The TV series " Degrees of Chinese Time " starring Zhao Jinmai and Zhang Linghe is currently on the air.
The eldest princess Li Rong and her "darling husband" Prince Consort Pei Wenxuan finally ushered in a sweet honeymoon period. They were only sweet for one year in the previous life and then experienced more than 20 years of resentment and hostility. In this life, Pei Wenxuan has a long mouth and the princess is no longer arrogant.
The two went from allies to best friends to lovers. Pei Wen announced, " I am willing to dedicate happiness in the world to repay your kindness." Many viewers were excited when they saw it.
experienced similar things in both lives. Emperor Li Ming wanted to take back power, he wanted to depose the prince who represented the aristocratic family, the princess wanted to ensure that her younger brother ascended the throne safely, and Pei Wenxuan wanted to give the poor family a chance. The two people have experienced similar things, but why did they change from a good couple to a bitter couple in the previous life?
Before Pei Wenxuan’s mother came out, Xiao Qing still couldn’t understand. It wasn't until I saw the conversation between Pei Wenxuan and his mother, and understood the way that Pei Wenxuan's father who died young taught him to treat his wife and family well, that he realized that Pei Wenxuan and Li Rong in his previous life were really destined to be separated.
Pei Wenxuan's father doted on the Wen family like a flower in the greenhouse
The Pei family, counting up to three generations, was actually a poor family. The so-called poor families are not poor people, but small and medium-sized landowners who are officials but of low rank.
The Pei family has not been in Kyoto for generations. It was Pei Wenxuan's father, Pei Lizhi, who walked into the palace and the center of power on his own, and brought the entire Pei family to its current position.
But it is a pity that Pei Lizhi died young. He left behind his son Pei Wenxuan and his fragile wife Wen.
Pei Lizhi's view of family is that as a husband, he should protect his wife and children and give her the best life. No matter what happens at home or outside the home, he should take responsibility for it, and he should bear all responsibilities and obligations alone. Therefore, Mrs. Wen never knew that the second and third wives were eyeing her, nor could she see the favoritism and incompetence of Mr. Pei's family.
In addition to dealing with the court, Pei Lizhi also has to mediate in the family. Not only did he do this himself, he also taught his son Pei Wenxuan that as a man, he should learn to protect women and should shoulder everything by himself like him.
Therefore, when Wen married into the Pei family, she had long been accustomed to this kind of life. She relied on her husband for everything without having to worry about anything. It’s as if I’m not needed by the whole world. She could not find the value and meaning of her existence.
When Pei Lizhi suddenly passed away, Pei Wenxuan was still young. She was like a flower in a greenhouse, still living in her own world, letting others command her and doing whatever she said. Losing opinions and losing basic judgment.
was eating fast and praying to Buddha in the small Buddhist hall, mourning her husband, but completely forgetting that her child was still young. She only remembered that she lost her husband, but completely forgot that Pei Wenxuan also lost his father and mother.
So when Pei Wenxuan became an adult, he was obviously the best in everything, but his life was very difficult. I had no money to go out to socialize, so I had to rent the family carriage, and I was scolded for getting mud all over it. In his weak years, other relatives had already planned the Qingyun Road, and before Pei Wenxuan married the princess, he was just a ninth-grade sesame official.
Pei Lizhi clearly left his property to his son, Pei Lizhi was clearly known to the emperor, and Pei Wenxuan could have been as dazzling as Su Rongqing.
Ms. Wen gave her husband’s connections, resources, and money to the second room manager because others said they were doing her good, so she believed it. Because she is not needed, she cannot see the truth that her son is trying so hard to hide. Pei Wenxuan clearly knew that if he spoke out and stood up to force his mother to ask for it, he could live a good life.
But under his father's instructions, he thought that this was a man's business, and it was my own business. It is enough for the mother to live a stable life.
Pei Wenxuan grew up under this kind of teaching, and entered into his marriage with the princess with this kind of thinking, but he forgot that the princess who grew up in the royal family was never a delicate flower.
In his previous life, after Pei Wenxuan and Ding You, he was ordered by the emperor to become Princess Shang's consort.At that time, he heard that Li Rong had a bad temper and loved to hit people. He went to marry the princess with great anxiety. After the marriage, the princess and the consort had a sweet relationship for a year.
But the contradiction between the aristocratic family and the poor family, the imperial power and the aristocratic family has become irreconcilable. If Pei Wenxuan wanted to stand shoulder to shoulder with Li Rong, he would have no choice but to obey and become the sword in His Majesty's hand.
Pei Wenxuan always thought that he was strong enough to protect Li Rong and give Li Rong stability. But he forgot that Li Rong was not a mother, and she was never a delicate flower.
Li Rong was born as a peony. When the flowers bloom, they are famous in the capital and are dazzling. What he thought was good for her was actually not what Li Rong wanted. Pei Wenxuan would rather do more by himself, not talk or ask, and just suffer in silence.
But as Li Rong said, only the parties involved know which way is better. You have to give her the choice instead of selfishly making the decision for her. To put it bluntly, there is a bit of machismo, that is, you don’t need to choose, you just need to do your part, and I will arrange everything for you. Once the other party wants to make some resistance, they will think why you didn’t choose me. Arranged.
To put it more deeply, I just don’t believe that women can hold up half the sky.
In his previous life, Pei Wenxuan saw Li Rong and Su Rongqing together and felt that they were in love, but the maid clearly said that the princess is waiting for you. Waiting for your words, waiting for your explanation, waiting for you to go home. But he chose to walk away and give in.
Above the court, Pei Wenxuan saw that the family was in a state of decay, while Li Rong had no choice but to be tied to the interests of the family. As a result, there are different political views and tit-for-tat confrontations, and each has its own means.
But in Li Rong's view, it was you who stood on the opposite side of me, who no longer wanted me, who gave up on the covenant between us.
As a result, the two people clearly still have each other in their hearts, but they move towards deeper resentment step by step.
Fortunately, after reviving his life, Pei Wenxuan finally opened his mouth, learned the "hook bar style", and learned the green tea mode without any teacher. Start a variety of ways to chase your wife. Fortunately, he was determined to make up for his regrets.
So, what is a good marriage? It is that I know everything about you and tell you everything, it is mutual trust and honesty, and it is showing that I need you. It's not that I'm hiding it for your own good, I'm doing this all for your sake.
Wind flows, and so does love. Only emotions that run in both directions will overflow.
I'm really glad that Pei Wenxuan has a chance to make amends again, and I'm really glad that Li Rong has a partner on the road ahead.
So what kind of method do you think is really good for a person? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area, and thank you all for reading, liking, forwarding, collecting, and following
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