by Luo Moli
Ji Xing was repeatedly made things difficult by the boss and supervisor of the company and was forced to resign.
There is no sure-win rule for advancing or retreating in the workplace. As someone who has been in the workplace for more than ten years, let me say a few words.
When a job is uncomfortable and there is a high probability that the final result will be to leave, you must know how to protect your best interests, work hard to find a job, or plan the next step. Regarding food and clothing, and direction, don’t be in a hurry. Let's go, think more clearly, and then try to get reasonable compensation as much as possible, choose the right time, salary, bonus, performance, subsidy, compensation...
The more you actually get, the better. Don't give up real money just for the sake of emotion.
Of course, you must also know how to stop losses in time.
If you live in an environment that is inconsistent with your own aura and magnetic field, the result will be a loss of visible career prospects and real rewards, which is tantamount to self-destruction.
Although you don't want to be motivated, you don't need to practice tolerance for yourself and find fault. After all, the focus of the golden period of your career is [growth] rather than [endurance].
You must know that sometimes it is a good thing to prevent the worse from happening.
If you don’t put an end to the bad, there will be no room for good luck and good things in your life.
After Ji Xing resigned, Han Ting sent her a job invitation, hoping that she could join his research and development team of Smart Cloud Doctor. Faced with Ji Xing’s non-compete restriction, Han Ting once again took over the boss: "I can help you. "Dismissed." He also told her, "If you have any other requirements or conditions, just raise them."
Han Ting has this ability. As the boss behind the two companies, Ji Xing is unparalleled in the industry. The biggest stumbling block for continuing to find a job does not exist for Han Ting. It is just to transfer Ji Xing to a position in his own area and get a promotion and salary increase.
The truth about the workplace is that bosses and employees are not on the same level.
The reason why Ba Zong is so lovable in love is because what he says is not only pleasing to the ears, but can also be realized. There is both this [heart] and this [ability].
When Ji Xing was hesitant, confused and self-doubting about herself, when she felt that her efforts and rewards in the workplace were not proportional, when she had no choice but to face the fact that worldliness was more important than professional skills and had to face it, what she quit was not just a job. I was divided into jobs and lost my sense of direction for the future.
In fact, this is also a problem that many of us face after moving from campus to the workplace-reality and imagination are different.
Regarding this, Han Ting first confirmed the facts discovered by Ji Xing and told her that she was right, [reality] was indeed like this, absolutely beyond imagination and subversive of imagination.
Han Ting can easily see the reality clearly. This is of course related to their own experience.
Children from ordinary families and children from famous shopping malls are not superior to each other, but they are indeed different.
Ji Xing understood and learned how to get good grades in school, how to find a good job, how to do a good job in the workplace, and how to get first place.
But what Han Ting studied was the rules of the business world and the human world, the game calculation between human nature and people's hearts, and how to get the [purpose] he wanted.
The workplace is like a battlefield, where one general achieves great success and his bones are destroyed. The boss is naturally based on the brainstorming and labor results of countless ordinary workers. Don't rush to refute it, listen to what they have to say, there is no harm in it.
As for the boss, the focus is not on the "overlord", but on the "general". You can get the platform, perspective and wisdom of the "general" from him.
They are willing to give these to you in the name of love. This is the cuteness of the boss.
Han Ting said: "If you don't want to be assimilated, the easiest way is to find people who are compatible with you."
This is a very positive value orientation.
Too many people are afraid of "I am different from others" and are constantly looking for an antidote that will make it less uncomfortable to be assimilated. However, this sentence bid farewell to "waiting thinking" and became "must thinking".
If what you encounter is not the same, then go out and look for yourself. If you feel that you are different, it is not your own problem or your own fault. It is because the circles are different. If the circles are right, they are all the same kind.
But it is not easy. Going out will always face more risks, crises and challenges than waiting in place. Of course, you will also get unexpected surprises or shocks accordingly.
I don’t think there is any superiority or inferiority between being in the majority or being in the minority. The difference is just whether being in one’s own comfortable circle or one’s own strong circle brings oneself comfort or internal friction.
However, what Han Ting really defeated Shao Yichen was [understanding], but it was more than just understanding. To be more precise, it should be [same frequency].
Faced with Ji Xing's resignation, Shao Yichen accepted it. Of course, he gave him comfort and tried to adapt. This was already rare, but it was visible to the naked eye that he was uncomfortable and reluctant.
In the end, he couldn't stand it anymore and broke up. It's because the two of them are not on the same frequency at all.
As the saying goes, "sharing joys and sorrows", if two people can't share happiness together, even if they can share pain together, it won't work.
Shao Yichen didn't care at all about Ji Xing's inner happiness.
Ji Xing actually didn't understand what Shao Yichen really cared about.
When Ji Xing sighed: "The vast universe makes us so small."
Han Ting's reply was: "Don't be afraid of being small, as long as you live a meaningful life. No matter how big the universe is, it will still be because of some small efforts. "It becomes different."
Ji Xing stared at him. It turned out that this sentence was said by Ji Xing during a competition speech in college. He still remembered it, and she also remembered it, so he cared about her, or that was what was in his heart. ; So she cares about him remembering, or she has found her original intention at this moment.
There are many sides to this world. Different people choose to see different sides, but they happen to choose to see the same side.
I hope that whatever you see will hit her/his heart.
The author of this article: Luo Moli.
Wild writers born in the 1980s work in the workplace during the day and write for self-entertainment at night. They feel with their heart, express sincerely, live freely, and grow old calmly. Reviews of popular and classic dramas are updated one after another. Welcome to follow and watch dramas with you to talk about life.
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