The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
The old man interrupted rudely: "Come on, please! You can't go to work because you are lazy. It's so nice to have someone to raise you. Children are just an excuse for you to eat soft food. Stop making trouble with them."
Because Lao Na was tricked by his boss, his ID card was registered with a company. Now that company owes him one million, and someone has come to ask him for debts.
Faced with this matter, Lao Na felt the pain in his heart and couldn't express it, so he could only swallow it after eating coptis. After much deliberation about
, he could only return the million quietly by himself, so that he could still keep his current job.
In fact, the old man is so naive. Even if he pays back the million, his job will not be saved, because the boss lady has never thought about Liu Xia. After all, as an emperor and a courtier, he, this old man, will eventually be optimized.
Faced with these pressures, Lao Na wanted to use the family's money but his wife Shen Lin was suspicious.
As a result, Lao Na said that all the money was earned by himself, so why didn't he have the right to use it?
The two of them had a quarrel, and the old man said hurtful words.
He scolded his wife for relying on her children to make a living, and scolded her for being lazy and relying on him to support her. It is almost every housewife’s nightmare to be told by her husband to eat soft food.
But this nightmare changed Shen Lin.
Shen Lin submitted her resume 1,000 times but failed to find a job.
Shen Lin resigned five years ago. At that time, she was already thirty-four years old. At that time, she did not know that after that resignation, she would never be able to find a job again. Back to work.
However, her career life came to an abrupt end at the age of thirty-four. Looking back later, she found that the highlight of her career was already at thirty-four.
Shen Lin originally thought that Shen Lin was just taking a break, but she didn't expect that this housewife would last for five years.
In the past five years, Shen Lin has not been idle. She has been submitting resumes and looking for jobs. However, she keeps submitting resumes, not really to find a job, but to make herself look good. I won’t always be a housewife.
She always felt that she would go to work at the next interview. Shen Lin was not a housewife who relied on her husband to support her. She found a job very quickly.
She has been relying on this state to numb herself, feeling that she is still the high-spirited working woman.
In fact, she had a lot of interviews at the beginning, but then they became less and less. In fact, it was not like no one wanted her after so many job opportunities.
But she always refused for one reason or another, such as the commute time was too long, the income was too low, and she worked too much overtime. As a mother, she could not abandon her family.
So in the end, many opportunities were given up by her, but she always naively thought that the next opportunity would be better, but she didn't know that the opportunities would eventually run out one day, because time waits for no one, and she was already 39 years old .
The second child became a fig leaf for Shen Lin who was willing to be supported.
In fact, this interview was a favor, because the person interviewing her was the young girl she recruited back then, and is now the human resources director.
The little girl back then had grown up. When she saw her old boss’s job application resume online, she made a favor. There might be a show off to her old boss, but also a feeling of gratitude for her promotion back then.
This interview went very smoothly because there were almost no problems. As long as Shen Lin agreed, she could join the job the next day.
But in Shen Lin's eyes, the disadvantage of dividing the work is that the salary is only 8,000, and he is only a human resources specialist. She feels very awkward working under her former subordinates.
Of course, Shen Lin did not refuse the job immediately, and the other party also gave her time to choose.
But after returning home, Shen Lin lay at home all afternoon because of the energy consumed by being out for a long time. When she woke up, she saw that the house was in a mess, and her mother-in-law was in a hurry to take care of Xiaobao. At that moment, she felt that this home was inseparable after all. Open yourself.
At that moment, she felt that the job was not so important, because this family seemed to need her more than work.
The original work writes:
She told the old man about the eight thousand yuan job, but the old man decisively refused because the money was not worth my wife's trouble. She said, but you are too tired like this, and I can't bear to put all the financial pressure on you.
The old man pats his chest, and the husband supports his wife. It is only natural. Don't worry, your husband can fully support you. The couple hugged each other, and the emptiness and anxiety in her heart disappeared, replaced by tranquility and sweetness.
Shen Lin sent a WeChat message to Hu Haili, saying that she was not suitable for this job. Hu Haili immediately replied that it was a pity and would talk about it when we have a chance.
Shen Lin recalled Hu Haili's eyes the moment the elevator door closed today, and suddenly realized that in fact, at that moment, the two of them had understood that she would not accept the job, and Hu Haili would not hire her.
Shen Lin, who was slightly drunk, thought, yes, she is almost forty years old and has submitted a thousand resumes but can't find a satisfactory job, so what? She has a warm and prosperous home, a son and a daughter, and a husband with a strong and solid chest to rely on. What is she afraid of?
Shen Lin actually didn't want to go out to work. If she really wanted to, she wouldn't ask her husband's opinion. The reason why she asked her husband for his opinion was just to give herself a reason to feel at ease not to go out to work.
So after receiving temporary sweetness and comfort from her husband, she refused the job without hesitation.
She was like this while posting information on the Internet that women should be independent and not ask men for money with their palms up. Sometimes she would make a few comments, but those principles were like a wall and never really entered Shen Lin's mind. Such is the heart of a housewife.
They pretended to be anxious while enjoying the quiet time of relying on their husbands with peace of mind.
These days will always be peaceful if no accidents happen, but life will always give people unexpected surprises.
Where will the future go for Shen Lin, the mother of her second child?
In fact, Shen Lin was only one step away from being a strong woman back then.
In her second job that year, she had the opportunity to go to Shanghai to be the general manager of the branch, but at that time she met Lao Na, and in the end her longing for a warm family defeated her desire for the general manager.
After that, she gave up the opportunity to become a strong woman, married Lao Na and had children. If she had gone to Shanghai back then, she might be an all-powerful strong woman now.
Of course, it is also possible that when you dream back at midnight, you feel lost and lonely because you are not married and have children.
Therefore, there are gains and losses in life. This sentence is especially obvious for women, because most men’s careers will not change greatly due to marriage, but women are different.
Women have to sacrifice their careers for the sake of family. Such social rules are helpless.
wrote in the original work:
Home, to a certain extent, is a splendid cage that imprisons women. Sadly, this cage is often built with the willing participation of women. For women, are love, marriage and childbirth a success or a destruction? Who knows the gains and losses?
Yes, to a large extent, this cage is built willingly by women themselves, but how many women are helpless behind it?
Shen Lin has been stimulated since her husband scolded her for being a softie. She has to go out to find a job. Since then, it has been not only because of the mental stimulation, but also the helplessness in life.
Because the old man will have a career soon, and middle-aged men also have many problems if they want to re-employ, such as face issues, energy issues, and ability issues.
Moreover, Mr. Na has no irreplaceable ability in the company for so many years. He was able to take the position of vice president largely because he has a good relationship with his boss and is a veteran. In this era, loyalty is the least important thing when having a good relationship. Reliable.
Lao Na couldn't afford to look for a job and wanted to start a business, so Shen Lin really had no way out this time. She had to find a job and work to make money to support her family. After
experienced this change, Shen Lin also reflected on her mentality of being a housewife.
The original work writes:
Is she really relying on her children to eat soft rice?
Yes, otherwise why would you have given birth to a second child after failing to find a job for so many years?
Everyone advised her to have a second child, but that was not the reason why she had to have a second child.
She is not a blind follower. The reason why she wanted to have a second child was because she could stay busy and avoid going to work. The boss's face is certainly uglier than that of her husband.
Squeezing in the subway during morning and evening rush hours, quarreling with colleagues in the office, and putting on smiles for customers to gain performance little by little. How can you enjoy staying at home and drinking coffee?
As for housework, the company has KPI assessment at work, and it is essential to be practical, but there is no such thing as housework and childcare.
The floor must be polished smooth or no visible dirt is visible, the dishes must be delicious or barely edible, the bedding and pillowcases should be changed once a week or every half a month... There are no hard and fast standards for these, it all depends on the mood of the housewife. .
In fact, Shen Lin also admitted deep down that she was indeed relying on her children to make ends meet.
She gave birth to a second child despite repeated attempts to find a job, not because she liked children, but more because she wanted to use her status as a mother of a second child to give herself a reason not to go to work.
In fact, Shen Lin, who later failed to apply for a job, was unwilling to lower her standards, but she was also unwilling to compromise and bow her head. She could only rely on her second child to numb herself and comfort herself that she still had a chance.
In fact, from the moment she decided to have a second child, she had to admit that she had begun to avoid her own failure. She even found an irrefutable reason for her failure to apply for a job, and that was that she was a mother of the second child.
Gradually, she felt that she was more comfortable at home than at work. Gradually, she used home as a cage. In fact, I think there is nothing wrong with returning to the family, because there are always people in this family who have to sacrifice.
But Shen Lin sacrificed while coveting her former freedom. In this state, she was destined to slowly sink into her own lies.
It was not until this peaceful life was broken that Shen Lin lowered her head to become a confinement nanny and serve others. At that time, she realized that she had been eliminated.
This is a very cruel thing. Later, because being a confinement nanny was too hard and she suffered too many injustices, she chose to resign and buy braised food.
She is very lucky. Good food makes her independent, has a source of income, and has a say in the family.
Afterwards, she said to Li Xiaoyue: "I don't know why, but suddenly the workplace has squeezed employees to such a cruel extent.
But if we could turn back the time, I would never resign or have a second child when I was thirty-four. I will not refuse to work overtime.
Xiaoyue, there is no such way as working as a waiter in a cake shop or as a nanny.
If I have to choose between unemployment and endless overtime, I will. Choose the latter.
Because there is no choice, after all, people cannot live by photosynthesis. "
Obviously, through her husband's mid-life crisis, Shen Lin has completely grown up, and she finally understands that no one is another. A permanent support.
But I still feel sorry for the ending where Shen Lin ends up selling braised goods. Although she feels satisfied, it is largely due to helplessness.
Because in this matter, I deeply felt that this society has such harsh requirements for housewives to return to the workplace.
Engels said: The first prerequisite for women's liberation is that all women return to public employment.
As for a woman like Shen Lin, at least she had a highlight moment in the workplace. Although she later gave up many opportunities, in the end the workplace still couldn't accommodate her.
Most of us don’t have the high-profile workplace experience like Shen Lin, let alone the ability to make good stuff like her, and we don’t have any special skills.
And these ordinary people have become cannon fodder for the historical progress of economic development.
However, Engels’ dream is still the dream of all women. People always have to have some dreams, just in case they really come true.
The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
The old man interrupted rudely: "Come on, please! You can't go to work because you are lazy. It's so nice to have someone to raise you. Children are just an excuse for you to eat soft food. Stop making trouble with them."
Because Lao Na was tricked by his boss, his ID card was registered with a company. Now that company owes him one million, and someone has come to ask him for debts.
Faced with this matter, Lao Na felt the pain in his heart and couldn't express it, so he could only swallow it after eating coptis. After much deliberation about
, he could only return the million quietly by himself, so that he could still keep his current job.
In fact, the old man is so naive. Even if he pays back the million, his job will not be saved, because the boss lady has never thought about Liu Xia. After all, as an emperor and a courtier, he, this old man, will eventually be optimized.
Faced with these pressures, Lao Na wanted to use the family's money but his wife Shen Lin was suspicious.
As a result, Lao Na said that all the money was earned by himself, so why didn't he have the right to use it?
The two of them had a quarrel, and the old man said hurtful words.
He scolded his wife for relying on her children to make a living, and scolded her for being lazy and relying on him to support her. It is almost every housewife’s nightmare to be told by her husband to eat soft food.
But this nightmare changed Shen Lin.
Shen Lin submitted her resume 1,000 times but failed to find a job.
Shen Lin resigned five years ago. At that time, she was already thirty-four years old. At that time, she did not know that after that resignation, she would never be able to find a job again. Back to work.
However, her career life came to an abrupt end at the age of thirty-four. Looking back later, she found that the highlight of her career was already at thirty-four.
Shen Lin originally thought that Shen Lin was just taking a break, but she didn't expect that this housewife would last for five years.
In the past five years, Shen Lin has not been idle. She has been submitting resumes and looking for jobs. However, she keeps submitting resumes, not really to find a job, but to make herself look good. I won’t always be a housewife.
She always felt that she would go to work at the next interview. Shen Lin was not a housewife who relied on her husband to support her. She found a job very quickly.
She has been relying on this state to numb herself, feeling that she is still the high-spirited working woman.
In fact, she had a lot of interviews at the beginning, but then they became less and less. In fact, it was not like no one wanted her after so many job opportunities.
But she always refused for one reason or another, such as the commute time was too long, the income was too low, and she worked too much overtime. As a mother, she could not abandon her family.
So in the end, many opportunities were given up by her, but she always naively thought that the next opportunity would be better, but she didn't know that the opportunities would eventually run out one day, because time waits for no one, and she was already 39 years old .
The second child became a fig leaf for Shen Lin who was willing to be supported.
In fact, this interview was a favor, because the person interviewing her was the young girl she recruited back then, and is now the human resources director.
The little girl back then had grown up. When she saw her old boss’s job application resume online, she made a favor. There might be a show off to her old boss, but also a feeling of gratitude for her promotion back then.
This interview went very smoothly because there were almost no problems. As long as Shen Lin agreed, she could join the job the next day.
But in Shen Lin's eyes, the disadvantage of dividing the work is that the salary is only 8,000, and he is only a human resources specialist. She feels very awkward working under her former subordinates.
Of course, Shen Lin did not refuse the job immediately, and the other party also gave her time to choose.
But after returning home, Shen Lin lay at home all afternoon because of the energy consumed by being out for a long time. When she woke up, she saw that the house was in a mess, and her mother-in-law was in a hurry to take care of Xiaobao. At that moment, she felt that this home was inseparable after all. Open yourself.
At that moment, she felt that the job was not so important, because this family seemed to need her more than work.
The original work writes:
She told the old man about the eight thousand yuan job, but the old man decisively refused because the money was not worth my wife's trouble. She said, but you are too tired like this, and I can't bear to put all the financial pressure on you.
The old man pats his chest, and the husband supports his wife. It is only natural. Don't worry, your husband can fully support you. The couple hugged each other, and the emptiness and anxiety in her heart disappeared, replaced by tranquility and sweetness.
Shen Lin sent a WeChat message to Hu Haili, saying that she was not suitable for this job. Hu Haili immediately replied that it was a pity and would talk about it when we have a chance.
Shen Lin recalled Hu Haili's eyes the moment the elevator door closed today, and suddenly realized that in fact, at that moment, the two of them had understood that she would not accept the job, and Hu Haili would not hire her.
Shen Lin, who was slightly drunk, thought, yes, she is almost forty years old and has submitted a thousand resumes but can't find a satisfactory job, so what? She has a warm and prosperous home, a son and a daughter, and a husband with a strong and solid chest to rely on. What is she afraid of?
Shen Lin actually didn't want to go out to work. If she really wanted to, she wouldn't ask her husband's opinion. The reason why she asked her husband for his opinion was just to give herself a reason to feel at ease not to go out to work.
So after receiving temporary sweetness and comfort from her husband, she refused the job without hesitation.
She was like this while posting information on the Internet that women should be independent and not ask men for money with their palms up. Sometimes she would make a few comments, but those principles were like a wall and never really entered Shen Lin's mind. Such is the heart of a housewife.
They pretended to be anxious while enjoying the quiet time of relying on their husbands with peace of mind.
These days will always be peaceful if no accidents happen, but life will always give people unexpected surprises.
Where will the future go for Shen Lin, the mother of her second child?
In fact, Shen Lin was only one step away from being a strong woman back then.
In her second job that year, she had the opportunity to go to Shanghai to be the general manager of the branch, but at that time she met Lao Na, and in the end her longing for a warm family defeated her desire for the general manager.
After that, she gave up the opportunity to become a strong woman, married Lao Na and had children. If she had gone to Shanghai back then, she might be an all-powerful strong woman now.
Of course, it is also possible that when you dream back at midnight, you feel lost and lonely because you are not married and have children.
Therefore, there are gains and losses in life. This sentence is especially obvious for women, because most men’s careers will not change greatly due to marriage, but women are different.
Women have to sacrifice their careers for the sake of family. Such social rules are helpless.
wrote in the original work:
Home, to a certain extent, is a splendid cage that imprisons women. Sadly, this cage is often built with the willing participation of women. For women, are love, marriage and childbirth a success or a destruction? Who knows the gains and losses?
Yes, to a large extent, this cage is built willingly by women themselves, but how many women are helpless behind it?
Shen Lin has been stimulated since her husband scolded her for being a softie. She has to go out to find a job. Since then, it has been not only because of the mental stimulation, but also the helplessness in life.
Because the old man will have a career soon, and middle-aged men also have many problems if they want to re-employ, such as face issues, energy issues, and ability issues.
Moreover, Mr. Na has no irreplaceable ability in the company for so many years. He was able to take the position of vice president largely because he has a good relationship with his boss and is a veteran. In this era, loyalty is the least important thing when having a good relationship. Reliable.
Lao Na couldn't afford to look for a job and wanted to start a business, so Shen Lin really had no way out this time. She had to find a job and work to make money to support her family. After
experienced this change, Shen Lin also reflected on her mentality of being a housewife.
The original work writes:
Is she really relying on her children to eat soft rice?
Yes, otherwise why would you have given birth to a second child after failing to find a job for so many years?
Everyone advised her to have a second child, but that was not the reason why she had to have a second child.
She is not a blind follower. The reason why she wanted to have a second child was because she could stay busy and avoid going to work. The boss's face is certainly uglier than that of her husband.
Squeezing in the subway during morning and evening rush hours, quarreling with colleagues in the office, and putting on smiles for customers to gain performance little by little. How can you enjoy staying at home and drinking coffee?
As for housework, the company has KPI assessment at work, and it is essential to be practical, but there is no such thing as housework and childcare.
The floor must be polished smooth or no visible dirt is visible, the dishes must be delicious or barely edible, the bedding and pillowcases should be changed once a week or every half a month... There are no hard and fast standards for these, it all depends on the mood of the housewife. .
In fact, Shen Lin also admitted deep down that she was indeed relying on her children to make ends meet.
She gave birth to a second child despite repeated attempts to find a job, not because she liked children, but more because she wanted to use her status as a mother of a second child to give herself a reason not to go to work.
In fact, Shen Lin, who later failed to apply for a job, was unwilling to lower her standards, but she was also unwilling to compromise and bow her head. She could only rely on her second child to numb herself and comfort herself that she still had a chance.
In fact, from the moment she decided to have a second child, she had to admit that she had begun to avoid her own failure. She even found an irrefutable reason for her failure to apply for a job, and that was that she was a mother of the second child.
Gradually, she felt that she was more comfortable at home than at work. Gradually, she used home as a cage. In fact, I think there is nothing wrong with returning to the family, because there are always people in this family who have to sacrifice.
But Shen Lin sacrificed while coveting her former freedom. In this state, she was destined to slowly sink into her own lies.
It was not until this peaceful life was broken that Shen Lin lowered her head to become a confinement nanny and serve others. At that time, she realized that she had been eliminated.
This is a very cruel thing. Later, because being a confinement nanny was too hard and she suffered too many injustices, she chose to resign and buy braised food.
She is very lucky. Good food makes her independent, has a source of income, and has a say in the family.
Afterwards, she said to Li Xiaoyue: "I don't know why, but suddenly the workplace has squeezed employees to such a cruel extent.
But if we could turn back the time, I would never resign or have a second child when I was thirty-four. I will not refuse to work overtime.
Xiaoyue, there is no such way as working as a waiter in a cake shop or as a nanny.
If I have to choose between unemployment and endless overtime, I will. Choose the latter.
Because there is no choice, after all, people cannot live by photosynthesis. "
Obviously, through her husband's mid-life crisis, Shen Lin has completely grown up, and she finally understands that no one is another. A permanent support.
But I still feel sorry for the ending where Shen Lin ends up selling braised goods. Although she feels satisfied, it is largely due to helplessness.
Because in this matter, I deeply felt that this society has such harsh requirements for housewives to return to the workplace.
Engels said: The first prerequisite for women's liberation is that all women return to public employment.
As for a woman like Shen Lin, at least she had a highlight moment in the workplace. Although she later gave up many opportunities, in the end the workplace still couldn't accommodate her.
Most of us don’t have the high-profile workplace experience like Shen Lin, let alone the ability to make good stuff like her, and we don’t have any special skills.
And these ordinary people have become cannon fodder for the historical progress of economic development.
However, Engels’ dream is still the dream of all women. People always have to have some dreams, just in case they really come true.
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