A hot topic of the week
The college entrance examination results are released, some are happy and some are sad. But every year after the college entrance examination results are released, there are many counterattack stories that make ordinary days shine because the light of dreams shines into reality. Peng Xiangxiang, a completely blind candidate in Guangzhou, went through unimaginable difficulties and achieved a good score of 512 points in this year's college entrance examination. She was recently admitted to Guangdong University of Finance and became the first person in Guangdong Province to pass the cultural (non-academic) general college entrance examination to obtain the qualification to apply for undergraduate institutions. of completely blind candidates.
In real life, we need such positive energy to rekindle our fighting spirit. In the process of chasing our dreams, we will inevitably encounter setbacks. At this time, how to face setbacks? How to stick to your dreams? Especially when children face learning difficulties, how should parents and teachers help them? In this issue, let’s talk about fighting spirit and dreams in detail.
People are great because of their dreams
Peng Xiangxiang told reporters: "I really want to be a special education teacher, because I have been growing up in the care of teachers, and I also want to be like my teacher, able to bring some light to special children. . I want to study law because I can use legal weapons to help more people. I think it is very great.” Peng Xiangxiang’s story of studying hard to pursue her dream moved the entire Internet.
" Because you have a dream, you will continue to gain a sense of gain, accomplishment and value in the process of chasing it; because you have a dream, even if it cannot be realized, your positive and enterprising attitude towards life will become unique; because you have a dream. Dreams, even if they fail in the end, your life will be hot; because you have dreams, you can truly become a human being, and you will be worthy of your journey and your life." Huang Yanhai, director of the Student Affairs Office and mental health teacher of Dongguan Business School, said. , People become great because of their dreams, and the power of dreams is infinite. The story of Peng Xiangxiang, a completely blind candidate in Guangzhou, is that dreams inspired her infinite potential.
Setbacks are not terrible. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to overcome them.
In the process of chasing dreams, it is not always smooth sailing. It is inevitable to encounter setbacks. How should we face these setbacks? Huang Yanhai, director of the student office and mental health teacher of Dongguan Business School, suggested starting from the following three aspects:
First, maintaining a positive and optimistic attitude is the prerequisite for overcoming setbacks.
When facing setbacks, some people's first reaction is to "run away". In their eyes, setbacks are painful, helpless, and a "stumbling block". No matter how hard you try, it is useless. If you can't beat it, run away. The only way is to "run away". Surrender." But some people's first reaction is to "fight". They think that overcoming setbacks is a kind of fun. They think that hardships make them grow and improve themselves in all aspects. This is a growth mindset. These two completely different ways of thinking determine your reaction to setbacks and your next steps.
Second, being good at leveraging the strength of others is a powerful tool for overcoming setbacks.
When facing difficulties and setbacks, we should not fight alone, but should learn to seek help from others. For example, if we encounter difficulties in learning, we can solve the problem by actively asking the teacher for advice, discussing with classmates, etc. When we face setbacks in life, we can solve the problem by actively asking others for help. By facing difficulties and setbacks, we can continuously improve ourselves. If you encounter a sudden and huge unfortunate event, you should take the initiative to seek professional psychological counseling, talk to family, friends, and teachers, vent your emotional pressure, and go back to war lightly.
Third, actively seeking solutions is the magic weapon to overcome setbacks.
Don’t always immerse yourself in frustration, feel sorry for yourself or give up on yourself, but take active action and re-examine your goals and plans through brainstorming, mind mapping and other methods to see what aspects need to be adjusted and improved, and find new directions and Methods, re-formulate goals and plans. In this process, if you discover your own shortcomings, you can also improve your abilities and enhance your self-confidence by learning new knowledge and skills. Instead of complaining about everything, it is better to sit down and walk.
" Life will not always be smooth sailing, nor will it always be bumpy. Only by maintaining a positive attitude and the spirit of challenge can we continue to surpass ourselves and gain happiness. " Huang Yanhai said.
Planning | Gong Danfeng Chen Xiaoxuan Xu Hanghang
Coordinator | Wei Yi He Ning
Guidance unit | Guangdong Provincial Department of Education Guangdong Provincial Education Research Institute
expert member | Provincial psychology teaching researchers and front-line teachers
(Special thanks to the Student Office of Dongguan Business School for this article Professional guidance from director and mental health teacher Huang Yanhai)
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