It turns out that the watershed in life is amniotic fluid.
Today I will talk about Lu Yuxiao, who successfully broke through the industry with her appearance in "Cloud Feather".
Her father is the vice president of a private hospital in Shanghai and a respiratory specialist; her mother is a stomatologist;
Dentistry is a high-paying profession, and she has a vice president father. Lu Yuxiao’s family background has surpassed 95% of ordinary people. People. Then, her parents were very emotionally stable and doted on her very much.
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Mango new variety "My Girl", she is one of the guests. Lu Yuxiao in the show
can call her parents immediately after finishing filming at three o'clock in the morning to report it; she can forget her house keys and call her mother for help; she can also sleep until she wakes up naturally on days off when she has no work. Don't be bothered by anyone.
seems to be a trivial matter. But in fact, if most people call their parents in the early hours of the morning, they will not get a gentle response from the other end of the phone; if they always forget to pick up something, their parents will not excuse themselves.
When Lu Yuxiao’s mother saw the scene where Lu Yuxiao forgot to bring her keys, she told other guests that it was because they took good care of Xiaoxiao that her daughter was so confused.
includes sleeping in. Are the majority of people who are criticized by their parents for being so lazy at such an old age?
But Lu Yuxiao’s father thoughtfully closed the curtains for her so that she could sleep more.
There are many more details: For example, when Lu Yuxiao cooks for a family, her father will greet her relatives in advance and ask them not to show it too obviously even if it is not delicious. He also gives Lu Yuxiao enough emotional value and keeps praising her;
For another example, Lu Yuxiao’s mother regards Lu Yuxiao as a spiritual support.
She said that when Lu Yuxiao went to study in the UK, she was making money in China. She felt that she had a goal and was so happy.
Later, when Lu Yuxiao returned to China, her goal was gone.
But her daughter’s return has made her much younger, because she can see her Xiaoxiao and is very happy every day.
Because Lu Yuxiao once wrote the words "Xiaoxiao's forever nest" on the wall of his room.
So Lu Yuxiao’s parents never sold the house. It's normal for children to write and draw at home, but Lu Yuxiao's parents kept everything she wrote in mind.
Even now that Lu Yuxiao is in her twenties, her parents still call her "baby".
In their hearts, Lu Yuxiao is always a little girl who needs care.
They also carefully collected all of Xiaoxiao's "works" from childhood to adulthood. They filled a big box and took them out like treasures to share with the program team.
Isn’t this Bai Xiaohe in the real-life version of "The Story of Rose"?
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I saw a saying on the Internet before, stay with the person who loves you. , if you eat more than one bite of rice, you will be praised. These words were embodied in Lu Yuxiao's family.
The audience watching the program, including the guests watching the program in the studio, all made a sound of envy:
Envy Lu Yuxiao’s smooth sailing: an only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, her parents are knowledgeable and can make money, she can study in the UK, and she has been given the green light to enter entertainment. lock up.
Of course, I envy her even more, in addition to her favorable material conditions, she also has the spiritual wealth she has been given since childhood.
Because Chinese children are almost always accompanied by "suppressive education" since childhood. If you don't believe it, you can see it by comparing Liu Yan with the same program.
Liu Yan has been working hard in the industry for many years. When she was a host, she was the first sister of Enlight Media. She has also won awards in the industry as a transitional actor. Let’s not talk about the top actors in the industry, but at least she has national reputation and works. She is very good. A working woman.
But Liu Yan’s mother couldn’t see this. She could only see that Liu Yan was older, an older leftover girl, and a big problem in society.
To be honest, although he is not young, it is not difficult for Liu Yan to find a partner. It is too easy to be backward compatible with
. Liu Yan is rich and famous, so he can just find someone 19 years younger than himself like Jinsha. But in the eyes of Liu Yan's mother, Liu Yan is only worthy of finding an old man, because Liu Yan's age has been included in the ranks of the elderly.
Liu Yan has been known for 80 years and is 44 years old this year. (I have never seen an elderly person who is 44 years old)
And Liu Yan lives alone. Although the home is not particularly tidy, it is messy and orderly. At least for her who is busy at work, she can find whatever she wants immediately, and she is the type of person who can take care of her life.
But Liu Yan’s mother scolded her when she came up, saying she was dirty and messy.
Liu Yan would make a mistake in cutting an apple because his knife skills are not good.
I don’t know what Liu Yan is like after watching it. Anyway, the spectators on the sidelines felt so suffocated. I can understand why Liu Yan said he envied Lu Yuxiao four times in a row.
Including Tao Xinran, the previous actor who played An Lingrong, she was also suppressed all the way.
I obviously had good grades when I was in school. When I returned from the exam, I happily reported the good news to my mother, but in the end I got a beating.
There is no reason. It’s just that Tao Xinran’s mother thinks that Tao Xinran should do well in the exam. If she comes home so arrogant, she must kill her prestige.
Such sticks did not make Tao Xinran more obedient, but instead made her rebellious.
Tao Xinran recalled that she had been trying to fight against her mother since she was a child. In short, if you asked me to go east, I would go west. After I grew up and became a mother, I slowly reconciled with my mother.
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So, in fact, real love should not be shackles, but power. Even if you do something wrong, as long as you think of them behind you, you will feel like you have someone to rely on.
It’s not that single girls in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai have a sense of superiority. There are men and women everywhere like Lu Yuxiao who grew up in such a family environment.
Most parents back then did not have such stable emotions and rarely brought positive output to their children.
But it doesn’t matter. We can try our best to be parents like Lu Yuxiao’s parents in the future.
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