Recently, 43-year-old Liu Yan shared her single life on a variety show. Unexpectedly, she revealed the helplessness and sadness of older single actresses in the entertainment industry.
Liu Yan said that in the eyes of many people, she is now unmarried and has no children, has a good job, is financially independent, and lives a "fairy life", but sometimes she feels regretful and lonely. She also hopes that she To have a companion.
She said that no one would like to live alone all the time, especially when friends around her have families and children. She sometimes feels that it is great to have a partner.
Even so, considering Liu Yan's actual situation, she also understands that it is not easy to find a suitable partner. She is busy working most of the time, and the proportion of time she longs for a partner is not a big part of her life. She feels that the "loneliness" in her heart is only magnified, and the more she lacks something, the more she wants it.
There are many older single female stars like Liu Yan in the entertainment industry. Although, as Liu Yan said, to outsiders, it seems that these female stars have a superior material life and do not have to face family chores. But in fact, they also have their own Regretfully sad.
1. I didn’t have children when I was young, and I regretted it when I got old.
Liu Xuehua’s material life is not bad. She lives in a spacious villa and mansion, and also has two pet dogs to accompany her. However, as she grows older, this young person’s seemingly “free” life is not good for Liu Xuehua. There is loneliness and hidden dangers everywhere.
She said that in addition to making video calls with her family at home, she also plays mahjong on her mobile phone. In order to keep the house quiet, she turns on the TV 24 hours a day.
But she is still very worried about her retirement life in another 10 years, because she is worried that she will live alone and no one will know if she falls or has an accident at home, so she said she might go to a nursing home in the future.
Liu Xuehua is not a "DINK". She was unable to have children due to miscarriage when she was young. Now, she says her biggest regret is that she has no children in her life.
Tsai Qin and Liu Xuehua are the same. It was not that they did not want to live when they were young, but they were unable to have children due to various reasons.
Finally, when Tsai Chin was no longer suitable for childbearing, Yang Dechang divorced her and married another man to have children. Tsai Chin lost the opportunity to "be a mother".
In her later years, Tsai Qin said that she had a good mentality of living alone. She would dress herself up beautifully and wear beautiful dresses every day in the house.
But not having children in her life has become her biggest regret.
Cai Qin and Liu Xuehua wanted to have children but were unable to do so, while Pan Hong and Guan Zhilin decided not to have children when they were young and regretted it when they were old.
But Pan Hong was focused on her acting career at that time and repeatedly rejected Mi Jiashan's idea of having children. Until Pan Hong was nearly 40 years old, Mi Jiashan finally gave up and divorced Pan Hong.
Although Pan Hong also liked Mi Jiashan, when she was young, she valued her career more, and at that time, she felt that she was mentally and financially independent and could support herself financially, so why should she change herself.
But maybe Pan Hong himself didn’t expect that people’s thoughts will change. In her later years, Pan Hong lived alone and lamented that if she could start her life over again, she would rather not be a movie queen and just want to have a few children and have a family.
She wrote in her autobiography, I was originally an ordinary woman. I just wanted to be a mother for once and have a child of my own, so that she would not have to open a window in the middle of the night to escape the endless loneliness. Listen to the lively arguments of strangers.
Guan Zhilin is the same as Pan Hong. Guan Zhilin has been married twice, but has not given birth to children so far. She once said that her liking for children is "ordinary". She feels that the responsibility is too great, and she believes that she has been lacking since she was a child. "maternal love".
Guan Zhilin thinks why she must have children. There are many things she can do, travel, learn painting, etc. Having children is not a required course in her life.
When she was young, Guan Zhilin was a person with a daring personality. Zhong Zhentao described her personality as that of a boy, but she felt that she was someone who would do whatever she wanted.
Due to family reasons, she took on the responsibility of supporting her family early on. When she was young, making money may be more important to her.
She once described her life as wonderful and with no regrets in this life.
But later, a host asked her why she never thought about "freezing her eggs" when she was young. Guan Zhilin's answer was that when she wanted to "freeze her eggs," it was already too late and she missed the best age.
I wonder if Guan Zhilin, who is now 60 years old, has ever had a fleeting thought that it would be better if she had a child when she was young.
However, Guan Zhilin's life in her later years is still chic. She lives alone in a sea view mansion worth 150 million in Hong Kong and has two pet dogs for companionship.
Nowadays, her only relative is her brother Guan Shihua, so she is not too lonely.
2. I was hurt in love when I was young, and I am still unmarried and have no children.
Although many female stars have better conditions than ordinary people in all aspects, their emotional experiences may not be smoother than ordinary people.
html The 257-year-old Hong Kong goddess Wang Zuxian went to Canada to live alone for many years. She is still unmarried and has no children. This is inseparable from the emotional trauma she suffered when she was young. You must know that when she quit the industry and went abroad, it was precisely because of her experiences with wealthy businessmen Lin Jianyue and Qi Qin After the feelings.
Wang Zuxian participated in the program twice to express his views on marriage, and his attitudes were completely different before and after. At the beginning, she was still popular, but she said with a smile that she would definitely live an ordinary life of getting married and having children in the future. She felt that women must get married and have children.
But after many years, she said that the word marriage did not exist in her dictionary.
In the meantime, she experienced separation and reunification with Qi Qin. In the end, she was completely disappointed because Qi Qin was revealed to have an illegitimate child.
had a relationship with wealthy businessman Lin Jianyue, but at that time Lin Jianyue had his wife Xie Lingling. Lin Jianyue’s mother also verbally insulted Wang Zuxian in front of reporters for interfering in the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law.
Now 57 years old, Wang Zuxian has lived abroad for many years and lived a simple and peaceful life. What you may often see is her appearing at the scene of Buddha worship, but she herself has not become a monk.
Li Ruotong gave her most precious 10 years to Guo Yingquan, but in the end, Guo Yingquan broke up. During this period, she also experienced depression and was tortured by self-blame.
After breaking up with Guo Yingquan, fortunately Li Ruotong did not fall into despair. Instead, she relied on fitness to make a comeback and became an "inspirational goddess." However, only Li Ruotong knew the hardships.
3. The hidden dangers of living alone at an older age: No one will know if someone dies at home
As Liu Xuehua said, the biggest worry of living alone is that no one will know about an accident at home.
Last year, 57-year-old Zhou Haimei was rumored to have died in a mansion in Beijing. She was living alone at the time, and her family did not know it immediately.
Zhou Haimei lived alone in Beijing for many years before her death. Although her family did not agree, she could not help but like the life in Beijing. She was also single and had no children. She only kept two pet dogs in the mansion for companionship.
Zhou Haimei once shared that she was very satisfied with her solitary life and felt that she did not necessarily need to find a man to "get in the way" by her side.
As for having children, she feels that there is no throne in the family to inherit, so there is no need to force children.
Taiwanese "socialite" Luo Peiying was also found dead suddenly at home by her friends and called the police. When Luo Peiying was found, she had been dead for a day or two, because she was 59 years old and living alone at the time.
Luo Peiying is not only a real rich man with a net worth of over 100 million, but her love life is also very exciting. Her wise saying is that she only falls in love with men under the age of 25, no matter how old she was at the time.
Luo Peiying had many boyfriends throughout her life. Her views on relationships and her chic personality once left a deep impression on people. However, she never married or had children. She once said that after her death, she didn’t know whether it would be better to be buried in a tree or at sea. Because she had no children, no one worshiped her.
Luo Peiying died suddenly at home in her later years and no one knew about it, which still makes people feel a bit sad.
It is said that Hong Qiyang lived alone during her lifetime. Although she did not disclose her relationship status, her friends speculated that she was never married.
said that everyone has the freedom and right to choose their own life. Whether a person must get married and have children in his life is not an absolute matter.
Like Liu Xuehua and Tsai Qin, they feel that not having children in this life is the biggest regret, but like Yang Liping, who chose lifelong infertility for the sake of art. She feels that not having children does not hurt anyone, it is just her own choice.
And she described herself as a bystander who came to the world. She felt that she lived in this world to see how trees grow and how rivers flow. Then, a tree or an ant can also be her child. .
It’s just that the experiences of these older female stars living alone are also touching. Behind their free and unrestrained style, there is actually a side of helplessness and sadness.
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