife to signal him to cooperate. Because he is too proud, he usually pretends to be restrained and charges forward. Let the wife do the work. Because they think too highly of themselves, they always pretend to be virtuous and respectable, but competition cannot be avoided to survive, so they force women who don't need shame to act wild. The second level of "shrews", with the development of the times, each person has received a good-for-nothing husband. They are often weak in character and have no independent opinions, so the family has formed a "big wife and small husband" pattern. Huang Ling’s family is an example. Her parents' family conditions were considered well-off in that era, and the house after marriage was also a benefit given to her by the factory. Not only was she confident, but she was also able to surpass her nerdy husband in all aspects. She was a typical all-around housekeeper. But because the husband is too cowardly and unable to cope with the oppression and exploitation from the outside world, this difficult situation also falls on the woman. Mulan joins the army on her father's behalf, and they want to collect debts on her husband's behalf. The good-for-nothing husband sold out the family’s interests and pretended to be a good person, doing good things, and earned all his reputation by himself. Looking back, life was unbearable. I was so poor that all I had left was my reputation, and I still had a woman to act like a scoundrel and make a fool of myself. Oh, yes, don’t expect the other party to be grateful. It’s normal to slap him in the face. For someone like Song Ying, the supporting standards are very high. In a word, this man must trust the autonomy of women enough. But how low the probability of meeting this kind of husband is, you can understand it with your duodenum. Song Ying and her neighbor had a falling out over the issue of sewage discharge. Her partner would make tactical cooperation before the heavy rain, causing the yard to flood to see who could outsmart the other. Song Ying couldn't get the TV ticket she longed for, and she cried with grievance. He could exchange 50 kilograms of grain with his colleagues just to make his wife burst into tears. This is pampering, but it is not indulgence. He did this because he believed that his wife's judgment and decision-making were correct, so he also did his part. In that period, if a woman wanted to make a splash, she had to have such a virtuous wife as her backing, otherwise it would be difficult for one person to compete with the mainstream. The situation is different now, and women can achieve a higher dimension of independence. However, we will see that images like Song Ying still appear to transcend generations and are quite pioneering. It can be seen that women still have a long way to go before they can recognize themselves and embrace themselves. So why is it important for women to see themselves? Referring to the first two categories of "shrew" images, it is not difficult to find that if a person neglects himself too much, he will always easily become a defender of the interests of others, or even guard the corrupt system. "Self" does not mean selfishness. On the contrary, when you go deep enough into your own unique identity, you will understand your peers better and develop more empathy. In the first episode, Huang Ling had already seen through the warm-heartedness behind her teeth and claws. She was a softer master than anyone else. Song Ying dressed beautifully every day, but her son still wore crotchless pants when he went to school. Huang Ling couldn't stand it and ran to ask Song Ying to dress up the child. Song Ying didn't care and respected her personal destiny. As long as she couldn't freeze to death, she could do whatever she wanted. But when she saw that the little girl next door was starting to grow, but her mean stepmother did nothing, she immediately took out the flower cloth she had hidden, made two bras and gave them to her. In fact, she was not the only one who discovered it, but others did not dare to interfere in other people's family affairs. The stepmother doesn't want to be scolded for treating her stepdaughter harshly. You taking care of the child for her is tantamount to mocking her. Only Song Ying would do it without hesitation. As Huang Ling’s daughter’s birthday was approaching, she secretly planned an event to hide it from all the men in the family, and the three of them sneaked out to eat out by themselves. also told him to put on new clothes and take the opportunity to go out and show off. Is this a simple meal? No, this is the intergenerational inheritance of an important mental state: women should be kind to themselves, and it is not illegal! Until now, my favorite scene is when Song Ying reads a magazine. The 1980s was the time when Chinese literature was booming, but the books and periodicals borrowed by children to read home aroused Song Ying's enthusiasm. She said with emotion that only after reading the book did she understand what she felt that she could not express before. At this time, Huang Ling's son answered: Aunt Song, your feelings are human feelings. What a beautiful sentence. Being a free person can start from being a rebellious "shrew".