tina's view of love is not utilitarian, but a kind of wisdom for survival.
The reporter asked Zhu Zhu: "What if someone steals your boyfriend from you?"
Zhu Zhu replied: "Give it to her, there are many men."
It seems that in Zhu Zhu's world, she has always been sober.
With a superior family background, she chose to pursue her own career independently.
When you are in love, you continue to love; if you don't love, you let go.
After getting married, he still did not give up the pace of growth and continued to study.
Zhu Zhu, who has 100% control over her life, will not hesitate to fulfill her current desires every time she makes a choice.
Tina in "The Story of Rose" is exactly Zhu Zhu in real life.
Such a love is more worthy of talking about
In "The Story of a Rose", Zhu Zhu's scenes are not many.
But every scene is always hard to take away and impressive.
Especially her view of love.
She knows that in the world of love, most men bring side effects, and few can bring you collateral benefits.
So, in love, choose men who can bring you collateral benefits.
When there was a dilemma between love and career, and faced with a long-distance marriage that had lasted 8 years, she finally chose to let go and reunite with Lao Gu.
When she got divorced, she chose to give up a large amount of property.
Some people say she is stupid for giving up such a huge sum of money.
That's because she has received enough from Lao Gu.
Relying on Lao Gu, she got the resources and career she wanted. Through her career, she gained wealth and social status.
Although, she is strong enough on her own.
But without Lao Gu’s support, she would not be able to succeed.
For the sake of her career, she decisively chose to abort the child she had just conceived.
Because she understands very well that motherhood will inevitably affect a woman's career.
is always rational and focused on himself.
In the conversation between her and Lao Gu when they broke up, she said that she got resources, career, and love from Lao Gu.
tina is not just a person who blindly pursues power, but outside of love, she knows how to take advantage of power.
Compared with Tina's sobriety, Huang Yimei's view of love is completely different.
She believes that true love is pure and does not come with any benefits.
So, when her boss asked her to use her boyfriend’s resources to fight for the company’s interests.
Huang Yimei refused.
tina said to her:
"He can't do this for you, so what's the point of loving you? If he doesn't love you enough, what's the value of this relationship you're in?"
In Tina's understanding, a If a person cannot bring you any value, such love is meaningless.
In Huang Yimei's view, it is enough for two people to like each other without any interests involved.
However, Huang Yimei ignored what Tina said, a woman's flowering period is very short.
With Huang Yimei's appearance, knowledge, and taste, it would be a pity not to play well with such a good hand.
Yes, if a man really loves you and does a little thing for you, and he is not willing to do anything in his career, then what is the point of talking about love?
tina's view of love is not utilitarian, but a wisdom for survival.
This kind of love is more worth talking about!
Women with good careers also have good lives.
Since 2012, Zhu Zhu has been on the list of "Top 100 Most Beautiful Faces in the World" selected by the American film review website tc candle for 8 consecutive years.
Among Chinese female stars, Zhang Ziyi, Zhou Xun, Fan Bingbing and Liu Yifei have all been on the list, but only Zhu Zhu has been on the list for eight consecutive years.
With her superior family background, sexy appearance, and excellent career, Zhu Zhu can definitely marry into a wealthy family.
Her ex-boyfriends are also the sons of wealthy families around the world.
So in 2021, when she announced her marriage, many netizens speculated that she would marry a wealthy family.
Her husband Wang Yunjia is an outsider.
There are rumors that Wang Yunjia is an art teacher at Tsinghua University, and some people say that he is an invisible rich second generation.
In fact, he is the founder of Sartorial, an Italian men's clothing buyer store.
Zhu Zhu was pampered like a princess in this marriage and lived a casual and free life.
In an interview program, Zhu Zhu said that she likes art and likes to watch various exhibitions.
Her husband is willing to accompany her to study and appreciate, and will also accompany her to watch exhibitions.
She said she felt freer after giving birth to her daughter.
In June 2023, just after "Sister Lang 4" ended, Zhu Zhu unexpectedly chose to study in France.
She graduated this year. Her parents, daughter and husband all flew to France to witness the important moment together, holding flowers in their arms and walking on the campus lawn together.
After marriage, Zhu Zhu became more and more self-consistent, free and happy with herself.
Perhaps, Zhu Zhu never wanted to marry a wealthy family. She just spent her whole life being herself and met a soul she liked.
The truth of marriage is probably this, let the other person continue to be themselves and continue to become a better person.
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Author: Wan Muzi, ccdm Chinese career planner, bsc Senior career planner, American Schuber School career planner, more than 9 years of corporate project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, mother of two children.