Nowadays, some netizens use the angle of whitewashing cheating men, which is really cliché and ridiculous.
Recently, Sammi Cheng postponed her world tour for a year and finally opened the mic successfully. She transformed into an ever-changing queen, and her fashion at the concert was still bold, unique and very avant-garde.
When singing "He Who Believers Get Love", Sammi Cheng performed in a sexy gray and white outfit with a sense of technology.
As a result, this video was posted on a certain short video platform, but there were a lot of people in the comments mocking Sammi Cheng for having a flat figure, which was full of malice. She even felt that Sammi Cheng was not a woman at all, and she began to understand and appreciate Xu Zhian's cheating that year.
You can say that Sammi Cheng’s clothes are not good-looking and do not suit your taste, but to use this matter to attack her figure or even whitewash the cheating man, you can only say that it stinks.
Although this group of people don’t know each other, they can always get along with each other. They feel that the reason why men cheat is that the problem must be with women. All day long, it seems that the only thing in my eyes is the crotch. I understand the cheating man, and then eventually become the cheating man.
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Sammi Cheng's first concert, there was another controversy. That night, Andy Hui appeared as a guest playing the piano, and then sang "Fireworks at the End of the Century" with Sammi Cheng.
The sudden appearance of Xu Zhian caught fans off guard. This performance made some people happy and others sad, and it also made Sammi Cheng receive the biggest criticism from the love brain, thinking that she loves humblely.
In 2019, Xu Zhian cheated and was photographed making out with Ma Guoming's fiancee Huang Xinying in the car for 16 minutes.
was subsequently exposed and condemned. Xu Zhian also held a press conference to apologize. He cried bitterly during the press conference. The words he said became the cheating quotes of the year.
"I have lost my soul at this moment."
"I am a bad person."
"I drank a lot of wine that day, but drinking is definitely not an excuse to make such a mistake."
soon Xu Zhian The "drunk" comment about blaming the blame was slapped in the face by another friend Liu Haolong who was present on the night of the incident. He said, "I was drunk, but I was not too drunk."
When everyone thought that Sammi Cheng would choose divorce, Sammi Cheng posted A long article, expressing forgiveness for Xu Zhian: "Don't give up on yourself, don't give up on the other person, correct each other, and give each other points."
Starting from 2019, Xu Zhian's career has entered the stage due to the cheating scandal. There was a vacuum period, and it was not until 2022 that Xu Zhian started Comeback.
On the program "Zhishan Dates You", Xu Zhian was asked how much the cheating incident had affected him. He said that it was the most painful and darkest stage in life, but he also had to have the courage to face it. , and Sammi Cheng gave him a lot of advice and encouragement throughout the process.
It is difficult for us as outsiders to interpret how deep the relationship between Sammi Cheng and Andy Hui is. Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. To forgive Xu Zhian and help him come out is Sammi Cheng's choice.
But when Xu Zhian cheated, he did something wrong. Nowadays, netizens attribute the problem of cheating to Sammi Cheng not being a woman enough, analyzing her as not being good enough or sexy enough, and even sympathizing with Andy Hui. Isn't this a bit ridiculous?
The fact is that no matter how you look at it, Andy Hui is not worthy of Sammi Cheng.
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Xu Zhian has plummeted without Sammi Cheng, but Sammi Cheng can thrive without Hui Zhian.
At the 41st Hong Kong Film Awards last year for Best Film, Sammi Cheng accompanied her ten times and finally won the Best Actress for "Falling Water".
The Best Actress award seems very far away for Sammi Cheng, but sometimes it is just one step away. She said that in fact, what she thinks about most is not when or how she can win this award, but how she can improve her acting skills and undergo a transformation.
"I would like to say that it took a lot of effort to be recognized as a comedian and then switch to acting as a drama. I encountered many difficulties. From not being recognized along the way, to where I am today. Everyone has seen the transformation in my performance. "
Artists in the entertainment industry in Hong Kong's golden era are very popular in film, television and singing, and Sammi Cheng is no exception.
In 1988, 16-year-old Sammi Cheng entered the industry by participating in a singing competition. She was also packaged as a beautiful girl by the company and released her first album of the same name "Sammi Cheng".
Although she maintained the pace of releasing one album a year, Sammi Cheng at that time was not particularly outstanding in the Hong Kong entertainment circle where stars were shining. It was difficult to be a cookie-cutter beauty, so she transformed without fear: "I and The record company said, "I want to sing a lot of fast songs, and I want to dance, and get rid of my previous image of a beautiful girl." She dyed her hair blond, and her singing style changed from slow songs to fast songs. In 1994, "Ten Commandments" was released. Album, she has made a huge breakthrough. The cover and inside pages have a bit of a "desire" style, clearly distinguishing Sammi Cheng from the other popular female singers at that time.
In 1996, she held her first solo concert at the Coliseum, which lasted eight times.
The rosette head and Nike eyebrow styles at the concert were all the rage. Sammi Cheng used this to enter the fashion circle. She is like a trend icon in the entertainment industry, always trying the most avant-garde shapes and styles.
In every subsequent concert, her appearance and costumes strived to be eye-catching, exaggerated and coquettish, but also surprising. With her strong sense of fashion and personal style, Sammi Cheng has made her own way in the music world, and she is known as the "Queen of Changes".
Although Sammi Cheng is a singer, she also started acting very early.
joined TVB in 1991 and starred in the TV series "The Young Master of the Lang Family". The following year, he partnered with Jacky Cheung and starred in the film debut "Flying Tiger Elite: Love in the World". With her debut film, Sammi Cheng was nominated for Best New Actor at the Hong Kong Film Awards.
Looking at Sammi Cheng's acting performance in the first two years, some people will think that her acting career seems to have a good starting point. In fact, in the early days of Sammi Cheng, although she was active in TV series and movies, she was not famous in the film industry. Until Johnnie To found her, "A Man and a Widow" won the box office championship in Hong Kong that year.
Andy Lau said that Sammi Cheng has a sense of humor that no one else has, and he also has his own rhythm in comedy.
Facts have proved that Johnnie To and Andy Lau were right. "A Man and a Widow" became the most popular movie in Hong Kong that year. She was also nominated for the Academy Award for Best Actress for her movie, but unfortunately she met Maggie Cheung's "In the Mood for Love".
Sammi Cheng was most popular and had the biggest chance to win the Best Actress Award in 2002.
That year, she was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Actress for her three films, "Skinny Man and Woman", "Honey Friends" and "Zhong Wuyan". Of the five nominees, Sammi Cheng occupied three, but she still lost to Sylvia Chang. "Eternal Life".
The Hong Kong girl spirit in Sammi Cheng is very tenacious, as if she is an invincible Xiaoqiang. Her strong willpower made her come out of the trough, and she did not fall to her knees in front of setbacks.
In 2005, she chose to take over the filming of "Song of Everlasting Sorrow" directed by Guan Jinpeng. The heroine of "Song of Everlasting Sorrow", Wang Qiyao, was a tragic character. Sammi Cheng was so deeply involved in the drama that she couldn't leave.
At that time, Sammi Cheng was already suffering from depression and was in a bad mood, but she still needed to gain weight and lose weight crazily for filming, and she almost exhausted her strength every day. Sometimes when she returns to her room after running, she starts crying and feels like she can't hold on any longer.
The bigger disaster is that "Song of Everlasting Sorrow" suffered a double blow at the box office and reputation, and Sammi Cheng's depression relapsed.
After "Song of Everlasting Sorrow", Sammi Cheng was unable to continue her career. She just disappeared from the world and disappeared for two years.
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Until 2007, Sammi Cheng returned from a long break.
She spent eight concerts to prove that she defeated her other self, so she worshiped herself and at the same time cheered up every fan.
Sammi Cheng described herself on stage as vigorous as a swimming lobster in Sai Kung Tong Kee, as happy as a cold germ, and the audience's enthusiastic performance was the biggest evidence.
"I know clearly that you are back, and more importantly, your courage is back."
Because of that courage, Sammi Cheng became even more tenacious and free-spirited after her comeback. She no longer resists exercise, but insists on running eight kilometers every day. She is also called "Miss Eight Kilometers" by fans.
Sammi Cheng's self-training is day after day, year after year. She has gained confidence due to exercise, and her mentality has changed. She does not need to look at her life through the words "Sammi Cheng is very thin".
Everyone will be curious. The cheating scumbags in the entertainment industry are obviously the same scumbags. Why do they still take risks and test themselves when faced with a precipitous decline in reputation and career?
In fact, what is more important is that they have enough certainty and assurance: no matter how hard they try to commit suicide, they can always seek forgiveness from their wives.
Ni Zhen cheated, Zhou Huimin said: "My partner can definitely afford to make this mistake."
article cheated, Ma Yili said: "Marriage is not easy, you have to do it and cherish it."
Chen Sicheng cheated, Tong Liya tolerated it, Silence.
Xu Zhian cheated, Sammi Cheng said: "It is a cliché that no one has faults, but it is true."
"Cheating, betrayal, cheating, and forgiveness" is the closed loop of most Chinese widowed marriages. Others lamented: They are all so scumbag, you are rich, talented and beautiful, why do you still knock out your teeth and swallow them?
Is it really because love is greater than the consumption of feelings caused by a certain injury? In fact, celebrities have to think more and are subject to more restrictions than ordinary people. Perhaps what we should see and think about is not just scandals and gossip.
After the incident involving Xu Zhian, Sammi Cheng’s best friend Zhu Tingxuan also published an 800-word long article on social platforms, angrily denounced the incident with sharp words.
"In today's era, male cheating seems to be very normal, not even a heinous crime?"
"Isn't their infidelity the result of your blind indulgence?"
"Infidelity, seduction, connivance, three This cycle of different roles has led to the collapse of the modern concept of love. "
But there is no absolute in matters of love. After all, whether to forgive or not is a personal choice and has nothing to do with others.