I was against the Seven Fairies marrying Dong Yong back then. You see, it is true.
After watching "Goodbye Lover 4", I had to admire Huang Shengyi's super endurance, and finally found the reason why Huang Shengyi wanted to divorce. For Yang Zi, friends are always greater than family. You don't have to return to Huang Shengyi, but you have to return to customers. and friends.
In order to socialize, he has 5 mobile phones and 6 social accounts. Huang Shengyi does not have viewing permissions on each mobile phone. Yang Zi added Huang Shengyi to every account, and then created a group of 6 people for the two of them. If Huang Shengyi came to see him for something, he would have to @ him in the group. More importantly, Huang Shengyi was not the administrator yet and could not make group announcements. @everyone.
And that’s not even the most outrageous thing.
In the program, watching Yang Zi cook really made the audience look bad. His acting personality started, and he suddenly wanted to make instant noodles. He never thought that he would put down half a bottle of oil to fry the instant noodles, and it would explode. After cooking in the dark, he turned around and blamed the director team for not preparing the kitchen utensils. He really didn't blame himself for the problem at all.
He knew that Huang Shengyi’s schedule was to go to bed early and get up early, but his schedule was reversed and he stayed up late at night. He even went to Huang Shengyi’s room to wake her up just to tell her what he had discovered, “There are eight cameras in his room. ".
However, Huang Shengyi did not get angry about this, and his mood was still very stable. The next morning, he even thoughtfully put a towel for Yang Zi.
But who knew that not only did Yang Zi not see it, he also ignored Huang Shengyi in the car.
When he arrived at his destination, Huang Shengyi told him that he was cold, but Yang Zi didn't show any signs and instead wrapped himself in a blanket.
As a typical Mr. Wang, he always gives lessons to everyone, "Come, let me teach you how to read the sky." "I am one of the co-founders. In fact, I was a founder. After that, I went to film and television and acted in more than thirty movies. Play..."
As a result, Patty Hou, a guest in the observation room, hit the nail on the head: "Did anyone just ask him? "
I have to say that Yang Zi really contributed most of the jokes in this variety show.
But from Huang Shengyi’s point of view, Mr. Wang, who has such an NPD+acting personality, is really living like a year.
Even Papi Jiang couldn’t help but complain sharply: "Yang Zi really opened my eyes. He is really my least favorite type of middle-aged man. I get a headache when I see this kind of person. Why do I like him so much?" How about teaching people? So why do you like to be a father to others? It’s so frustrating when you meet someone like this!”
How can Yang Zi possess all the annoying traits of middle-aged men? He is narcissistic, preachy, and condescending.
In psychology, the reason why many people are narcissistic is actually due to lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, and extreme desire to be admired and recognized by others.
This sense of inferiority stems from the individual's own shortcomings, or the inability to find one's own value in external things, so they try to increase their self-awareness by exaggerating their self-worth. They may constantly imagine that they are powerful, implying that they are a very talented person. People who are successful, have great status, and have great status, so as to cover up their inner inferiority.
Yang Zi often said that Huang Shengyi was uneducated, but looking deeply into his background, he was actually a person from the bottom of the family. He was more like the opposite of Huang Shengyi.
was born in a rural family. He has a pair of twin brothers who are 10 years older than him. When he was a child, his family was very poor. Before he was 11 years old, he did not wear cotton shoes. Every winter, his feet were covered with frostbite. Yang Zi’s mother did this when she was young. Tailor, raising children on a meager income.
Born into a poor family, his desire for money and his inferiority complex were engraved in his bones. He went out to work in the society to make money in junior high school and high school. Later, Yang Zi's two brothers founded the "Yingchun Rope Inserting Machine Factory", and the factory became more and more prosperous. As Yang Zi grew older, he expanded the factory's business to Shanghai. Only then did Yang Zi get a piece of the pie and became the manager of Juli Group's Shanghai company.
However, it was not Yang Zi who was really at the forefront of this listed company from beginning to end, nor was he the person in charge. It can be said that he only became rich with the help of his brothers.
has always had to live under the halo of his brother, but on the other hand he is not willing to be suppressed by his halo and wants to try his best to prove himself, so this is why he suddenly wants to act. He wants to be in a circle where his brothers are not. In order to prove himself, it also laid the foundation for him to understand the king-type personality.
But I have to say that he is a person who can play with characters. In that era when the Internet was not developed, he assigned himself 8 assistants, saying that his family has a century-old business. With the character of the boss, he became popular. After that, he also set his sights on Huang Shengyi, the "Beijing Film School Beauty", a popular, easy-to-control, young girl. So, after she was hidden by Stephen Chow , he generously gave her 6 million to terminate her contract.
Later, the two joined forces and broke into the entertainment industry. Compared with the role of the other as his wife, as a businessman, Yang Zi, who is shrewd and calculating, regarded Huang Shengyi as his subordinate and as a traffic password to make money for himself. Because of this, how can he admit that the other person is smarter and better than himself?
Perhaps it started with the 6 million termination fee. Yang Zi’s perspective on Huang Shengyi was condescending. His so-called love also had a price tag. Real love is respect, recognition and appreciation, but in Yang’s case None of his behavior towards Huang Shengyi was consistent.
In another program "Mother-in-law and Mom", Yang Zi took his mother-in-law out to sketch. As we all know, Huang Shengyi was born in a scholarly family. Her mother was the editor of Xinmin Evening News. Her knowledge and education must be higher than Yang Zi's, but what about Yang Zi? , in the car, he couldn’t wait to turn on the king-knowing mode, and told his mother-in-law about the natural features and geographical features here, the lush mountains, and also said that tea is produced here... Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law knew more than him. deep.
After that, Yang Zi held a cup and talked loudly, which made the mother-in-law directly complain about the impracticality. It was rare for Yang Zi to be retorted and unable to reply.
tried his best to get praise from his mother-in-law, but was crushed several times and refuted everywhere.
It can be seen that Yang Zi did not receive too much attention from his mother-in-law's family. With his hurt self-esteem, he would pass this conflict on to his wife. If he did not get the respect from his mother-in-law's family, he would have to give it to his wife during the marriage. Zhongrang's wife also gets no respect.
Therefore, from his origin, to living under the aura of his brother when he grew up, to marrying Huang Shengyi but being ignored by his mother-in-law, all of this will make him more and more arrogant and narcissistic, because Only in this way can others value him and think highly of him, but there is no doubt that this is a vicious cycle.
Let’s talk about Huang Shengyi again.
Many people don’t understand why Huang Shengyi wants to marry Yang Zi even though she can be “uniquely beautiful”.
Huang Shengyi was born in a family of intellectuals. His father graduated from Tsinghua University and is a university professor, his mother is a newspaper editor, and his cousin is a famous economist. Born in such a family, Huang Shengyi's personality is destined to be neither impatient nor impetuous. Gets angry easily.
However, children from such a family are also burdened with a certain amount of pressure. Seeing Huang Shengyi’s mother respond strongly to Yang Zi, it can be seen that the education Huang Shengyi received since childhood must be controlling and extremely strict, so since childhood, Huang Shengyi must be a good girl type.
But the obedient female personality is flawed, that is, she cannot see herself and just obeys the arrangements of her family, so that she loses contact with her own feelings and has no clear self.
Some people say that their marriage is about Yang Zi looking for the weak one and Huang Shengyi looking for his father.
Xingzhi said that the combination of the two is a perfect match for trauma. Therefore, Huang Shengyi, who has no clear self, must have attracted the controlling personality Yang Zi. And Yang Zi, this super NPD + understanding king personality, has found an idol. He was weak, and what he lacked was made up for in Huang Shengyi. To a certain extent, the two were indeed complementary when they first got married.
But as Huang Shengyi began to awaken her self-awareness, she realized that she was tied too deeply to Yang Zi and put herself in a state of severe internal friction. She wanted to wake up and realize herself. As she herself said: "She has been suppressed. She is not respected, has been managed like a father, and lives a depressed life. "
Therefore, being on "Sister Lang" is the beginning of her desire to break the old pattern of marriage with Yang Zi, who is the controller of this relationship. , feels that this kind of suppressive relationship in the past is what makes him most comfortable, so how can he feel that there is a problem when he is comfortable?
One wants to wake up, and the other wants to maintain the past way of getting along. This is the biggest contradiction between the two.
When there are problems in marriage, we must see the real psychological operation mode between husband and wife in order to better solve the problem. If you feel powerless in your marriage and want to change but don’t know where to start, remember to consult Xingzhi will lead you to see the deepest part of the problem. I was against the Seven Fairies marrying Dong Yong back then. You see, it is true. After watching "Goodbye Lover 4", I had to admire Huang Shengyi's super endurance, and finally found the reason why Huang Shengyi wanted to divorce. For Yang Zi, friends are always greater than family. You don't have to return to Huang Shengyi, but you have to return to customers. and friends. In order to socialize, he has 5 mobile phones and 6 social accounts. Huang Shengyi does not have viewing permissions on each mobile phone. Yang Zi added Huang Shengyi to every account, and then created a group of 6 people for the two of them. If Huang Shengyi came to see him for something, he would have to @ him in the group. More importantly, Huang Shengyi was not the administrator yet and could not make group announcements. @everyone. And that’s not even the most outrageous thing. In the program, watching Yang Zi cook really made the audience look bad. His acting personality started, and he suddenly wanted to make instant noodles. He never thought that he would put down half a bottle of oil to fry the instant noodles, and it would explode. After cooking in the dark, he turned around and blamed the director team for not preparing the kitchen utensils. He really didn't blame himself for the problem at all. He knew that Huang Shengyi’s schedule was to go to bed early and get up early, but his schedule was reversed and he stayed up late at night. He even went to Huang Shengyi’s room to wake her up just to tell her what he had discovered, “There are eight cameras in his room. ". However, Huang Shengyi did not get angry about this, and his mood was still very stable. The next morning, he even thoughtfully put a towel for Yang Zi. But who knew that not only did Yang Zi not see it, he also ignored Huang Shengyi in the car. When he arrived at his destination, Huang Shengyi told him that he was cold, but Yang Zi didn't show any signs and instead wrapped himself in a blanket. As a typical Mr. Wang, he always gives lessons to everyone, "Come, let me teach you how to read the sky." "I am one of the co-founders. In fact, I was a founder. After that, I went to film and television and acted in more than thirty movies. Play..." As a result, Patty Hou, a guest in the observation room, hit the nail on the head: "Did anyone just ask him? " I have to say that Yang Zi really contributed most of the jokes in this variety show. But from Huang Shengyi’s point of view, Mr. Wang, who has such an NPD+acting personality, is really living like a year. Even Papi Jiang couldn’t help but complain sharply: "Yang Zi really opened my eyes. He is really my least favorite type of middle-aged man. I get a headache when I see this kind of person. Why do I like him so much?" How about teaching people? So why do you like to be a father to others? It’s so frustrating when you meet someone like this!” How can Yang Zi possess all the annoying traits of middle-aged men? He is narcissistic, preachy, and condescending. In psychology, the reason why many people are narcissistic is actually due to lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, and extreme desire to be admired and recognized by others. This sense of inferiority stems from the individual's own shortcomings, or the inability to find one's own value in external things, so they try to increase their self-awareness by exaggerating their self-worth. They may constantly imagine that they are powerful, implying that they are a very talented person. People who are successful, have great status, and have great status, so as to cover up their inner inferiority. Yang Zi often said that Huang Shengyi was uneducated, but looking deeply into his background, he was actually a person from the bottom of the family. He was more like the opposite of Huang Shengyi. was born in a rural family. He has a pair of twin brothers who are 10 years older than him. When he was a child, his family was very poor. Before he was 11 years old, he did not wear cotton shoes. Every winter, his feet were covered with frostbite. Yang Zi’s mother did this when she was young. Tailor, raising children on a meager income. Born into a poor family, his desire for money and his inferiority complex were engraved in his bones. He went out to work in the society to make money in junior high school and high school. Later, Yang Zi's two brothers founded the "Yingchun Rope Inserting Machine Factory", and the factory became more and more prosperous. As Yang Zi grew older, he expanded the factory's business to Shanghai. Only then did Yang Zi get a piece of the pie and became the manager of Juli Group's Shanghai company. However, it was not Yang Zi who was really at the forefront of this listed company from beginning to end, nor was he the person in charge. It can be said that he only became rich with the help of his brothers. has always had to live under the halo of his brother, but on the other hand he is not willing to be suppressed by his halo and wants to try his best to prove himself, so this is why he suddenly wants to act. He wants to be in a circle where his brothers are not. In order to prove himself, it also laid the foundation for him to understand the king-type personality. But I have to say that he is a person who can play with characters. In that era when the Internet was not developed, he assigned himself 8 assistants, saying that his family has a century-old business. With the character of the boss, he became popular. After that, he also set his sights on Huang Shengyi, the "Beijing Film School Beauty", a popular, easy-to-control, young girl. So, after she was hidden by Stephen Chow , he generously gave her 6 million to terminate her contract. Later, the two joined forces and broke into the entertainment industry. Compared with the role of the other as his wife, as a businessman, Yang Zi, who is shrewd and calculating, regarded Huang Shengyi as his subordinate and as a traffic password to make money for himself. Because of this, how can he admit that the other person is smarter and better than himself? Perhaps it started with the 6 million termination fee. Yang Zi’s perspective on Huang Shengyi was condescending. His so-called love also had a price tag. Real love is respect, recognition and appreciation, but in Yang’s case None of his behavior towards Huang Shengyi was consistent. In another program "Mother-in-law and Mom", Yang Zi took his mother-in-law out to sketch. As we all know, Huang Shengyi was born in a scholarly family. Her mother was the editor of Xinmin Evening News. Her knowledge and education must be higher than Yang Zi's, but what about Yang Zi? , in the car, he couldn’t wait to turn on the king-knowing mode, and told his mother-in-law about the natural features and geographical features here, the lush mountains, and also said that tea is produced here... Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law knew more than him. deep. After that, Yang Zi held a cup and talked loudly, which made the mother-in-law directly complain about the impracticality. It was rare for Yang Zi to be retorted and unable to reply. tried his best to get praise from his mother-in-law, but was crushed several times and refuted everywhere. It can be seen that Yang Zi did not receive too much attention from his mother-in-law's family. With his hurt self-esteem, he would pass this conflict on to his wife. If he did not get the respect from his mother-in-law's family, he would have to give it to his wife during the marriage. Zhongrang's wife also gets no respect. Therefore, from his origin, to living under the aura of his brother when he grew up, to marrying Huang Shengyi but being ignored by his mother-in-law, all of this will make him more and more arrogant and narcissistic, because Only in this way can others value him and think highly of him, but there is no doubt that this is a vicious cycle. Let’s talk about Huang Shengyi again. Many people don’t understand why Huang Shengyi wants to marry Yang Zi even though she can be “uniquely beautiful”. Huang Shengyi was born in a family of intellectuals. His father graduated from Tsinghua University and is a university professor, his mother is a newspaper editor, and his cousin is a famous economist. Born in such a family, Huang Shengyi's personality is destined to be neither impatient nor impetuous. Gets angry easily. However, children from such a family are also burdened with a certain amount of pressure. Seeing Huang Shengyi’s mother respond strongly to Yang Zi, it can be seen that the education Huang Shengyi received since childhood must be controlling and extremely strict, so since childhood, Huang Shengyi must be a good girl type. But the obedient female personality is flawed, that is, she cannot see herself and just obeys the arrangements of her family, so that she loses contact with her own feelings and has no clear self. Some people say that their marriage is about Yang Zi looking for the weak one and Huang Shengyi looking for his father. Xingzhi said that the combination of the two is a perfect match for trauma. Therefore, Huang Shengyi, who has no clear self, must have attracted the controlling personality Yang Zi. And Yang Zi, this super NPD + understanding king personality, has found an idol. He was weak, and what he lacked was made up for in Huang Shengyi. To a certain extent, the two were indeed complementary when they first got married. But as Huang Shengyi began to awaken her self-awareness, she realized that she was tied too deeply to Yang Zi and put herself in a state of severe internal friction. She wanted to wake up and realize herself. As she herself said: "She has been suppressed. She is not respected, has been managed like a father, and lives a depressed life. " Therefore, being on "Sister Lang" is the beginning of her desire to break the old pattern of marriage with Yang Zi, who is the controller of this relationship. , feels that this kind of suppressive relationship in the past is what makes him most comfortable, so how can he feel that there is a problem when he is comfortable? One wants to wake up, and the other wants to maintain the past way of getting along. This is the biggest contradiction between the two. When there are problems in marriage, we must see the real psychological operation mode between husband and wife in order to better solve the problem. If you feel powerless in your marriage and want to change but don’t know where to start, remember to consult Xingzhi will lead you to see the deepest part of the problem.
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