Text | Wu Qingqian's variety show "Goodbye Lover Season 4". As senior reporter Zhang Quanling airborne for an interview, the contradiction between Li Xingliang pursuing spiritual enjoyment in music and Mai Lin pursuing material rewards was revealed. As for Li Xingliang's lack of

Text | Wu Qingqian

variety show "Goodbye Lover Season 4" As senior reporter Zhang Quanling airborne for an interview, the contradiction between Li Xingliang pursuing spiritual enjoyment in music and Mai Lin pursuing material rewards was revealed. As for Li Xingliang's lack of creative freedom, Wu Yi and Hu Yanbin, who are colleagues in the industry, sympathize with Li Xingliang and feel that Mai Lin should not just let him pursue bread in this matter.

Li Xingliang and Wu Yi are both contestants of "2010 Happy Boys". The former ranked 6th in the national finals and the latter ranked third. Before I saw Li Xingliang in "Goodbye Lover 4", Wu Yi also said that Li Xingliang was the most popular among their current generation of fast boys, so as a guest of the observation group, I was quite surprised to see Li Xingliang in "Goodbye Lover 4". However, as the relationship between Li Xingliang and Mai Lin continues to unfold, his surprise will gradually fade away, because the couple's harmony in front of outsiders is actually an illusion, with many contradictions behind it. One of the major contradictions is that Mai Lin Lin interfered with Li Xingliang's creation. Regarding this behavior, wuyi was on Li Xingliang's side.

In the eyes of martial arts, Li Xingliang has a good personality and doesn't know how to throw things. I was a little surprised when I learned that the other party was so angry that he threw Coke and the piano during the marriage. I thought that the other party must be anxious to do this, and this anxiety may have violated the bottom line. If Mai Lin interferes with Li Xingliang's creative rights, it will definitely involve the bottom line. Wu Yi felt that Li Xingliang already had a familiar song, so he might want to make some music that is a little niche but that some people like, or music that he likes to listen to, without having to think about the consequences so much. If Mai Mai’s music business is all about profit, then if he wants Li Xingliang to stand on a bigger stage, does he also have to make profit first? And isn't this pursuit contrary to Li Xingliang's original intention? Li Xingliang, who started his own business, is not much different from when he was in a brokerage company. He still lacks the freedom to create.

However, Jiang Yilei Papi Jiang feels that as a wife, Mai Lin is quite understandable about her husband not making money. After all, Mai Lin is responsible for managing money and is a housewife. Seeing that her husband is not making money and the family savings are dwindling, she is inevitably anxious, so she tends to focus on money in her husband's work. But while Jiang Yilei Papijiang understands it, he doesn’t seem to fully support Mai Lin’s approach. He also doesn’t understand Li Xingliang’s compromise to a certain extent, so I asked Hu Yanbin if your family members give advice on your creations. How about it? Hu Yanbin said that I would listen, but I still make my own music.

It’s not surprising that Hu Yanbin said this. As a musical talent who loves music, it is impossible for him to pursue money every time he makes a song. And with his current accumulation, he does not need to focus on money every time he makes music. He can pursue his spirit appropriately. level things. So after watching Li Xingliang and Mai Lin making money and changing houses around music, the biggest feeling he felt was that Mai Lin always talked about bread, while Li Xingliang talked about ideals. He felt that if he lost the distance, everything now would be meaningless. Mai Lin's support was that I hope to give you a bigger stage. Does Li Xingliang want to go to this bigger stage? What Li Xingliang probably wanted to do more was the stage in his spirit. But Mai Lin failed to take this first step, and she always made her husband's stage smaller and smaller. Hu Yanbin believes that the greatest stage is when creators have ideas and beliefs.

Hu Yanbin admired Li Xingliang's entire thinking logic, saying that Li Xingliang was a man in science and engineering, and he could show the facts for anything. What he wanted first was to feel safe before he could move forward. What made Hu Yanbin feel uncomfortable about Mai Mai was that he kept mentioning Li Xingliang's scars and constantly exposing the scars. You are betting on the price of this house, what's wrong, etc. He felt that the essence of marriage, including the moment when the oath was taken, was not to share joys and sorrows, share blessings, and never give up regardless of life, old age, illness, or death. Is it all just talk? But what does he think marriage is? It must be how bad the experience is that we realize that we are so precious to each other and that we can go through it together. It would be unreliable if you keep exposing the scars during the marriage process.

Although Hu Yanbin is not married, his understanding of the nature of marriage still makes sense. Since they are husband and wife, if they want to live together for a long time, they cannot just share joys and sorrows. And what is shared suffering? Perhaps it can be understood that no matter whether either party makes a wrong decision due to uncontrollable factors that affects the quality of life, if you still want to continue the relationship, there is no need to blame the other party all the time, and there is no need to blindly ask the other party to completely sacrifice their ideals for bread.

Another thing that needs to be avoided is that neither party should always put pressure on the other party in the name of love. For example, Mai Lin has been emphasizing that she has no malice. She loves Li Xingliang very much and does not even allow others to hurt him. However, she hurts him many times and makes him feel depressed. Just like Huang Zhizhong said about me, I "stabbed" you, and then said I didn't mean any harm, but in fact I was in pain, so those words were meaningless. Instead of emphasizing your so-called kindness and love all the time, it is better to try to change yourself and don't let your love become a burden.

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