The fastest changing thing in the world is human thoughts.
insisted on leaving the 20-year-old Huang Yimei to go to Zhuang Guodong in France. When Huang Yimei was 40 years old, she chose to leave France completely and return to Beijing.
Jiang Xueqiong teased him, "Do you want to get closer to Huang Yimei?"
Zhuang Guodong's father also joked with him. After meeting the big boss, thousands of beauties have no color.
But Zhuang Guodong, who is nearly 50 years old, is not a lover.
The reason why he gave up France and completely returned to live in Beijing was not because of Huang Yimei, but because of a change in his mood.
When Zhuang Guodong applied for a position in France and went there without hesitation, he kept saying that France would give him a better career and better development.
Who made him think that jobs in France must be better than those in China?
Going to France and staying in France mean you will be more promising?
are parents who are constantly fighting and making very different choices.
Zhuang Guodong, who was in love with Huang Yimei at that time, had not yet figured out the reason why his parents got divorced.
just blindly followed the seemingly more successful mother and subconsciously looked down on the "unpromising" father.
When he was arguing with Huang Yimei, he once blurted out, "I don't want to be as useless as my father!"
In order to be more "successful", Zhuang Guodong is anxious and utilitarian, and will show no mercy to any ideas that are not in line with the "path to success" Cut off the ground.
In this state of mind, when Zhuang Guodong heard Huang Yimei's idea of staying in China to work and live, he naturally stood in his mother's position and taught Huang Yimei a lesson just like his mother taught his father.
He only focused on "success" with Huang Yimei, but he forgot that lovers should respect each other.
20 years later, Zhuang Guodong, who got into the position of vice president of Asia, discovered the taste of success, but that was it.
Huang Yimei, who stayed in China, has always lived a peaceful life.
Fang Xiewen, the poor boy who married Huang Yimei and then lost her, also struggled in China and became an upstart entrepreneur, with much more assets than Zhuang Guodong.
The so-called mother who is on the road to success also has her own unbearable pain.
And the "promising" father also made his own achievements in obscurity.
Only then did Zhuang Guodong realize that his thoughts back then were really narrow, and his mother's "success theory" was not that reasonable.
He finally changed his eagerness to move closer to his mother, began to slow down, and learned to respect other people's choices.
Zhuang Guodong came to the art museum for a meeting and had a quick meeting with Huang Yimei.
Then, Huang Yimei left holding the motorcycle helmet, and Zhuang Guodong immediately came to the window and took a picture of Huang Yimei's chic back as she rode away.
If it were Zhuang Guodong back then, he would probably disagree with Huang Yimei riding a motorcycle from the bottom of his heart and would immediately start educating her.
But now, Zhuang Guodong only discussed safety issues with Jiang Xueqiong for a few words, and then watched Huang Yimei's video over and over again with a smile.
He no longer demands others according to his own ideas, and he also knows that he is not qualified to say anything, so he can completely relax and appreciate Huang Yimei today.
When having dinner with his old father, Zhuang Guodong took out the floor plan of the new house and said that he had reserved the large south-facing bedroom for his father.
But he did not force his father to move in, but gave his father the right to choose.
At that time, he looked down on his father's poor writing career. Now, he is very concerned about his father's works and recognizes his father's career very much.
These changes show that Zhuang Guodong has finally got out of the shadow of taking sides between his parents, and can look at his parents' choices neutrally, and no longer demands himself according to his mother's ideas.
In fact, he also feels that living in a pigeon cage in Paris is very aggrieved. He also likes to live in China. He does not feel that his father's work is worthless.
It's just that back then, he didn't dare to think or speak, so he could only push forward desperately, coerced by his mother's ideas.
Now, Zhuang Guodong can finally get rid of his mother's influence, face his heart calmly, and make his own choices.
Returning to live in Beijing was actually Zhuang Guodong's own wish and had nothing to do with Huang Yimei.
If Zhuang Guodong could block his mother's influence back then, maybe he and Huang Yimei would not have reached this point.
Unfortunately there is no if.
Returning to live in Beijing was actually Zhuang Guodong's own wish and had nothing to do with Huang Yimei.
If Zhuang Guodong could block his mother's influence back then, maybe he and Huang Yimei would not have reached this point.
Unfortunately there is no if.
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