The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
My favorite man in this book is Lin Wufeng, the husband of Changhua. He is capable, responsible, and a good man.
On the other hand, Zhuang Chaoying, the husband of Huang Ling, who has been a pacesetter in cotton spinning mills for many years, seems a bit annoying. Not only does it make people feel annoying, but it also makes people feel a little disgusting.
Although Zhuang Chaoying is a teacher, although he is a good teacher and a good colleague at school, as a husband and a father, he makes people feel unqualified.
Moreover, Zhuang Chaoying is a Phoenix man. The burden of his native family also makes him appear very sensitive and inferior.
Huang Ling’s low-income marriage
Huang Ling’s marriage to Zhuang Chaoying was considered a low-income marriage.
Huang Ling is from Changzhou. In that era when there were few snacks and entertainment, Huang Ling took her children back to her parents' home to live for a while.
The banker brother and sister brought back a bag of new biscuits, which were filled with various animal-shaped biscuits. They also ate a kind of pastry called cake that was very similar to chicken cake.
Not only that, Huang Ling’s family also had a TV. At that time, there were no TVs in the alleys. The first time the Zhuang brothers and sisters saw a TV was at their grandparents’ house.
It can be seen that Huang Ling's family's conditions were relatively favorable at that time. Changzhou is not far from Suzhou. After graduation, Huang Ling was assigned to a cotton spinning factory in Suzhou and she has always been a model in the factory.
And her marriage to Zhuang Chaoying, who was a mathematics teacher at the high school attached to the cotton mill at the time, seemed to be a high-class marriage, but in fact she was a low-class marriage.
Although Zhuang Chaoying is a high school teacher, has a decent job, has a higher education than Huang Ling, and is an intellectual.
But Huang Ling married him, because Zhuang Chaoying was a Phoenix man.
Zhuang Chaoying is the eldest son in the family. He also has a younger brother and younger sister.
Zhuang Chaoying's salary before marriage was all given to her parents. Her parents said they would use their eldest son's salary to pay off the debt. In fact, the debt had been paid off long ago. They felt comfortable using their eldest son's salary to save wedding money for their younger son.
Not only that, when Zhuang Chaoying got married, Zhuang's parents only bought a washbasin and a hot water bottle, but didn't buy anything else. Even the wedding room they lived in after marriage was Huang Ling's house.
What's even more outrageous is that when Zhuang Chaoying got married, his salary was still in the hands of his parents. Not only that, when Zhuang Chaoying's younger brother got married, the Zhuang's parents even took the sewing machine from Huang Ling's natal family as a bride price just to save face.
Zhuang Chaoying is not only a Phoenix man, but also the son who is not favored in the family. He also has a sister who has stayed in Guizhou all his life because his parents favored the younger son and gave him the place to stay in the city. Zhuang Chaoying He was able to stay in the city because of his own hard work and study.
Even so, Zhuang Chaoying still felt that as the eldest son, it was natural for him to take care of his parents and care for his younger brothers and sisters.
And in order to fulfill his "filial piety" and fulfill his own face, he did not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of his own family.
Zhuang Chaoying's "hate"
Faced with the favoritism of the Zhuang family's parents for so many years, Huang Ling has always endured it. She married into the Zhuang family and suffered a lot of injustice. Her husband not only did not understand her, but also had a deep affection for her. "hatred".
The original work wrote:
Huang Ling's voice suddenly choked up, "Every time I give birth to a child, I force him to get an extra part of his salary. He knows that I am right, but he hates me. Whenever he thinks about it, he will find an excuse. He really hated quarreling with me. He kept quarreling with me during the confinement period."
Huang Ling tried her best to hold back her tears. "After giving birth to Xiaoting, we had a big fight three times while I was still in the confinement period. I looked at the candle. Xiao Ting in the bag would have wanted to die if she hadn't thought about having two children. "
What Huang Ling has done over the years is actually the right thing to do, because if Zhuang Chaoying continues to hand over her salary to her parents, she will be wronged. It's his own child.
As a father, he does not consider his own children. He only cares about everyone and his selfishness will only make Huang Ling, a woman, even more miserable.
Zhuang Chaoying has never understood his wife's hard work. Not only does he not understand what his wife does, but he also has a deep hatred for his wife. This kind of hatred is not only felt by Huang Ling herself. In the original work, Zhuang Chaoying's hatred for his wife is He admitted it himself.
The original work writes:
hates, Huang Ling is right, he hates, he really hates. Whenever Huang Ling sharply pointed out the hypocrisy, injustice, greed and cruelty of his parents, Zhuang Chaoying would feel continuous resentment in his heart, not towards his parents, but towards his wife.
In the past, it was just a quarrel between husband and wife. Zhuang Chaoying could not restrain his disappointment and resentment towards his wife. Now Huang Ling has exposed the truth about mother's kindness, son's filial piety and husband and wife's harmony, and ruthlessly exposed the ugliness in it to her children and neighbors. In front of them, Zhuang Chaoying could not restrain the overwhelming anger in her heart, so she left home and moved into the school office.
When Huang Ling revealed the true face of Zhuang's parents' hypocrisy and selfishness, Zhuang Chaoying was not only angry at her parents, but also hated her wife. This hatred had been there since the first day they got married. How selfish and hypocritical a man like
is!
In fact, what he loves is only himself after all. He doesn't care about his wife's hard work, or whether his children can have enough to eat. He only cares that he lives in a warm family with harmonious husband and wife, a loving mother and a filial son.
In this big family, Those who enjoy it are his parents and he himself, while those who have been squeezed are his wife and his children.
As a husband, such a person has no responsibility, and as a father, he has no human feelings, how cold and cold.
Is a man like Zhuang Chaoying really filial?
Zhuang Chaoying Although he is a high school teacher with a decent job and a good salary, his native family has almost squeezed him dry.
He has made almost no contribution to his small family. He is a Phoenix man, and he is also the kind of Phoenix man whose parents feel that it is natural for the eldest son to support the whole family.
He is happy to see the happy state of this big family. He thinks this is his success, but his success is based on the pain of his wife. This kind of man is very hypocritical and very selfish.
Why did Huang Ling hate his wife so deeply when he exposed his parents' true selfishness and greed?
is not essentially because he is a filial son, but because he is a Phoenix man with low self-esteem and sensitivity at heart.
When he married Huang Ling, he was marrying to a high position. Although he himself was excellent, his native family was a shell. His parents were greedy and selfish people, and his family was not decent.
This kind of lack of dignity has nothing to do with poverty, but a kind of contempt for human nature. This kind of greed and selfishness is not decent and is criticized by the world.
His parents favored their younger son. Their only daughter could only stay in Guizhou for the rest of her life, and her daughter's son wanted to come back and settle down but was rejected by his parents, and his own salary has been subsidized by his parents.
He deeply understands what kind of people his parents are, and also understands their partiality, selfishness and greed.
He knew that a girl like Huang Ling and a family like this would definitely look down on the behavior of his parents.
Therefore, he has low self-esteem and is sensitive. He feels that as long as he maintains the appearance of a loving mother and a filial son, then he will have a perfect family.
It is a pity that this current situation of motherly kindness and filial piety is maintained by handing in all his salary, by placing all the burdens of the family on his wife, and by sacrificing the food and clothing of his children. of.
In essence, Zhuang Chaoying is not really filial to his parents, but because of his poor self-esteem and inferiority.
He hopes that in the eyes of everyone, he will have a harmonious husband and wife, a loving father and a filial son, and a happy family that everyone will envy. He enjoys this feeling of being envied by others, enjoys this illusion of superficial warmth, and even feels that Huang Ling is... Marrying yourself low is also like marrying a chicken, following the chicken, marrying a dog, following the dog. Everything should focus on the "banker".
In his heart, his poor Phoenix man's self-esteem is his most sensitive place, and it is also the place where he hates his wife.
Because of his own imperfections and the imperfections of his native family, he has low self-esteem, so he wants to act superior to suppress his wife and let her live in this false dream.
However, Zhuang Chaoying didn't really support his family. He didn't know that his wife was reluctant to buy clothes by herself, and her shoes were always repaired after being worn out, while he looked bright every day and didn't worry about daily necessities.
He didn't worry about the burden at home at all. His son often didn't have enough to eat when he was growing up. He never noticed it. As a mother, Huang Ling felt distressed and fought for everything for her child. Real benefits.
What’s even more ironic is that everything Huang Ling strives for is not for her own enjoyment, but for her children not to endure hardship.
And all this turned into hatred in Zhuang Chaoying's eyes, and Huang Ling's hatred for exposing the ugliness of his native family.
Such naked hatred made Zhuang Chaoying lose face, and suddenly he lost his confidence in front of his colleagues and neighbors.
He is so vain, selfish, sensitive and has low self-esteem. He sacrifices his family for his own face, and what he achieves is his own worthless face.
The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
My favorite man in this book is Lin Wufeng, the husband of Changhua. He is capable, responsible, and a good man.
On the other hand, Zhuang Chaoying, the husband of Huang Ling, who has been a pacesetter in cotton spinning mills for many years, seems a bit annoying. Not only does it make people feel annoying, but it also makes people feel a little disgusting.
Although Zhuang Chaoying is a teacher, although he is a good teacher and a good colleague at school, as a husband and a father, he makes people feel unqualified.
Moreover, Zhuang Chaoying is a Phoenix man. The burden of his native family also makes him appear very sensitive and inferior.
Huang Ling’s low-income marriage
Huang Ling’s marriage to Zhuang Chaoying was considered a low-income marriage.
Huang Ling is from Changzhou. In that era when there were few snacks and entertainment, Huang Ling took her children back to her parents' home to live for a while.
The banker brother and sister brought back a bag of new biscuits, which were filled with various animal-shaped biscuits. They also ate a kind of pastry called cake that was very similar to chicken cake.
Not only that, Huang Ling’s family also had a TV. At that time, there were no TVs in the alleys. The first time the Zhuang brothers and sisters saw a TV was at their grandparents’ house.
It can be seen that Huang Ling's family's conditions were relatively favorable at that time. Changzhou is not far from Suzhou. After graduation, Huang Ling was assigned to a cotton spinning factory in Suzhou and she has always been a model in the factory.
And her marriage to Zhuang Chaoying, who was a mathematics teacher at the high school attached to the cotton mill at the time, seemed to be a high-class marriage, but in fact she was a low-class marriage.
Although Zhuang Chaoying is a high school teacher, has a decent job, has a higher education than Huang Ling, and is an intellectual.
But Huang Ling married him, because Zhuang Chaoying was a Phoenix man.
Zhuang Chaoying is the eldest son in the family. He also has a younger brother and younger sister.
Zhuang Chaoying's salary before marriage was all given to her parents. Her parents said they would use their eldest son's salary to pay off the debt. In fact, the debt had been paid off long ago. They felt comfortable using their eldest son's salary to save wedding money for their younger son.
Not only that, when Zhuang Chaoying got married, Zhuang's parents only bought a washbasin and a hot water bottle, but didn't buy anything else. Even the wedding room they lived in after marriage was Huang Ling's house.
What's even more outrageous is that when Zhuang Chaoying got married, his salary was still in the hands of his parents. Not only that, when Zhuang Chaoying's younger brother got married, the Zhuang's parents even took the sewing machine from Huang Ling's natal family as a bride price just to save face.
Zhuang Chaoying is not only a Phoenix man, but also the son who is not favored in the family. He also has a sister who has stayed in Guizhou all his life because his parents favored the younger son and gave him the place to stay in the city. Zhuang Chaoying He was able to stay in the city because of his own hard work and study.
Even so, Zhuang Chaoying still felt that as the eldest son, it was natural for him to take care of his parents and care for his younger brothers and sisters.
And in order to fulfill his "filial piety" and fulfill his own face, he did not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of his own family.
Zhuang Chaoying's "hate"
Faced with the favoritism of the Zhuang family's parents for so many years, Huang Ling has always endured it. She married into the Zhuang family and suffered a lot of injustice. Her husband not only did not understand her, but also had a deep affection for her. "hatred".
The original work wrote:
Huang Ling's voice suddenly choked up, "Every time I give birth to a child, I force him to get an extra part of his salary. He knows that I am right, but he hates me. Whenever he thinks about it, he will find an excuse. He really hated quarreling with me. He kept quarreling with me during the confinement period."
Huang Ling tried her best to hold back her tears. "After giving birth to Xiaoting, we had a big fight three times while I was still in the confinement period. I looked at the candle. Xiao Ting in the bag would have wanted to die if she hadn't thought about having two children. "
What Huang Ling has done over the years is actually the right thing to do, because if Zhuang Chaoying continues to hand over her salary to her parents, she will be wronged. It's his own child.
As a father, he does not consider his own children. He only cares about everyone and his selfishness will only make Huang Ling, a woman, even more miserable.
Zhuang Chaoying has never understood his wife's hard work. Not only does he not understand what his wife does, but he also has a deep hatred for his wife. This kind of hatred is not only felt by Huang Ling herself. In the original work, Zhuang Chaoying's hatred for his wife is He admitted it himself.
The original work writes:
hates, Huang Ling is right, he hates, he really hates. Whenever Huang Ling sharply pointed out the hypocrisy, injustice, greed and cruelty of his parents, Zhuang Chaoying would feel continuous resentment in his heart, not towards his parents, but towards his wife.
In the past, it was just a quarrel between husband and wife. Zhuang Chaoying could not restrain his disappointment and resentment towards his wife. Now Huang Ling has exposed the truth about mother's kindness, son's filial piety and husband and wife's harmony, and ruthlessly exposed the ugliness in it to her children and neighbors. In front of them, Zhuang Chaoying could not restrain the overwhelming anger in her heart, so she left home and moved into the school office.
When Huang Ling revealed the true face of Zhuang's parents' hypocrisy and selfishness, Zhuang Chaoying was not only angry at her parents, but also hated her wife. This hatred had been there since the first day they got married. How selfish and hypocritical a man like
is!
In fact, what he loves is only himself after all. He doesn't care about his wife's hard work, or whether his children can have enough to eat. He only cares that he lives in a warm family with harmonious husband and wife, a loving mother and a filial son.
In this big family, Those who enjoy it are his parents and he himself, while those who have been squeezed are his wife and his children.
As a husband, such a person has no responsibility, and as a father, he has no human feelings, how cold and cold.
Is a man like Zhuang Chaoying really filial?
Zhuang Chaoying Although he is a high school teacher with a decent job and a good salary, his native family has almost squeezed him dry.
He has made almost no contribution to his small family. He is a Phoenix man, and he is also the kind of Phoenix man whose parents feel that it is natural for the eldest son to support the whole family.
He is happy to see the happy state of this big family. He thinks this is his success, but his success is based on the pain of his wife. This kind of man is very hypocritical and very selfish.
Why did Huang Ling hate his wife so deeply when he exposed his parents' true selfishness and greed?
is not essentially because he is a filial son, but because he is a Phoenix man with low self-esteem and sensitivity at heart.
When he married Huang Ling, he was marrying to a high position. Although he himself was excellent, his native family was a shell. His parents were greedy and selfish people, and his family was not decent.
This kind of lack of dignity has nothing to do with poverty, but a kind of contempt for human nature. This kind of greed and selfishness is not decent and is criticized by the world.
His parents favored their younger son. Their only daughter could only stay in Guizhou for the rest of her life, and her daughter's son wanted to come back and settle down but was rejected by his parents, and his own salary has been subsidized by his parents.
He deeply understands what kind of people his parents are, and also understands their partiality, selfishness and greed.
He knew that a girl like Huang Ling and a family like this would definitely look down on the behavior of his parents.
Therefore, he has low self-esteem and is sensitive. He feels that as long as he maintains the appearance of a loving mother and a filial son, then he will have a perfect family.
It is a pity that this current situation of motherly kindness and filial piety is maintained by handing in all his salary, by placing all the burdens of the family on his wife, and by sacrificing the food and clothing of his children. of.
In essence, Zhuang Chaoying is not really filial to his parents, but because of his poor self-esteem and inferiority.
He hopes that in the eyes of everyone, he will have a harmonious husband and wife, a loving father and a filial son, and a happy family that everyone will envy. He enjoys this feeling of being envied by others, enjoys this illusion of superficial warmth, and even feels that Huang Ling is... Marrying yourself low is also like marrying a chicken, following the chicken, marrying a dog, following the dog. Everything should focus on the "banker".
In his heart, his poor Phoenix man's self-esteem is his most sensitive place, and it is also the place where he hates his wife.
Because of his own imperfections and the imperfections of his native family, he has low self-esteem, so he wants to act superior to suppress his wife and let her live in this false dream.
However, Zhuang Chaoying didn't really support his family. He didn't know that his wife was reluctant to buy clothes by herself, and her shoes were always repaired after being worn out, while he looked bright every day and didn't worry about daily necessities.
He didn't worry about the burden at home at all. His son often didn't have enough to eat when he was growing up. He never noticed it. As a mother, Huang Ling felt distressed and fought for everything for her child. Real benefits.
What’s even more ironic is that everything Huang Ling strives for is not for her own enjoyment, but for her children not to endure hardship.
And all this turned into hatred in Zhuang Chaoying's eyes, and Huang Ling's hatred for exposing the ugliness of his native family.
Such naked hatred made Zhuang Chaoying lose face, and suddenly he lost his confidence in front of his colleagues and neighbors.
He is so vain, selfish, sensitive and has low self-esteem. He sacrifices his family for his own face, and what he achieves is his own worthless face.Men like
are not only incompetent, but also hate you. It is so ridiculous and pathetic!
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